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After two people fall in love, there is a difficult problem to face, that is ... how to get along with each other's friends?

See this problem, many people may be able to shrug off:

"Why do you have to be friends with each other's friends? Isn't it good to stay the same? 」

Will say this sentence, nine times out of ten is single dog.

The longer couples spend together, the inevitable overlap of the original circle of friends. Treating each other's friends with a negative attitude will do more harm than good after all.

So instead of escaping, it is better to embrace reality generously.

There are many ways to get along, and eating is undoubtedly the most common and the best one.

Then the question is, if your girlfriend's best friend suddenly asks you out for dinner, will you go?

Let's start with the conclusion: you can go, but you'd better not.

Of course, if you are a person who is thinner than Durex and is not good at refusing, go ahead. Just, before the appointment, I want you to think about these three questions. (For convenience, Ximenjun calls his girlfriend's best friend Q.. )

First, do you want to report to your girlfriend in advance?

This is the stupidest question I have ever seen. How will you explain the "event" if you don't report it in advance?

Admittedly, you and Q are innocent, but your girlfriend is not present, and she will make up stories when you two are eating and after dinner:

Did they talk and laugh at dinner?

What if you have a drink after dinner and lose your personality?

Why didn't you tell me? Are you hiding something?

......

Remember, girls in love are artists.

Q invites you to dinner, and you and your girlfriend will naturally report it. If she flatly refuses, you will be less worried.

The point is, what did she promise to do?

At this time, naive male compatriots will laugh. Since she agreed, I will go.

So young! Just because she says yes doesn't mean that's what she thinks. If she obviously shows reluctance, man, don't risk yourself.

There's only one thing you don't have to report-your girlfriend is Tang Jing.

2. What price restaurant is suitable for inviting her to dinner?

This is a question worth discussing. If you let her eat too low, spread out and say, "XXX is a stingy man!" Not only you, but also your girlfriend will feel ashamed.

But that doesn't mean you have to invite her to Michelin luxury restaurant. First, you have no financial resources. Second, more importantly, it will make you misunderstand that Q is better than your girlfriend:

"You look at that, please your girlfriend to eat grandma's house, please her girlfriend to eat Michelin, what is this routine? 」

Men's words are awesome. You will understand when you are my age.

So the safest way is to take Q to a cheap restaurant. With the money saved from Michelin, you can buy a midsummer night's dream for your girlfriend, which is adapted from the story of Deusim. It's perfect!

Suppose, I mean suppose, Q asks to go to a fancy restaurant as soon as she opens her mouth, unless she treats you, please refuse decisively.

Don't be afraid of offending people. Girls who embarrass their girlfriends and boyfriends are not worth making friends with.

Third, do you want to send Q home after dinner?

First of all, it is definitely not possible to leave directly with your pockets. Very rude, not gentle at all. Unless the other party says it's useless, you still have to send it.

But! Yes! Sending her doesn't mean sending her home.

I know a little brother who once sent his girlfriend's best friend home. The girl took him upstairs to make two cups of tea to show her gratitude. Drink, drink, and something will happen to you. ......

So, the best way is to call her a car, and then open the door and close the door and wave goodbye.

Of course, if you have a car, bring it with you if you are near, and be wary if you are far away:

"Take you to a convenient place to take a taxi, I'm sorry, I'll find a girlfriend, I'm in a hurry. 」

Don't feel embarrassed, invite her to dinner and send her to the car. You did your best.

Well, dating my girlfriend's best friend is really painful. Me, my girlfriend and Q, how nice it is for everyone to have dinner together!

As far as I'm concerned, I probably won't go to the appointment. Because I don't think I have the obligation to invite Q to dinner, and there is no need for Q to pay for me.

I won't lose anything if I don't go. If I go, I won't get any benefits, and I may also curse my girlfriend and Q's best friend, not to mention my girlfriend becoming angry from embarrassment. ......

Either way, I don't think it's worth it

I was thinking, Q will suddenly invite you to dinner. Is it possible-

If your girlfriend wants to test you, she will test the water with Q.

This is simply a fear of thinking.

I advise my female compatriots not to do this.

There is a simple reason. If he can't stand the test, you lose his love. If he does, you will lose his trust.

Besides, people who take advantage of their friends will have to pay for it sooner or later.

Digress, back to the question at the beginning of the text, my girlfriend's best friend suddenly invited you to dinner, should I go?

Ximenjun still replied, you can go, but you'd better not go. Because you never know the forbidden fruit, the sweet trap is still ... the most embarrassing meal in history, waiting for you across the table.

About me

Ximenjun, a good young man studying TV program editing and directing.

You can write plays, jokes, soft articles, poems, essays and micro-novels.

He is the director of the first season of Running Man on Zhejiang Satellite TV.

Currently working as a copywriter in an Internet company.

I came to Sina Weibo @ Guo Qi, a network celebrity, Ximenjun.

"Ximenjun doesn't spit fast" (Ximenjun 45)