But over time, some people lost interest in the circle of friends.

Why is this happening? People who used to love friends so much,

Some settings are visible for three days, and some directly close the circle of friends.

In fact, these are inseparable from the circle of friends itself and cannot be separated.

Over time, many people find that the taste of friends circle has changed.

It is no longer the original sun food, sun pets, spit out life and record feelings.

Many people find that the circle of friends is no longer the original circle of friends.

It has become a workspace, because there are many people in everyone's circle of friends now.

The circle of friends in life has become a circle of friends at work.

Actually, sometimes I don't know if you've ever thought about it. Some people send friends circle every day.

Open a circle of friends and you will find that many people are brushing the screen.

There are still a few people who post more than a dozen posts every day, so they should be able to take pains. People send friends every day for three reasons.

One: satisfy vanity and gain a sense of identity.

This is the result of many psychologists' research. People who make friends every day are generally vanity. The more they lack, the more they want to show off. Although the content of the program is so fake, such a program can be greatly satisfied.

Some people basically don't travel, in fact, more because of economic reasons. But they can punch in all over the world, originally in China, but all over the world, with beautiful pictures and elegant taste in life.

Have you noticed? I just met someone for less than ten minutes this morning. He may be in Bali or Maldives now, enjoying elegant afternoon tea. In fact, he is next door. Do you feel that life is like a play, it all depends on acting? The life of a circle of friends on the tall side has nothing to do with reality. Some people are eating noodles every meal, but what comes out of the circle of friends is eating a big meal every meal. Actually, I'm still struggling, but my circle of friends has already lived a petty bourgeoisie life.

In the face of such people, will you gradually alienate? After discovering the real situation of friends circle, will you brush friends circle again?

Two: trap friendship through friends and accumulate so-called contacts.

In fact, the big environment is like this. China is a human society. Nowadays, many people try to get on well with everyone. Because the reality does not allow them, they can only maintain it through friends circle, and friends circle will be praised! I am keen on giving compliments and comments to others every day. I have always hoped that you will increase your goodwill in other people's hearts in this way. When you have something, others can help him.

We will all find that, especially in the company, in this working environment, there will always be a lot of flatterers in the circle of friends. In reality, people who can't say a few words praise you and comment on you crazily in the circle of friends. When you see the state of colleagues, especially leaders, you will basically praise them and interact with them. In this way, I became a frequent visitor to the circle of leading friends. Some people think that he is a relative of the leader!

Politeness of behavior is extremely disdainful in my heart. You will find that only those who scold you really scold you, and those who are polite on the surface actually despise you at heart.

I think I have a close relationship with the leader and have no sense of crisis. You don't think so when everyone is facing layoffs. As we all know, it is people like you that the leaders want to lay off. Why do leaders interact with you every day? Because you are so free, the company has something to do, so I will naturally pull you upstairs. This is your own superficial loyalty, saying that you can go through fire and water for the company and leaders. How can such kind leaders refuse?

You'll find out? Even if you are laid off, you won't hack the leader. The leader is still praising you and interacting with you. What's on your mind at this moment? Did you suddenly realize that this is a leader? As a grass-roots employee, he doesn't do his work well every day, and there is still a lot of time. Fortunately, leaders are interactive.

The relationship between people is equal. Where you are, how many people will treat you. The so-called equality has basic factors. When the gap between living habits and social cognition and others is too big, you are worthless to others. Everything is just your wishful thinking and polite response from others. It's all just for socializing.

Therefore, instead of being keen on praise every day, it is better to give up these useless social activities and work hard to enhance your value. Do what you can at present, ask more questions and learn more.

Three: the money world is bustling, doing business with friends and earning money from acquaintances.

Have you noticed? There will always be such a group of people in the circle of friends who give out poisonous chicken soup every day, saying that this is the so-called positive energy, and then expose the products, blowing the products he represents wonderfully, curing all diseases and living forever. Do not accept any refutation. Refutation is because you are poor and can't afford it.

Basically, there are many such things when you open a circle of friends. You will find that many acquaintances around you are recommending products to you, and there are some brand names that you have never heard of. Chicken soup for the soul, together with product promotion, is an appetizer, and then dozens of products are promoted.

Today, I am in a hurry happily. Tomorrow I bought Lamborghini and the day after tomorrow I bought a spaceship. I'm still preaching that their team has many factories with hundreds of millions of square kilometers somewhere, and bragging has no bottom line. Since everyone is so awesome, are you still recommending products here?

The reason why many people are fooled is that they can't pass the face barrier. They took advantage of this. As long as you buy it once, they will continue to recommend it to you in the future. After you brought something, the effect was not so good. Wechat business basically sells three products. How many people have lost their money because they used the mask sold by WeChat merchants, ate the diet pills given by WeChat merchants, vomited and diarrhea, and became constipated?

Most importantly, he will tell you that these are normal phenomena. Diarrhea and detoxification, acne on the face. It's because the poison was pulled out after using the mask. It will be better if you continue to use it. In fact, this is not the case at all. What the hell is his shit? In fact, he didn't know it himself. That's what the copywriter and the speech said, so he just followed the gourd painting gourd ladle.

I didn't buy it when I found out I was cheated, but I didn't say anything. After all, they are all acquaintances! But after a while, you will find that the circle of friends has taken screenshots of the products you bought for him, with a beautiful copy. "Friends said yes when they used it, and colleagues praised it when they used it. What are you waiting for? Action is better than action. " "Do you want to earn millions a month? You can make a profit by sending a circle of friends. If you usually send a circle, will there be business? "

You have become a successful marketing case of others, and you are angry inside, but you dare not say anything. You are just telling yourself that you don't know who you are. You are someone else's gun for nothing, but he doesn't care. You bought it anyway, and he made money. When you find that you can't see it in the circle of friends, you have to turn off the function of the circle of friends.

Therefore, I want to warn you that in the circle of friends, it is the real existence that hangs you up. Those so-called heating, but they do nothing every day, brush friends circle, may become their object, you will feel puzzling. For the sake of face, there is no point in ignoring it. Find a reason! Afraid of delaying your own affairs.

In fact, careful people will find out. Those who are really successful in their careers are very busy. I don't have time to send chicken soup, and I have a good control over my emotions. You won't find those so-called emotions in the circle of friends, and children will lose their temper. Adults are learning to solve this problem. When you see him making friends, it must have something to do with what he has done. Such people are trustworthy.

The world is bustling, all for profit, and the world is bustling. A circle of friends can only be a place to record your life and mood. Don't think it is too utilitarian and don't do something useless.

Remember, really good people have no time to make friends.