First of all, brother, you have to understand that you have married her. Even if the whole world dislikes her being fat, you can't dislike her being fat. If you think she is too fat, why do you want to marry her? Then, if she is really too fat and you are worried that it will affect her health, you should try to make her lose weight! Generally speaking, if you tell her directly that you are too fat, it is time to lose weight, which will hurt her self-esteem and think that you have changed. You used to be different. You didn't dislike her being fat before. If you get married, everything will change, and so on. Don't underestimate a woman's associative ability. She can associate your past and future from a small matter. So don't be a straight man without brains unless you want your marriage to come to an end.

So what should you do? A very important reason for obesity is to eat too much nutrition, that is, to eat too much greasy food at ordinary times. If your daughter-in-law cooks at home, she will definitely do what she likes, which will inevitably lead to a lot of high-fat food. At this time, you need to take the initiative to take over the right to cook at home. Then arrange the recipes reasonably to avoid excessive fat intake. Then you can take your daughter-in-law to exercise together. Of course, the reason for going to the gym is from you, for example, you want to lose weight, or you want to keep fit, you feel that your physique is too weak and you need to improve. Then tell your daughter-in-law that it's boring to exercise alone, and she must accompany you. In short, be cute and coquettish, no matter what method, as long as it is useful. In short, you can't clearly express the idea that you need to lose weight. Cut in from the side and let her deeply understand your good intentions.