For example, the baby mother's child rolled and cried on the ground because she didn't buy her favorite toy, in an attempt to force her mother in this way.
But none of this matters to my mother. Ma Bao calmed down, bought milk tea at the mall and watched the children perform. It seems to say, "Demonstration can't cure you. What you did was the rest of your mother's play. "
This precious method of mother education is used by many people.
For example, when parents were shopping, their children started a "crying performance", but Boda and Ma Bao held hands and watched quietly.
When I meet such parents, I believe the children will be persuaded to go home with their parents sooner or later.
When parents don't meet their children's requirements, they may encounter children rolling around. For this phenomenon, the parents of the older generation may have listened to their children, and the children have remembered the effectiveness of this method and will adopt the same method in the future.
It may be more instructive for children if young parents treat them coldly now. Parents don't deal with their children's splashing water, which shows that their own demands are unreasonable and parents don't accept them.
On the other hand, it also shows the attitude of parents-even if you make trouble again, I will not meet your unreasonable demands, which is also the process of establishing rules.
Wait until the child comes home, and then carry out the education of both hard and soft to make the child meaningful and won't make it again in the future.
In other words, cold treatment can cultivate children's good character.
1: Parents control their emotions.
Children themselves are not easy to control their emotions, so parents should make their children calm before educating them. If you are often furious with your child, your child will also be affected, which is not good for your child's character development.
2. Let children know the basic etiquette and rules.
Children dare to play hooligans in public, which proves that they don't understand basic etiquette and rules, so parents should pay attention to this education in their daily life.
3. Punish children appropriately.
Parents must let their children know that unreasonable troubles are wrong, give him some appropriate punishment, and let him know that losing his temper will bring consequences.
Conclusion: Parents should also have a certain degree of love for their children. If they spoil their children and let them run amok, they will easily develop a bad character, which is detrimental to their life development.