"What did self-discipline bring you?"
There is a highly praised answer:
Self-disciplined people are outstanding, and those who are not self-disciplined are out.
What a good warning word. This answer, millions of people pay attention to praise.
Everyone wants to make progress and be self-disciplined, but often the heat dissipates in three minutes and returns to the original state. While worrying about the status quo, I didn't change my perseverance.
Many people are in intermittent self-discipline and persistent laziness.
There is a saying that goes like this:
"Low-level desires rely on indulgence, high-level desires rely on self-discipline, and top desires rely on hardship."
How cool is a self-disciplined life?
The book "When you are self-disciplined, you can be cool and cool" can give an answer.
Author Liang Shuang, a self-disciplined life from getting up early and getting up at 5 o'clock every day, lasted for 14 years; Busy and beautiful, insist on fun running and skin care; Writing in her spare time, the masterpiece "When you are self-disciplined, you can be cool and cool" is her third new book.
This little bit of self-discipline makes her life cool and cool.
Her self-discipline has brought me three inspirations and I want to share them with you.
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Many people think that self-discipline suppresses nature, which is bound to be accompanied by boredom and bitterness. But on the contrary, a self-disciplined life is full of joy and prosperity.
Liang Shuang, a writer, goes to bed early and gets up early, and likes running. What wakes you up every day is not an alarm clock, but a dream.
When you really want to do something, have the desire to succeed and become stronger and better, self-discipline is not passive for you.
What is your early income?
Kobe Bryant at 4 am, I believe everyone knows his efforts.
A reporter asked him:
"Why are you so successful?"
Kobe asked:
"Do you know what Los Angeles is like at four in the morning?"
At four o'clock in the morning, Los Angeles is still dark, with few stars and few pedestrians.
Kobe has been walking in the dark streets of Los Angeles. One day has passed, and the darkness in Los Angeles has not changed at all. Two days have passed, and the darkness has not changed at all.
Ten years later, the street darkness in Los Angeles at four o'clock in the morning has not changed, but he has become a muscular, energetic, powerful and high shooting percentage athlete.
Some people are still dreaming big dreams at home, and some people rely on self-discipline to move from nothing to success.
People who are better than us are still desperate.
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Some people say that adults should give up their feelings.
In this book, the author Liang Shuang also talks about self-control of emotions, which is the focus of her practice in recent years. Although I still can't play it back freely, there is an inch of joy in entering.
Life is a chicken feather, life is nothing, people are prone to anxiety, and their abilities are not worthy of their ambitions.
A truly mature person will not waste time on anxiety, will not let himself blx, and will be strong enough to leave the shadow behind.
The author says, since you want to be good to yourself, don't indulge yourself. We are in a bad mood today and in a bad mood tomorrow. Three or four days is the upper limit.
Don't let negative emotions control you. What you need to do is to do your own thing and mind other people's business, regardless of God's business.
Mark Twain said:
"People's life is always worrying. In fact, many concerns have never really happened. "
If people want to learn self-acceptance, there is no need to worry about what they have lost and what they have not gained.
Self-discipline is also cultivating the mind. When you learn to control your emotions and calm down, your inner confusion will be quietly cured.
When the days get better, life will also shine with bright traces.
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Sometimes, people who are addicted to "grand narrative" can achieve nothing.
The author says that people who just talk about change and dreams, but delay action, are most likely to be abolished.
Someone on the Internet asked:
"What do you think is your greatest progress in recent years?"
Blogger Hesenberg said:
"I am no longer keen on grand narrative, but pay more attention to specific problems in my life."
Debater Ma Weiwei said in his speech "Don't imagine life at the age of 20" that he dreamed of becoming a bus conductor when he was a child. But when she grew up, the bus was changed to unmanned ticket sales, and she lost her position in life and was confused for a long time.
What should we do in life? It's simple. Do small things, start with the smallest things. Don't go home every day thinking about my lofty ideals, but do one small thing after another every day.
As in the soldier's assault, Xu Sanduo persisted like a fool.
"Between thinking and getting, there is still something to do."
There is a saying in "Rebuilding Life":
"The dominance of life has always been in our own hands. When you have the courage to face a fragmented life and dare to live in the present, you have the most important power. "
If you want to lose weight successfully, put on your sports shoes immediately; If you want to succeed in the postgraduate entrance examination, just put down your mobile phone and brush the questions quietly; If you want to get a promotion and a raise, you must first do every little thing at hand.
Camus said:
"The real generosity to the future is to give everything to the present."
Write at the end:
Churchill has a saying, which is regarded as a motto by many people:
In the first 25 years of my life, I longed for freedom; In the next 25 years, I am eager for self-discipline; In the last 25 years, I realized that self-discipline is freedom.
Self-discipline is a person's highest practice. Only by developing the habit of self-discipline can one master the initiative in life.
I hope each of us can be a self-disciplined and firm person and live a quiet and indifferent life.