After Jerry and Li XiaoLu separated, there were many topics about their family, but most of them were about the growth of their sweetheart. I think for divorced families, the growth of children is the primary problem, because although adults are separated, it has nothing to do with children, and he can still get the love of his parents. Because some children will think that their parents are divorced and they choose to divorce because their parents don't love them. I think they should make it clear to their children that they should not treat them as children, and put them in the same position as their parents to talk about these things. Parents should always accompany their children and pay attention to their growth. Although many families now require each other to meet regularly after divorce, if you want to substantially strengthen the relationship between children and parents, you need constant companionship and don't let your children feel that he is a burden to you. If this problem is not handled well, I think children are prone to psychological problems and will be rebellious. Children of different ages should also be treated differently. If the child is very young, two people must spend more time with the child and have more physical contact, so that the child feels close to his parents and will love him forever.
When the child is older, parents can have a formal chat with the child and don't speak ill of each other in front of the child. Let the children feel that although they are separated, they are still a family. Just like Jerry's family, Sweetheart was still young when they were separated, so they spent more time with Sweetheart. Both Li XiaoLu and Jerry can arrange their work and life well. They will play badminton with sweetheart, have dinner with her and make videos together, which is good. I think sweetheart will grow up healthily.