I am a typical chubby girl in junior high school and senior high school. How fat is she? At the school sports meeting, I was the only girl who wore men's clothes, because I couldn't fit into the maximum size of girls' skirts. Walking in the echelon, I am alone, standing at the end of the girls' team, which is very embarrassing. I wonder if this is very vivid.

At first, I also felt very inferior. People always say I'm fat, and they give me a bunch of nicknames, such as "cellar" and "stove pit", which makes me uncomfortable standing in the crowd. Then how did I overcome it?

What I do is transfer. How to turn? Being fat is an established fact. I can change it, but I won't change it for a while. But I'm not worthless. I have many other advantages. For example, I study hard, although I am not a top student, my grades are passable, especially in foreign languages, which is my strength. Every time I go to an English class or an English-related project, when I shine, everyone's attention gradually shifts from my "fat", and slowly I begin to build up my confidence. And I have a strong affinity. Fat people often get along well with boys and girls besides eating. Everyone is willing to be friends with me, which is a great advantage. I don't care much about the word "fat" and it won't cause me too much psychological burden.

It is inevitable that things of one kind or another will happen in life, which will affect our mood. We just need to find the right way and adjust it in time.

Finally, let's say that losing weight is a must. Obesity affects beauty, but it is not important. The most important thing is that it will seriously affect health and life. A healthy body is fundamental. After I successfully lost weight, my confidence reached its peak. Looking at the incredible eyes of my former classmates, I am completely different.

I hope you can get out of the misunderstanding, regain your confidence and lose weight successfully. Come on!

Hello, it's okay, as long as the family doesn't dislike it, it's good to control their own diet. I used to feel fat when I just gave birth to a baby. I haven't lost weight in the past two years and I'm getting fatter and fatter. I don't know if I should ask my friends out for a walk. They are so different. Eat at home every day, and now sleep with the baby.

Yes, being fat really makes people feel inferior. When I was fat, there were many things I didn't dare to do, and I always denied that I was willing to communicate with others even if I was good at it. I'm always locked in my own world. Don't girls like beautiful clothes very much? At that time, I was afraid to go to the mall to buy clothes because I was fat. It's uncomfortable to see other people's eyes. Even if people are not interesting, they will think a lot because of inferiority and are particularly sensitive.

At that time, I was ignorant. There has always been a boy in the class who is the type that all girls in the class like, but he is fat and self-abased, afraid to approach and make eye contact with others. Because of inferiority, I have been hiding. Later, I saw a lot of chicken soup and decided to lose weight and get rid of inferiority. I go running and dieting, but it's really hard for a fat man to stick to it. So I frantically looked for all kinds of slimming products and shortcuts, but it was useless. Later, by chance, I saw a slimming product recommended by my sister. I want to try again. I'm hopeless this time, and neither am i.

In short, I am very grateful to that little sister, who will always encourage me. Now that I'm thin, my inferiority complex has slowly changed. I can go shopping with my friends with a smile on my face, and I can take the initiative to chat up the boys I like when I see them, and I will not be ashamed to talk to others. I know I'm changing slowly, and I'm happy. So, if you are fat, you need to lose weight. You don't have to look for shortcuts like me, because my perseverance is not strong enough. You can find the method that suits you best. It's a three-point poison I believe that every fat person is a potential stock. You should refuel. When you really lose weight, you will find that the world is beautiful and the air you breathe is clean and comfortable.

This thing, haha, people often say that I am fat and that you are fat. I often hear this kind of words, and I am used to it now. Now some people say that I have gone back. I often say, did I eat your meat or did it grow on you? Why did I eat less at last? It is all accumulated by money. Is it easy for me ... don't worry too much. I think this is the easiest way to overcome inferiority or reduce this kind of psychology. Listen more, see more and walk more. That's basically what I did. But in the end, to be honest, it's best to lose weight, because all kinds of diseases are coming … try more and take your time. I wish you success.

Hello, I don't know why you are getting fat, because you didn't control your diet, or because you were sick and took hormones. If it is the former, then lose weight. The source of your inferiority complex is obesity, and losing weight solves the root of the problem.

