Self-doubt is a great weakness of human nature. People who doubt themselves can never concentrate on their work, let alone do it well. It is difficult for such people to get rid of the entanglement of disappointment, to achieve the goal of doing things satisfactorily, and to be unhappy all their lives.
In a women's magazine, there are the following excerpts from the conversation between two couples:
Josh: "In my imagination, I always thought that fairies should be chubby and plump, not skinny women who eat very little. Catherine: If a man says to his girlfriend,' Let's talk about your weight!' Then it's the man who has the problem, not the girlfriend. If someone meets such a boyfriend, he should run away at once. Mark: She happens to be my ideal, the girl of my dreams. Linda: I don't think all thin women are beautiful, and I don't think all fat women are unattractive. "The difference between the above two couples and ordinary couples is that their girlfriends are all" heavyweights ".
The current trend of slimming has made many women who are not fat at all go on a diet, exercise and lose weight. Advertisements have always implied that only thin women will be happy.
Happiness has nothing to do with being fat or thin. It is true that many men like thin women, but "many men" are not necessarily directly related to their own happiness. All we need is "one person", and there is only one true love.
I have a chubby female classmate. She is a confident and smiling woman. You won't feel bad about being fat around her. On the contrary, you will only pay attention to many inner qualities in her. She has many talents, the most memorable of which is her cooking. She is an artist who regards the kitchen as a studio, and every dish is a masterpiece.
Her boyfriend is loyal to her, not because of her appearance, but because her connotation enriches her appearance. You must want to know if her boyfriend is handsome. I'm telling you, he is a super handsome guy.
A fat woman said, "Being fat is not my achilles heel. On the contrary, it is a gift from God. It keeps everyone around me from being confused by appearance, so everyone around me is sincere. " Everyone has his own specific advantages and disadvantages. You should be a Fiona Fang person and show it to others with your own style. There is really no need to transform yourself into someone else for some specious reasons. Everyone in this world is unique, just as you can't be Audrey Hepburn, and she can't be you. There is really no need to transform yourself into someone else.
There is a young man who envies the success of those corporate giants and wants to be one of them. "But I have a broken car now. What else can I do? How? " Young people began to doubt themselves and spent day after day in hotels in Manhattan, feeling a little depressed. Finally, one day, the young man had a dream for himself with a positive attitude, because he happened to meet the American automobile giant Ford. He especially appreciates the young man's talent and wants to help him realize his dream. Maybe you will know the later story: after eight years of hard work and with the support of Ford, this young man finally got his wish and established the famous University of Illinois. This young man is the founder of this university, Ben Illinois.
Eleanor Roosevelt said, "No one can make you feel humble without your consent." The ancient Greek proverb also said, "No one can insult us except ourselves." This is obviously another kind of spiritual "melody", which is the true meaning that can make you go to Fiona Fang to be a man.
A hermit plans to build a bridge over the river to facilitate people's passage. He asked all the animals for help.
The elephant pushes the boulder into the sea with its powerful nose, the rhinoceros pushes the sand into the sea, and the orangutan pulls the wood into the sea. All animals are willing to contribute their strength to building the bridge.
The little squirrel watched the progress of the big project and felt that he was too young to work with them. Later, it came up with a good idea. It rolled in the dust and was covered with mud. Then it quickly ran to the river and shook its mud into the water. Squirrels do this again and again.
Seeing all this, the hermit praised and said, "Even a little squirrel can achieve something if you have the heart." Do you feel inferior because you feel useless? But "since God has given talent, let it go and you will be hired!" Even if you are like a little squirrel or just a trivial screw, as long as you are willing to give yourself, it is a blessing to others.
At a seminar, a famous speaker didn't make an opening speech, but he had a twenty-dollar bill in his hand. Facing more than 200 people in the conference room, he asked, "Who wants this twenty dollars?" Hands up. He went on to say, "I will give one of you twenty dollars, but before that, please allow me to do one thing." "He said, and put the money into a ball, and then asked," who wants it? "There are people holding hands.
He added, "Well, what if I do this?" He threw the money on the ground, stepped on it and ran it over with his foot. Then he picked up the dirty and wrinkled bill. "Who wants it now?" Someone raised their hands.
"My friends, you had a very meaningful lesson. No matter how I treat that bill, you still want it because it hasn't depreciated. It's still worth twenty dollars. " On the road of life, we will be knocked down by our own decisions or adversity, or even crushed to pieces. But no matter what happens, or what will happen, we will never lose value. We are still priceless. We are unique, never forget this.
Only in this way can we approach success step by step, and then embrace the glory of life.