Men love to scold women because they have a psychology. Perhaps it is the psychology of inferiority and revenge. Do you want to know more information? Then let's put you down! One of the reasons is inferiority complex. Don't think that a man looks strong on the surface, but he is actually a person with insufficient self-confidence and inferiority. On the contrary, he punishes people, hits people and curses people, which shows that he is hiding his inferiority complex. In the process of building self-confidence, especially those who are the least prepared, the most vulnerable, the most knowledgeable and the closest, the wife is one of the first choices and naturally acts as the first person abused by their inferiority complex. In real life, most of the abused women are excellent, gentle and knowledgeable, and her Excellence just deepens his inferiority. If there is a man who always compares with his wife, such a man is estimated to be an able person, and he is quite excellent in both economy and status. So I always think that my wife should do things according to her own requirements, and swear as long as she doesn't agree with her. Of course, in addition to the inferiority complex mentioned above, men's sense of superiority is sometimes very terrible. When a man is always used to comparing himself with his wife and how well he can do, he is also prone to be paranoid about scolding his wife. This is a reflection of his inner sense of superiority, and he needs to scold and punish his wife to fill the sense of superiority between him and his wife. To deal with this kind of man, you should constantly improve yourself, be as independent as possible in life, spirit and economy, and constantly strengthen your study. Tell him through your subconscious that you are actually better than him in many ways. When encountering an argument, don't argue with him too much. If you want to argue, grab him and criticize him to death, so that his sense of superiority disappears, or simply ignore his existence, let him talk to himself, and make him feel that ignoring him is the biggest counterattack against his sense of superiority. Revenge is the most terrible. Some men behave like gentlemen before marriage, but they become male chauvinists after marriage. A man said that before marriage, she and her family didn't treat me like a human being, and I was left to do the dirty work at home alone. Always say that I am not as good as her brother in front of me; I made a joke casually, making her angry and coaxing her to ignore me for a week; It's disrespectful of her to keep me waiting for an hour on a date. Now that I'm married, I don't have to look at her face anymore. I'm tired of this kind of life anyway. She loves me, but I can't wait! Of course, this is just a kind of revenge psychology of men, that is, premarital revenge by marriage. But there is also a more common revenge, that is, extramarital revenge by marriage. What is more terrible than superiority is revenge. Many men can be obedient to you before marriage, but they are completely different after marriage, and the possibility of revenge cannot be ruled out. In a word, this revenge man is the least quality and the most terrible. It seems really difficult to find a good countermeasure except breaking up and fighting violence with violence. Abnormal psychology is such psychology. The reason for this kind of psychology is that it was not cured in time. The best way to deal with such patients is to let doctors treat them.