1, Aunt Yang: Daughter, pampered since childhood, became the pillar of the family after marriage. Aunt Yang's wife is a department-level cadre with good living conditions at home. The only daughter grew up in a superior environment until she graduated from college. Can't do housework. My wife always criticizes Aunt Yang for spoiling her children. Aunt Yang said confidently, "My mother used to spoil me like this since she was a child."
On one occasion, Sean, his wife's subordinate, came to his house to deliver documents to him. When he saw his daughter fall in love at first sight, she also took a liking to the tall and powerful Sean.
From then on, Sean always went to the station to bring her breakfast while her daughter was waiting for the bus, which made her run around. After inquiring about his personality, Aunt Yang knew that the military school graduates with him had all been upgraded, and he was the only one who was still standing still.
Aunt Yang advised her daughter to leave him, but she wouldn't do it anyway. Aunt Yang Ren and her wife can't do any work. Her angry wife has high blood pressure.
As soon as Aunt Yang got angry, she agreed to her daughter's marriage. After their marriage, they moved out and lived in a house in Sean.
Once, Aunt Yang went to see her daughter and found that her daughter had long hair to cook in the kitchen and play games in the room. After dinner, Aunt Yang thought that Sean would do the dishes. Unexpectedly, Sean got down from the desk and sat down at the computer desk.
Aunt Yang was very angry and stopped seeing her daughter often, thinking that Sean would change when she became a father after they had a child. Unexpectedly, after giving birth to a child, my daughter's burden became heavier, and she bought rice and noodles to take her children to cook.
Once, Aunt Yang went to see her daughter. At the gate of the community, she saw a woman holding a child in one hand and a vegetable bag in the other, which was very embarrassing. A closer look reveals that it is your own daughter!
Aunt Yang silently took her daughter's vegetable bag, followed her daughter home and knocked on the door. Sean's impatient voice sounded in front of her: "Go out without a key."
Aunt Yang led her daughter angrily and went home with her child in her arms. What are your plans for the future?
Lili sighed: "I wish I didn't listen to you and thought I could change him." Make do with it now, just to have a relative. "
A man's lack of progress, laziness and sense of responsibility are in his bones, and no one can easily change him.
2. Aunt Cui: The storm I once experienced has now fallen on my daughter. Aunt Cui is young and widowed. She was afraid that her daughter would be wronged after remarriage and never remarried.
It is difficult for a woman to take care of the children alone. In order to earn more overtime pay, Aunt Cui worked day and night in the company and once delivered goods to customers on rainy days like a man. A person is both a father and a mother, and finally he works hard to raise his daughter.
After her daughter worked, she was attracted by a boy named Mengzai at work. When she got home, she always said that Mencius was kind to herself. Aunt Cui went to the unit behind her daughter's back to inquire about it, only to know that the fierce man used to love drinking, and after drinking, he made trouble at home, only to get better in the days when he was in contact with his daughter.
Aunt Cui was not practical, so she told her daughter a showdown and asked her to leave him. The daughter disagreed, saying that Mencius took special care of her and gave her the warmth of her father. Under her persuasion, she stopped drinking.
Aunt Cui wants to work for her, but her daughter is pregnant. I was pregnant for two months when I got married.
After the baby was born, Meng Zi was laid off. The daughter on maternity leave thought that he was just taking care of himself at home, so she didn't urge Meng Zi to find a job.
When Mencius was at home, he began to drink every day. At first, he carried his daughter behind his back. After his daughter dropped two bottles for him, Mencius slapped her twice and broke her nose.
Aunt Cui Ran said angrily to her in-laws, but she didn't expect the fierce mother to say, "I can't control him either. Why not take your daughter home? " Aunt Cui was so angry that she almost fainted.
Brave people cry when they are awake, but they can't do any work for long. The client found him a job in the hotel, and he was anxious to get off work and quarrel with the guests; I got him a job as a cashier. He miscalculated the money, and he didn't make any money inside or outside, so he lost 1000. Later, Mencius simply stopped working and drank every day, and the grade of wine was getting higher and higher. Only my daughter works hard to make money at home, often making ends meet, and she has to rely on Aunt Cui to support her.
My daughter once thought about leaving him. When she was awake, she was really good to herself and her children, and she wavered again.
A prodigal son is always a prodigal son. What changes a man may be the love of God or the compassion of Buddha, but it will never be a woman.
Conclusion: It is the sorrow of youth to believe that love can change a person. As a girl, you should keep your eyes open before marriage. If you find such a man who is not self-motivated, don't insist, know how to quit, and don't regret after marriage.