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How does a smart mother make friends with "bad classmates"?
There is such a case, his son is in the second day of this year, and he will be promoted to the third day soon after the start of school, and his grades have been in the top ten of the grade.

At this juncture, he became friends with hooligans in society and sneaked out to play with them every weekend. Last week, I found that he confiscated his mobile phone and asked him to reflect on himself. But he had a big fight with me, saying that playing with them is much happier than at home. It is his freedom to choose friends, so let me mind my own business. What if I don't care and he doesn't learn well?

First of all, we need to know what a bad boy is and what is the definition of a bad boy.

When defining good children and bad children, many parents will judge them by their grades. Those with good grades are good children, while those with poor grades are bad children. This is not right. A really good boy can't be judged only by his grades. A person's quality and personality are the most important. Knowing this, we can say, what should we do if children play with bad children?

What would you do if your child's friend got good grades, but his personality and behavior were flawed? If children's friends don't get good grades, they are loyal and polite. At this time, who would you let your child associate with?

I believe that more rational parents will choose the latter. Hard work can get results, but character and morality are hard to come by. Parents should be very happy if they can have such a friend.

Children with bad children should be stopped by players?

From the above analysis, we can also see that if a really bad boy has a problem with his conduct and keeps taking his child away from his study and letting him learn some bad customs, then such friends and parents must stop it. It's not unreasonable that people who are close to Zhu Zhechi are black, but parents should pay attention to the ways and means, otherwise it will easily lead to contradictions.

However, if the children's friends don't have too many flaws in personality, but their grades are not good or their family conditions are not so good, in this case, parents can try their best to let the two children work together and don't stop them, which will hurt their young hearts. Parents can take some measures to make the two children have a better relationship and make progress in their studies. Wouldn't that be better?