"I used to think a lot when I took my children." Patty Hou said, but since I participated in the parent-child reality show "Take me away", my mind has gradually changed. In the program, she is the head of the school and often takes six children to experience it. At first, she was quite nervous, worried that her children would not have enough to eat and get hurt, but it was the children who told her not to be so nervous. Patty Hou found that whether she was a principal or a mother, she was too nervous and restricted at first, but this actually limited the children's desire for exploration and room for growth. When she goes home to take care of the children after the program, she will also remind herself to relax, learn to be friends with the children, enjoy the parent-child time, such as telling stories, reading books, playing games and not worrying too much about other things.
Organic parenting philosophy, hormones, pesticides ... go all out
Talking about her educational philosophy, Patty Hou said: "Children are like seeds and parents are gardeners. Parents cultivate seeds in an organic way, instead of using chemical fertilizers and pesticides to plant growing seedlings, patiently watering and gently accompanying them, so that children can grow and thrive in the most natural and natural way. Whether the memories and experiences of childhood are good or not will often affect a person's life. In fact, children's growth is a natural process. For example, organic pastures should have a fallow period of at least three years, so that the soil can slowly precipitate and breed sufficient nutrients, and then pastures and crops will grow better and stronger.
Patty Hou also believes that "many parents will treat their children according to their own standards. But every child has unlimited possibilities, so parents should relax. After all, children need a lot of freedom to grow up. Education must be patient, not eager for quick success, give children time and patience to accompany them, let them know that we love them, tolerate their mistakes, understand that they are learning, judging and understanding the right and wrong of the world, and let them learn and grow at their own pace. Every child has his own natural temperament and different talents. Just like seeds, they will blossom and bear fruit or grow into different kinds of trees. As parents of gardeners, they should avoid overusing "growth hormone" or using unnatural external forces such as "transgene" to change their children's nature. We should return to nature, find the most suitable training method in the process of taking care of children, provide appropriate nutrition, teach students in accordance with their aptitude, and help children grow up naturally. 」
A mother who is afraid of insects bravely approaches nature for her children.
Return to nature. Refuse to encourage others to grow. Patty Hou's philosophy of organic education has a bright smile like sunshine and beautiful eyes that can talk. She is the famous host Patty Hou. Everyone's impression of Patty Hou is nothing more than a former anchor with a sweet smile, a fluent program host, and an eternal goddess in many people's minds. However, Patty Hou under the screen is also the dearest mother of two children. The eldest son Ian is four and a half years old, and the youngest son Ethan 1 year and a half. What kind of parenting philosophy does Patty Hou adhere to in her daily family life? How does she define the roles of parents and children in family relations? How does she adjust herself and strike a balance among multiple identities? Eat a healthy diet and eat less processed food.
Patty Hou believes that taking care of children should conform to and pursue nature. Similarly, in daily life, for the sake of children's health, she seldom lets children eat processed food or snacks and sweets, but tries to eat natural food. Many mothers will want to ask, "How can children be willing to eat less snacks? Patty Hou also shared her own practice. She will find relevant books and picture books, and educate children by telling stories, so that children can't eat foods containing caffeine or artificial additives. When relatives and friends want to invite Ian to eat chocolate, Ian will take the initiative to say, "children can't eat chocolate!" When eating at home, Ian and Ethan eat more "steamed" food, and their diet is based on health.
Patty Hou will do this when children compete for favor.
The eldest son Ian has become very sensible since he became a younger brother, and sometimes he helps to take care of his younger brother Ethan, which also makes Patty Hou very moved. However, many parents with Shuang Bao will face the problem of their children competing for favor, and Patty Hou's family is no exception. She said, "Ian usually loves his brother very much, but if I am playing with Ian, but I want to change his diaper, Ian will sometimes be jealous and ask, can I invite my father?" Patty Hou will appease Ian at this time: "Mom will walk faster. Ian was also asked to count from 1 to 20. When he counts to 20, his mother will change his brother's diaper. At the same time, let Ian think about what he wants to do, let Ian learn the concept of waiting, and gradually learn to take care of his brother with his mother, for example, accompany his mother to help his brother put on bath water. As for the youngest son Ethan, he likes his brother very much. Ethan first learned to call his brother when he was under 65,438+0. When I see my brother, I will always call him "brother, brother". The relationship between the two brothers is quite good.
Mom, don't forget to love yourself.
Return to nature. Refuse to encourage others to grow. Patty Hou's philosophy of organic education has a bright smile like sunshine and beautiful eyes that can talk. She is the famous host Patty Hou. Everyone's impression of Patty Hou is nothing more than a former anchor with a sweet smile, a fluent program host, and an eternal goddess in many people's minds. However, Patty Hou under the screen is also the dearest mother of two children. The eldest son Ian is four and a half years old, and the youngest son Ethan 1 year and a half. What kind of parenting philosophy does Patty Hou adhere to in her daily family life? How does she define the roles of parents and children in family relations? How does she adjust herself and strike a balance among multiple identities? Mommy is happy and confident, and the parent-child relationship is closer.
Whenever Patty Hou wants to go out to work, Ian is always reluctant. At this time, she would say to Ian, "When you grow up, you should also do what you like and work. Mommy will fully support you then. The sensible Ian listened and said, "All right! Then you go! Patty Hou also believes that with the growth of children's age, mothers will go to work, they will not stare at their children for 24 hours, and the balance of life will not be too tilted. At the same time, they should let their children know that "Mommy has her own things to do and can't stay with you all the time", which can make the parent-child relationship more balanced and cherish each other's intimate time more.
Patty Hou also shared an interesting thing that happened recently. She smiled and said, "Once I went to pick up Ian from class and chatted with Ian in the car. Halfway through, Ian suddenly pointed to the bus outside the window and said, "mom, that's you!" "Why are you there? Ian refers to the bus that just posted an advertisement for Patty Hou's endorsement of public welfare activities. ) Patty Hou also smiled and said, "It's a little hard to explain why I was there. 」
In marriage, be yourself.
Patty Hou believes that her husband Huang Bojun made her discover that in marriage, she can be herself easily without changing or pretending to please others. As for bringing up children, the attitude of husband and wife to bring up children is mostly the same. When they encounter child-rearing problems, they will discuss and remind each other, and she will respect her husband's opinion. There is no special distinction between the two, lest the child feel that he can ask one of them for help.
Postpartum slimming is what you eat.
Even after having two children, Patty Hou still has an enviable figure. How on earth does she keep slim? She said: "What you eat is what you eat, and what food you eat will be reflected in your physical condition. Food intake is very important, because food may cause different physical conditions. She suggested that everyone should observe the changes of body and skin state after eating, and everyone is different. For example, if she eats too many eggs and milk, she will remind herself not to eat too much. The super foods in her mind are oats, quinoa and avocado, all of which are mainly natural foods. As for postpartum slimming, the "8-hour light diet" (start eating in the morning 10 and stop eating after 6 pm. Eat less when you are hungry at night, eat less processed food, eat snacks occasionally, and take a bath to help metabolism. In addition, the most important thing is to keep a cheerful mood, eat more occasionally, and eat less when your pants are tight. In fact, whether you are slimming or parenting, you should put it in and out moderately like flying a kite. Don't press it too hard, so that the effect can last and you won't fall to the extreme because of excessive depression.
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