Now that life has improved, young people should be healthier. Why are there so many infertile people?
Ms. Z, 28, luxury marketing manager.
Ms z, height 174, actually weighs only 90kg. Slender figure and fashionable dress can always stand out and win countless turns.
It is a woman's nature to love beauty. In addition to the hardware provided by her parents, it takes a lot of effort and cost to maintain this beauty. In particular, to maintain a slim figure, especially need to pay more hardships.
Of course, Ms. Z is no exception. Since college, she has paid great attention to keeping healthy. The secret of her health is not only through exercise, but also through strict diet.
When I am with my best friend, I always talk about these words: I want to be a lightning bolt, thinner and more beautiful. Can I be thinner? ...
Perhaps in the luxury marketing industry, it is very important to keep slim. Even after marriage, Ms. Z insisted on eating less and dieting.
Two years before marriage, the couple didn't consider having children, and there is nothing wrong with dieting and losing weight. But since the birth of the child, it is still very annoying and very distressing.
It turns out that the cost of slimming is not only the pain of dieting, but also the difficulty of pregnancy. Even the best seeds are difficult to germinate on barren land.
The husband and wife struggled hard for more than two years, but their stomachs still didn't respond. There is nothing wrong with going to the hospital for examination. The doctor said it was too difficult to get pregnant.
Later, even both parents were worried. Mother-in-law went to Kannonji to bow her head, and after many bags, she still didn't touch the Bodhisattva.
Ms w, 27, a bank clerk.
Ms W comes from a small mountain village in the northwest of China. She majored in accounting in three universities. After graduation, he was recruited as a dispatched employee by a joint-stock bank.
Ms w cherishes the job opportunities in the bank very much. She usually works hard and often works overtime to catch up with her performance, hoping to improve her performance and win the favor of her leaders.
In recent two years, the competition in the banking industry has become more and more fierce, the performance indicators have become heavier and heavier, and it has become more and more difficult to improve performance. Compared with those colleagues who come from cities and have a lot of social resources, Ms. W feels that it is not easy to make achievements.
Since they got married, their parents-in-law have been urging them to have children. Both of them are in good health, probably because they are too busy and stressed, and their time is out of sync. They worked hard for a long time and never got pregnant.
In the first half of this year, I finally got pregnant and miscarried because of that continuous overtime and staying up late. For this reason, she was depressed for a long time.
Sometimes she really wants to quit her job and get pregnant, but only by her husband's salary, there is little left after paying off the mortgage, and it is even more stressful to have a child.
Moreover, if you quit your present job, it will be difficult for you to have another chance to enter the bank in the future. But seeing that she is getting older and older, she will enter the old-age maternity industry if she doesn't hurry, which makes her fall into a long-term entanglement.
Ms. L, 29, is a public relations officer.
Ms. L is the wealth public relations manager of a wealth company. She is slender, beautiful and aggressive, and belongs to the kind of beauty who can catch a man's eye unconsciously.
Ms. L has been quite fashionable and open-minded since her college days. She has had more than double-digit secret boyfriends and many miscarriages.
After graduating from college, I joined a wealth company as a business publicist. My income is very high, but I have many recreational activities. I often have to accompany all kinds of rich people to pull business. I really often walk by the river. I can't help it
Ms. L's husband is very simple and usually doesn't talk much. She was introduced, but she didn't like it from the beginning. Only later, when I was older, I was used to seeing rich people and felt that a simple husband was safer and more reliable, so I chose my husband.
In her opinion, it doesn't matter if her husband has less money, she can earn it, as long as she doesn't interfere with her. She met too many rich and powerful men, basically carnivores, unfaithful to their wives, having affairs everywhere and often cheating.
After several years of marriage, she didn't have children, not that she didn't want to have children, but that it was difficult for her to get pregnant, and it was easy to have a miscarriage when she got pregnant.
I have been to the hospital many times, and the doctor told her privately that in view of the present situation of her uterus, I may never have a baby in my life. She was sad to know the result and felt a little sorry for her husband, but she was afraid to tell him the truth.
In fact, no matter how the society changes, it is a woman's unshirkable responsibility to be a good mother. In such a complex society, with so many temptations, women need to restrain and give up, and pay more attention to the present rights, otherwise they may lose more than they gain and regret it.