what do you think?

In fact, it's not a big deal to be angry with your partner because you didn't receive a gift for the holidays. Festivals, birthdays, and anniversaries are not prepared, perfunctory, or "nine yuan and nine packages" of gifts are received. Many girls will be upset because of this, and if it is serious, they may break up.

Some people think it's no big deal to give gifts to themselves. In fact, giving gifts is very important. It is an attitude, and its essence is "feeling loved". Many contradictions arise from "I don't think you love me", and many feelings break down and the marriage can't go on because I can't feel the love of the other party.

Dr gary Chapman once said that there are five languages of love that can make the other person feel loved.

They are: affirmative words, meticulous moments, accepting gifts, service actions, and physical contact.

Therefore, to let the other person feel love, you can't hide it in your heart, but let the other person see and feel it. For example, you can always affirm the other half, let his self-esteem be satisfied, and feel your recognition and acceptance of him. You can also prepare elaborate moments to chat with each other and create a romantic atmosphere.

You can also prepare gifts to show your partner what you have given him. Or moderately accommodate each other, so that your partner feels that you value him, and so on. Therefore, what seems to be a gift problem is the lack of expression of love.

We are disappointed with the other half, not that he didn't prepare a gift for himself, but that he didn't feel the attention of the other side and questioned his partner's love.

However, not everyone has the consciousness of expressing love. Many people don't know how to express their love, have no consciousness of giving gifts, and usually don't know how to make you feel his love.

Therefore, you can't arbitrarily say that your boyfriend never gave you a gift because he didn't love you enough. Except for your emotional problems, maybe he doesn't know how to express love. You can calmly tell him what you really think and let him know what you think of the "gift". After making it clear, you can wait and see his attitude.

Love someone, don't worry. All love needs to be managed. Once you choose to break up without a gift this time, your partner will break up next time if there are shortcomings you don't like. There is no perfect partner in the world, but there are many feelings, because they are tolerant and run each other, so they live well.