As the saying goes, the prime minister can punt in his stomach, and his big belly can hold things that are difficult to hold in the world. In other words, you should be measured and broad-minded. Only in this way can we make friends all over the world and achieve something. In ancient times, there were Liu Bang, Corporal Li Xian, Sean and Han Xin. And Liu Beisan invited Zhuge and others. Don't care about personal gains and losses, ignore gossip, accept failures and setbacks frankly, treat people or things that have hurt you generously, don't care about revenge, and laugh it off, then the world will always be beautiful in front of you and you will always be happy.
Silence is golden is a famous saying, as we all know, disaster comes from the mouth. On the one hand, there are many mistakes in speaking, so we must speak in moderation, not everything on any occasion. Why?
First, offending people. When people are happy, you throw cold water on them; People do funerals, you tell jokes;
Second, speak layman's words. If you don't pretend to understand, you feel happy, but others think you are shallow;
Third, use your heart. You can't stop looking at beautiful women. If you talk too much, you will show your tail and the beautiful women will be scared away.
Fourth, don't talk big. Maybe it's bragging, but also pessimism, inadvertently revealing one's emotions and leaving a bad impression on others.
There is a thickness in reading. The thickness here is not the height of the ruler, but the quality of the book. If you want to read useful books, what is beneficial? First of all, the content of the book should have a correct life orientation and be positive.
No matter whether it is long or short, it is a good book as long as it can enlighten people and persuade them to be good. Secondly, reading is not necessarily deep. Poetry, prose, fables, fairy tales and other forms, as long as they are explained in simple terms, all give people life experience and philosophy. It's a good book and a good article. Third, apply what you have learned. If reading becomes a tool to realize your ideal, then you must study hard and master the methods and forms of reading well. Du Fuyun: Reading is like writing a book.
Stand tall and see far. If you think too much, you can't see far. Only by standing on the shoulders of a giant can you see his head. The so-called vision is that in your perspective, it should be a broad field. No matter what you do or be a man, you must look far, and you can't just see the point without seeing the opportunity. Don't haggle over the immediate gains and losses. If you get a drop of water and feel complacent, you may lose an ocean. Taking a step back and broadening the horizon is the embodiment of the breadth of vision.
The so-called theory is to make sense. Depth is the reason for your satisfaction. Only in this way can we talk with others with confidence. How many people, without a deep theory, reason with others and put on airs, the result is ridiculous. White cats and black cats are also a theory, which I didn't believe at first. Later, it proved to have played a positive role in the early stage of reform and opening up. Later, with the deepening of reform, Scientific Outlook on Development took its place and became a new term and theory of reform. All this has been proved by practice. For an individual, high-profile and low-key is also his theory. Its depth is that you must be enthusiastic and interested in your work, and you must be a person with your tail between your legs.
Whether you are a part-time job or your own boss, if you don't work hard and have no self-motivation and motivation, your work performance will definitely not work, you will either be fired or go bankrupt. Therefore, we must be energetic and enterprising in our work. Everyone has a goal, big or small, and the way to achieve it is to work. With the increase of efforts and the improvement of performance, it is possible to achieve the goal.
Everyone wants to achieve something in life and have a successful career. However, people's backgrounds, experiences and academic qualifications are different, so their occupations are different. A big career is a career, and a small one is a job.
Entrepreneurs and businessmen have abundant capital; Artists, actors and athletes master superb skills. Their career is quite high and enviable. Ordinary people's career is their job. Although ordinary, they will take it as their own career. It is constantly improving its height every day.
Rich people, poor people, men and women are all exercising, or walking fast, or yoga, or losing weight, or quitting smoking and drinking, and so on. Just to live a long life and live a few more years. How to prolong life?
First, exercise. Keep healthy and get rid of bad habits.
Second, I am in a good mood. Don't worry, don't worry, don't fight, don't do this and don't do that.
Third, eat a good meal. Eat just right, eat more and eat less, mix well and eat healthily;
Fourth, adjust the law of life. Sleep when you should, play when you want, and go to bed early and get up early.