1. Help children understand and manage time.
Children have no concept of time, especially young children. If parents can teach their children to make plans, make timetables and let them follow the plans, there will be no troublesome procrastination. In addition, you can post a "one-week timetable" o on the door of the lobby, and list the things that need to be done every day in an orderly way according to the time node. There are time arrangements for English enlightenment: there are arrangements for learning drums, as well as other arrangements such as math time and game time. After completing each item, the child will be asked to tick the remarks column. Moreover, the time allocation can be adjusted according to the agreement, and parents and children can discuss and determine that the child's business belongs to the child and should not grow up instead of him. This method not only effectively prevents adults from arbitrarily controlling children's time, but also gives children a clear plan and gradually develops habits. Of course, children's childhood, on the whole, is essentially chaotic. But the more so, the more we should help children reduce their sense of confusion and enable them to live in a relatively orderly way.
Parents must make rules.
For example, parents can't just give their children what they want, and blindly satisfying their children will become uncontrollable. Although many parents know this truth, they still can't stand the children's "splashing water" and will eventually compromise. At this time, parents need to stand firm, keep their own boundaries and not be confused by their children's emotions. For example, if children want to watch TV, they should make it a rule to watch only two episodes before opening cartoons. After watching it, they should turn off the iPad themselves. If they don't turn it off, there will be no cartoons to watch in the future. In the process of execution, at first, you may shut down in tears. After crying for a few days, the child will know that it is useless to cry with his mother. Gradually, you can keep the agreement. Sometimes, when the time is up, the child is in a good mood and can't bear to turn it off. At this time, you should also understand the degree and agree to close it after reading it. The flexibility and scale of rules should be grasped concretely.
3. Parents lead by example
Children are the epitome of parents. A child who knows self-discipline must have set a good example in this respect. For example, at the beginning of school, many parents lamented that their children could not accept their own hearts and suffered from "holiday syndrome", but self-disciplined families usually do not have such problems. Because in summer, parents still arrange their children's schedule in an orderly way and grasp the daily schedule. Let the children relax, but don't get carried away, and the work and rest after school are not suitable. Parents should also set an example when making plans for their children. When you come home from work, you can't play with your mobile phone, but let your children read books. Imagine, how can a free and lax parent ask his children to learn this and that?