I remember when I received the offer from this company, I was ecstatic. Doing my favorite job in my favorite company is really a great happy event for a person who has never seen the world like me. I almost thought life could finally settle down. Finally, I can get married and have children with peace of mind, while waiting for a promotion and salary increase.

However, this is not the case.

As long as the heart is unstable, then life will always be tossing. Tossing is not a bad state. Besides, like a boat floating on the sea, who didn't toss it for a few years when he was young?

September 19, I made an appointment with a friend. Sigh together, we are too anxious!

Almost 30 years old, I can't be independent at work, and my feelings are drifting with the tide. When I got home, I felt sorry for my parents, but I didn't want to face their endless nagging. Want to lose weight, intermittent diet fitness, but didn't see any effect.

Become famous in World War I, lose 10 A Jin month ... Gorgeous turn will only happen to others.

"I am almost 30 years old, and I still can't find an exit in my life!" I often complain to my family and friends. What is the exit I want? Why does life need to be exported? What is life and why do you need to export it?

I saw a passage on the Internet today:

Life is a maze. Find the entrance in the first half of your life and the exit in the second half.

I suddenly realized one thing. I am eager to find the exit of my life, perhaps because I subconsciously feel that I am in a maze, perhaps because I am confused.

After 95, I have begun to make an elegant appearance in the workplace. I am still confused in my late 30 s, so I am anxious.

But why, on the first day of entering the age of 28, instead of being confused and anxious?

Maybe it's because I've been giving myself positive psychological hints or when I reach a certain age, people will suddenly become calm?

I can't find the reason, and I'm not going to find it. Anyway, saying goodbye to anxiety is enough for me to be happy for a while.

Then record my 28-year-old keywords.

1. impetuous

I have a lot of things I want to do. I want to run, do yoga, read, write, make up, learn PS…… I did everything, but I didn't insist on everything. Even, in recent years, I haven't completely finished reading a book.

It seems that every moment will be attracted by new things, and the next moment will be attracted by other new things.

feel secure

A large part of the reason why we feel anxious is that we lack security.

The company's new 93-year-old sister is sweet and hardworking, and the leaders can smile at her. My friend doesn't look outstanding at ordinary times. Why did she suddenly lose weight 15kg? Did mom and dad fight again? Mom and dad are sick? Do I have enough money? What if you lose your job?

……

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Look, I feel insecure because I am afraid of losing compared with others.

But there is no way!

Afraid of losing loved ones, you should spend more time with your parents and earn more money to be filial to TA.

Fear of unemployment, so we should strive to build our core competitiveness.

If you want to lose weight, go thin!

In this life, people talk short. The length is beyond your control But in the present situation, live well once and stay truly once. That's enough.

Suddenly become not anxious, because you figured it out?