People living in the world should not only abide by laws and regulations, but also abide by moral norms. Only in this way can they have a good image in people's minds. Many people speak ill of a person behind his back, which means that this person must have some bad language and behavior. Although it does not violate laws and regulations, it does not meet people's cognition and requirements for moral norms. It is possible to challenge people's bottom line in dressing and treating people, so that everyone can't understand him, and if they can't accommodate him, they will talk about him behind his back. The way to make people stop talking about this is to strengthen their self-cultivation, improve their quality, correct some of their bad habits and communicate with you more often.