People with academic qualifications may have more advanced ideas, high academic qualifications, good jobs and good pay, and spend a lot of time in their lives at work.

Couples who choose Dink marriage pay more attention to the development of love.

Stephen King said: "Life can be summed up in a simple choice: get busy with real life or die step by step. What makes you sad, one day, you will definitely say it with a smile. "

Carina Lau is a pragmatic woman, while Tony Leung Chiu Wai is a romantic man.

There are great differences between them in ideological realm. In their running-in, Tony Leung Chiu Wai also has many places that make Carina Lau dissatisfied and even sad.

However, she smiled and said these things to her friends, which seemed very light.

Tony Leung Chiu Wai, for example, is eccentric, unwilling to associate with people, dislikes going out to meet friends and does not do housework, but is very picky about food and doesn't care about home decoration.

And Tony Leung Chiu Wai also made it clear that he didn't want children. He wanted to spend the rest of his life with his wife like this, without any burden or care.

Many people say that it was Carina Lau who forbeared Tony Leung Chiu Wai everywhere in her marriage that led to such love between them. In fact, in this relationship, Tony Leung Chiu Wai is also worthy of Carina Lau's deep love.

When he did something wrong, he would write an apology card to Carina Lau, send her flowers and give her a man's gentleness. He will spend every special festival with her and decorate their home according to her preference.

Tony Leung Chiu Wai saw all Carina Lau's efforts, while Tony Leung Chiu Wai chose Dink, largely to protect his wife, and didn't want her to get hurt, nor did she want her to take care of the children too hard in marriage.

Tony Leung Chiu Wai and Carina Lau.

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Mr. and Mrs. Dinks, will you regret it?

There may be many reasons for choosing Dink, and there are also couples who regret it.

Li Yong died on 20 18, and many people feel sorry for never seeing him on the big screen again. At this time, my wife Havin wrote "I am lovelorn", only to understand how hard the departure of my lover has brought to his wife.

After they got married, they also agreed to be "Dinks" because they have their own careers and a happy and sweet world and are not ready to have children.

In the tenth year of marriage, Havin suddenly felt that this family was very deserted. She thinks this family should have a child to make it warmer.

Li Yong has his own principles and positions, but he doesn't want to disappoint his wife. For his wife's sake, he began to look forward to the arrival of his children.

I really love someone, I will make any changes for her, and I will bravely face any challenges given by life.

Leonidava said: "Marriage is based on love, attachment and respect."

When to have children in marriage is a big decision, and it is also a problem that two people must face. It is likely that there will be differences in this respect, or there will be changes after many years.

Out of respect for love, Li Yong chose to follow his wife's advice and give up Dink.

In order to reassure her husband, Carina Lau chose to stick to it. In fact, no matter what the final result is, as long as love is always there, marriage can go on strongly.

Carina Lau

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Earlier, Carina Lau explained in a program why she and Tony Leung Chiu Wai chose Dink.

At that time, Carina Lau said, "People often ask me, why don't you have children at your age?" Why do you have to go out to work? Why don't you marry a rich man?

She explained domineering: "Of course, the road of life must be taken by yourself. Others are used to measuring me with moral outlook on life, but I won't blindly copy others' living methods. Do you mean that if I want to, I will have a child? Having a baby is entirely your choice, isn't it? "

Tony Leung Chiu Wai replied, "I never wanted to have children. I have to look after so many people. Mom, sister and Ling Chia, I can't take care of more people. "

Undoubtedly, the married life of Tony Leung Chiu Wai and Carina Lau, and their choice of Dink's answer, have alerted many married men and women that having children is not the whole of marriage, but a good life is also a unique and wonderful life. Having children means responsibility and obligation. If you don't have the ability to give your child a good life, then give birth to a child cautiously.

On the road of marriage, the relationship between husband and wife is the first factor, and whether to choose Dink depends on their views on marriage.

Carina Lau and Tony Leung Chiu Wai.

Shakespeare said, "An unhappy marriage is like hell. You can't live a lifetime of fighting between chickens and geese. On the other hand, if you choose a satisfactory spouse, you will be harmonious and happy for a hundred years. "

Therefore, whether there is a bond between children and marriage, and whether there is more than one person in this world, both need to reach an agreement.

If one party in the marriage regrets it, don't change it because of the original promise. Sometimes, people's moods will change over time, and at different stages, their ideas will be very different.

So everything has two sides, and whether Dink or not should be based on the premise of not affecting the feelings of both sides.

If you love each other, you should respect each other, communicate well, and convince each other with love. Don't put the cart before the horse and hurt your feelings.

If you choose to let two people care more about one person in their lives, you should also make enough psychological preparation and economic conditions, understand the responsibilities and pressures you should bear, face the growth of your children together, and make your marriage life more fulfilling and complete.