Season and size
Many people choose clothes gift boxes only according to the season of purchase. Even if I bought a size of three months, the season changed after three months, and the clothes were not suitable for the baby. In addition, if many people send the same size, the baby can't wear so many clothes at all, and the baby has grown up, which is a pity. Every baby grows at a different speed, and even parents can hardly predict the size of their baby next month, so it's time to test their skills by choosing clothes as gifts.
Materials and colors
Baby's skin is tender, so many mothers pay great attention to the material of clothes, so as not to put too many chemical additives, which will lead to baby allergies or long-term adverse effects, which is not everyone's favorite. At present, the baby's clothes are varied, so we should pay attention to the origin and material. Natural cotton, sweat-wicking, chemical-free materials are the best. Clothes should have tags or washing instructions to let mothers know the production and source of clothes and put on your gifts for their children with peace of mind. In fact, some mothers still choose the color of clothes according to the sex of their children. If they already know the baby's gender when shopping, they will buy it according to gender (for example, boys are mostly blue and girls are mostly pink). If they really can't know their gender, a neutral color (such as yellow) is a very safe choice.
There is no pressure to send big expensive gifts together. Usually, before the baby is born, many parents have already started planning the "shopping list". Usually, if someone gives them expensive items, they will be grateful and happy. Expensive gifts should be carried out in the form of "grabbing the group", which not only saves the trouble of "not knowing what to give", but also expresses a heart.
A crib or cart usually costs several children, and only older relatives and friends will give a crib as an expensive gift, but not everyone's elders have enough financial ability, so if you find more friends to send it with you, you can save some expenses and pressure. Sleeping in a crib every day is to enjoy the wishes of uncles and aunts, both grateful to your parents and a very happy gift; In addition, the stroller should be as light, strong and safe as possible. In case the mother takes the baby out alone, holding the baby in one hand and pulling the stroller in the other, and there is no elevator or getting on or off the bus, if the stroller is not light enough, the "mother's hand" will only be worse.
Many toys or books are very popular and have educational and entertaining functions. In addition, toys or books made of non-toxic materials are expensive, but the destructive power to children should not be underestimated. Toys or books that are not "tenacious" enough may have no bones as long as the baby touches them, and the child has no concept of price. When they get something, they either put it in their mouth, throw it away, tear it up or tear it up. Usually they have to bite the bullet and throw it away. Although some toys or books are expensive, many parents still have to buy them to help their children grow up. Therefore, if relatives and friends are willing to share more expensive toys or books, it will also be an economic relief for parents.
Besides the above, there are actually many choices, such as: electric milking machine, baby comfort chair, 3C baby care products, car safety seat … and other expensive and practical gifts. Although they are given together, parents can feel this thoughtfulness as long as friends care.
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Bath products can reduce diapers, and milk powder is more popular. Bath products are usually collected by parents before leaving the hospital and the month center. Most people choose more bath products as gifts, which leads to the need to pile them up in another block in the newborn's home. Some even have 2-year-old children and unopened or expired bath products, so they are the gifts with the highest transfer rate. In recent years, many parents began to care about the problem of "environmental hormones" and began to use perfume-free, handmade or organic soap to help their babies take a bath. They will filter the brands of bath products and throw them away if they are in doubt.
Diapers or milk powder Although many babies will choose diapers, it may be because of the economic downturn in recent years, diapers and milk powder are rising in price, so consumable gifts are becoming more and more popular. Most relatives and friends will buy diapers, the top two brands in the market, or choose diapers with good reputation. Even though the baby is very picky, most parents think that they rarely receive my diapers, so their love for diapers has picked up again. If you want to buy diapers as a gift, you can choose M~L size diapers. Generally, before production, the hospital or parents have already bought a smaller size diaper, and the baby grows fast. If you send diapers of a larger size, there may be signs of hoarding at home in the early days, but after a few months, these medium and large diapers will come in handy.