The world always has deep malice towards fat people. "I never dare to pat the whole body", and people around me always point fingers. In severe cases, I may get depression, so I am vulnerable. "I can't buy suitable clothes, I can only wear sportswear." What I hate most is that you wear too much in winter, and people will say that you are so fat and afraid of the cold. If you wear less, others will say that fat people are antifreeze! When you take the elevator, if you are the last one, you will never dare to go up, sit in a plastic chair or weigh yourself in front of others.

After losing weight, you will find yourself braver and your life will be richer. You will find that everything you want can be achieved by yourself. Going to the mall to try on clothes will not worry about not wearing them, and the success rate of blind date will be much higher. You will find that you no longer feel inferior, no longer force yourself and become more confident. This kind of self-confidence will fill your life, including interpersonal communication and work, and you will find that you are no longer useless and will trust yourself more.

So you should start exercising and dieting, don't stay up late and don't drink any carbonated drinks. Only by living a self-disciplined life can we get the so-called freedom. To say the least, obesity always increases the probability of getting sick. In order to get your body, you have to lose weight. Sometimes, people who lose weight are actually sacrificing their lives. Are you willing to do this?

In fact, people have been discriminating against and laughing at those who are not obese in appearance, but obviously don't like being full of fat and are unwilling to make changes. You cannot control your weight, but you should control your laziness. So lose weight from now on. When you lose weight, you will find a different world. When you ask this question, you actually have the answer in your heart.

Being fat is not the original sin, but the cognition of being fat is. Everyone has the right to be thin and beautiful, but that's not to light other people's eyes. Girl, I hope we can all accept ourselves frankly, and then strive to pursue better ourselves.

In late autumn in the northern city, a rain is enough to bring the temperature back to winter.

In the world where long trench coats are the mainstream, you will suddenly break into several shorts and skirts. Slender legs are just like lotus roots, which look graceful and a little aggressive.

It is said that fat people are cold-resistant, but most people who perceive spring first are thin people.

Several friends who are doing slimming projects are particularly active. They advertised wildly in the circle of friends: "It's the season of revealing meat again, and you have three reasons to lose weight: 1. Your girlfriend is thinner than you; 2. rival in love is thinner than you; My boyfriend's predecessor is thinner than you. "

The inferiority complex about being fat comes more from joking with one's own closeness or friends intentionally or unintentionally, or from "dislike" of the person you like. Every fat man has a period of inferiority. I can't tell you how not to feel inferior, and there is no good way to resolve this stage. It can only be said that you can look at your own advantages, maximize your own advantages or maximize your own advantages as much as possible.

Thin is a standard of aesthetics in this era, but it is more or less thin. Not everyone should have a fixed standard. Girls should not exceed 100, and boys 130 is enough, but it is healthy. I heard a story these two days. A girl tried very hard to lose weight and control her weight because she was obese. Later, I lost weight and my health was not very good. I heard that I went to the hospital for liposuction later. I lamented that I gave the money to snacks and ate whatever I wanted. Everyone has his own personality and weight, and there is no need to forcibly adapt to society.

I hope you can live happily, and it's not bad to be a flexible fat man.

Fat people have inferiority complex. If you want to overcome this inferiority complex, you must find the root cause.

Why did you get fat? Solve your problems mentally and physically.

First of all, you should see a psychologist. Through the consultation and treatment of the doctor, you will get psychological comfort.

Secondly, no matter whether you are born or acquired, stick to the plan given by the doctor for treatment.

Finally, you should communicate with friends and others more. Having time to go for a walk, exercise and listen to music can make you feel relaxed and forget this inferiority complex.

I wish you an early recovery from your inferiority complex.

Inferiority means that you despise yourself, look down on yourself, can't accommodate yourself, feel ashamed, and often put yourself at a disadvantage. Be yourself and be confident. How many fat people give people the first impression that they are cute, simple and honest, and people like them.

In fact, obesity has nothing to do with inferiority complex, which is a personality problem. Being fat is only one reason for inferiority complex, so we should overcome inferiority complex.

Inferiority is a manifestation of the weak, not necessarily how weak his ability is, but that his heart is not strong enough. See what advantages he has and give full play to his advantages.

Fat is not the root of inferiority complex, but the root of inferiority complex is self-denial.

So the first step is to accept yourself. This is half the battle, and then I can easily change myself and affirm myself ~

It is better to accept yourself, make progress every day and live a good life than to be unhealthy and lose weight every day.

Of course, a positive attitude and a good figure are better. When you can't have both, mental health is more important.