However, children always need energy to raise when they are born, and the cost of raising children can also be said to be a big expense. Not only does the father need to make money non-stop every day, but the mother also needs 24-hour care to make the child grow up healthily.
Recently, Cheng Cheng, a 35-year-old woman from Qingdao, Shandong Province, has been taking care of her baby at home after giving birth to her third child, and her husband needs to work nonstop every day to make money for this third child. It takes about 8,000 yuan to earn 10,000 yuan a month, which is very hard.
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Some netizens said, since the family can afford three children, why did they complain so much when they were born? It turned out that 35-year-old Ma Bao Chengcheng had two children, a man and a woman, before giving birth to triplets, but what she didn't expect was that the third child was pregnant with triplets.
Before pregnancy, Cheng Cheng worked in a supermarket, and her husband made money by decorating. The life of a family of four is also very happy. However, after the third pregnancy, Cheng can only rest at home. Until the child was born, there were three more sons in the family, which made the family's life tense.
From "having only one good child" to letting go of the second and third children, many people still hold the idea of how happy they are to have more children. Now the third child has three sons at once, and the family's wish has come true, but I didn't expect the third child to be triplets, and the pressure of life is also great.
Because of the triplets after pregnancy, Cheng Cheng naturally suffered a lot, and then the child was born prematurely at seven and a half months, and was sent as soon as he was born. At present, children have to drink one and a half barrels of milk powder a day, and then the price of one barrel is 400g 120 yuan, including seven or eight diapers a day, so they can't buy the best.
The monthly expenses on milk powder, diapers, complementary food and medical care, plus other expenses, will cost more than 8,000 yuan a month. The two older children have already gone to primary school, not to mention various extra-curricular specialty cram schools. Being able to go home to help my mother look after the children, even the greatest pleasure of two children.
A family of four originally planned to buy a house this year, but since they gave birth to three children, they can only spend 1500 yuan to rent a house in the suburbs every month. In addition to decorating at the construction site, the husband has to carry money for the rest of the time and is as busy as a bee every day.
For the parents of their children, it is enough to raise their children healthily, and there will be no other extravagant hopes. The husband thinks that his wife Cheng Cheng is as hard as himself, and she can at least have a rest when she is tired of work, but her wife has three children to take care of and can't stop.
Today, this family of four has become a family of seven. In addition to taking care of the baby at home full-time, the rest of the money-making task depends on dad alone. If one son needs 6.5438+0 million to get married in the future, then four sons need 4 million to support.
However, having three children was originally an unplanned thing for them. Now that the child has come, I can only accept it silently and bear it silently. The so-called "father's love is like a mountain", and you can only bring up your child silently.
When there were no triplets before, a family of four often went out of shopping malls and parks together. Now, with triplets, the two older children are growing fast. When they go home, they help their mother to take care of the children. The two brothers and sisters also like triplets very much.
Dad's happiest time is when he comes home from work every night. The eldest son and daughter came running to hug themselves and call dad, and there were three sons on the bed waiting for dad's hug. Rather than being too tired and bitter in his daily work, he enjoys himself in pain.
Of course, the expenses of these five children are only a small part at present. When the children grow up one by one, it will cost a lot of money to go to college, buy a house and marry a wife.
Nowadays, faced with the pressure of family life, many netizens also think that giving birth to three children is a complete punishment for themselves, and some of them sympathize with others and think it is worth it. A netizen in Shenzhen, Guangdong Province said: "Since we all have children, why should we insist on having three children? If we choose to have children, don't cry, and we must raise our children anyway. " .
A treasure mother in Jinhua, Zhejiang said that after my first child was born, I felt great pressure to raise children, but my mother-in-law actually said that she could have four more children. Raising children now really can't be compared with before, and economic pressure alone can't afford it.
A netizen in Liupanshui, Guizhou said that it used to be "having fewer healthy children and living a happy life". It's too predictable to think about it now. Who would have thought that life now, from birth to school to growth, feels great pressure to raise a child?
A netizen in Tongliao, Inner Mongolia, said that two children are not good. Why do you have to have three children? It's harder to raise children now. I am worried about going to school and getting married. Where did you get the courage to raise five children at a time?
A netizen in Datong, Shanxi, said that it must be a gift to have triplets in this family. Hang in there, come on! I have contributed to the country and hope to get some subsidies.
A netizen in Xianyang, Shaanxi province, said it was encouraging to have three children. Finally, the second child went to primary school, and the first child needed to spend money in junior high school. I'm almost 40 years old, I have no energy, and I haven't asked my parents to help me with my children. Although we have never lost confidence in life, life has never been kind to us.