Some mothers like to receive gifts of milk powder because they will consider using milk powder to help them join the non-staple food period. In addition, some mothers will stop breastfeeding in order to have a second child and consider buying milk powder. Now the price of a can of milk powder will also make parents calculate their income and expenditure more every month. If relatives and friends send milk powder, it will also make parents a little easier financially.
Baby biscuits is not bad, a little unexpected. Besides the above, some parents also like to receive baby biscuits or snacks. Sometimes, they will take the baby to some places that need to be quiet. Snack cookies can let the baby suck in his mouth, reducing the chance of disturbing others. The cost of buying snacks and biscuits may not be expensive, but every little makes a mickle is also an expense. Therefore, if they occasionally receive gifts from relatives and friends, they will gladly accept them. This is a very useful prop.
In addition to the gifts mentioned above, the hidden version of the gift list also shares the list of gifts suggested by mothers themselves for the second month: babies with baby braces will become heavier and heavier when they grow up, and holding the baby with bare hands will cause the mother's hands and increase the damage to the shoulders and waist; The baby carrier can not only easily guide the baby to lie down, but parents can also free their hands to do things at the same time. Good straps can also protect the baby's pelvis, buttocks and spinal cord, killing multiple birds with one stone. But pay attention to the material of the strap, because babies usually eat straps. In addition, try to choose a strap that can be operated with one hand, because in many cases, only mom and dad may take their children out alone, and there is no helper around!
Mom's bag is specially classified to facilitate going out, which is the most basic requirement. Mom's bag should also have good-looking functions. If a mother spends more time taking care of her children alone, most of them are taken care of by herself. You can choose a bag with a more feminine pattern to satisfy the mood that mothers can go out with their children in fashion. If dad has more opportunities to go out together, he can choose a more neutral color bag. After all, many modern people are dads.
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Slimming cream, SPA or mom's tonic. Most people give babies moon gifts. Mothers who have just given birth also need to be taken care of. Many mothers are very concerned about what they will look like after giving birth. At first, I will be too busy to take care of my newborn, but after I get used to it, I will start to pay attention to whether my body or skin can recover, and my physical strength and resistance will decline because of fatigue, leading to a cold or general weakness. If I have the opportunity to cherish myself, put on some slimming cream, find a space to soak in a spa, or drink some supplements, such as the most popular chicken drops, it will also make my mother refreshed and happy.
When a novice mother receives a fence or railing, she will feel that she doesn't know how to use it at first and put it aside. When babies can crawl, they will immediately understand the practicality and usefulness of this gift. Even if the mother takes care of the baby alone, she occasionally needs to leave the space where the baby is, fearing that the baby will climb everywhere and the fence and the door fence will suddenly become good things.
When a newborn is born, relatives and friends will take advantage of the moon to give gifts, fearing that they will be embarrassed if they don't catch up with the time. In fact, when the baby is older, there are still many things to give, and they are not expensive. Now, a new generation of parents can accept the concept of receiving gifts later, and wait until the baby is six months later. There are more dazzling gifts to choose from, and there is nothing to buy. Don't neglect older children. If you are the second baby in the family, don't neglect the first child. Adults focus on welcoming newborns, don't forget to pay more attention to older children. If you really don't know what gift to choose for the newborn, then giving gifts to older children is also a very practical and caring choice. Once, my parents shared it. When their second child was born, when friends brought gifts to their younger sister, the younger sister became more welcome to her younger brother. They also moved their friends to take care of the older child and reminded them.
Before asking in advance to avoid repeated gifts, you can ask the newborn whether there are similar or homogeneous gifts at home in advance to avoid repeated gifts and waste resources, which becomes a trouble. Many parents finally transferred the useless strange gifts again, but the giver found out that he had given A's gift, which led to the embarrassing situation of B's family. Parents can also make a list of extra purchases if they want. Now that the Internet is developed, it is also a good idea for friends and relatives who are willing to give gifts to advocate additional purchases online.