In the past 20 months, like a seed, I found a rooted land in my confused life, began to work quietly, worked hard, and finally gained a better self through persistence.
All the fragrance needs to be watered hard, which is a down-to-earth action. Even if there are thousands of struggles inside and obstacles outside, we should get rid of inertia and go against the wind.
Beauty should not be a superficial concept inherent in our past brains, but represents a rich and three-dimensional life.
When we are seeking transformation and have no clear direction, we can start by changing our image.
This does not mean buying expensive luxury goods and enjoying high-end services, but becoming self-disciplined through a series of habits, thus enhancing the image.
It can be to manage the body and shape a healthy body; It can also be to pay attention to clothing and improve clothing and temperament; You can also learn to take care of your makeup and improve your beauty.
My image change started with slimming. /kloc-one weekend in the summer of 0/9, I went to listen to an online class on women's growth, which was deeply inspired: a woman needs to study both inside and outside.
After I came back, I made a two-month slimming plan for myself. Because of my strong desire to change, I finally embraced the surprise result and achieved the goal of losing weight 10 kg.
After I lost weight, I dressed better, and I became more relaxed and mentally better than before.
Although the image is only a person's external appearance, it is integrated with our inner soul. External symbols such as facial features, appearance and posture express our souls in silent language.
The change of external image will definitely bring about a series of changes in life.
When I was managing my body, I began to pay attention to exercise, pay attention to the diet structure, and develop good living habits bit by bit.
In order to make myself happy, I persist in restraining my inertia and desire in my life and walk with self-discipline.
Every time I see myself in the mirror, I feel extremely happy. This image change even indirectly enhanced my self-confidence and nourished myself from the outside to the inside.
This is an era of rising personal influence. For young people in ordinary families, the easiest shortcut to success is to build a personal brand, form social influence and gain wealth.
Although everyone can build a personal brand, not everyone can succeed. When you don't have particularly rich resources, the best way is to invest in your brain and put yourself in learning mode.
No matter what we learn, reading and writing are the keys to making our brains smart.
Reading can bring us an infinite world, stand on the shoulders of giants and expand our cognitive boundaries with the wisdom of others. What a blessing.
Fan Deng, the founder of Reading, Fan Deng, was lost because of his unsatisfactory career before starting his business. In hardship, he chose to read The Analects of Confucius, and it was the wisdom he learned from the book that laid the foundation for his explosive growth.
Writing is a weapon of change, which allows us to think deeply, gain insight into everything in the world and the laws behind it, transmit ideas and amplify personal values.
A fierce cat, it's just a teacher, not ordinary. Through continuous writing, she made her official WeChat account influential and eventually became a community raiders expert, which changed her life trajectory.
In these 20 months, I began to read books, listen to books and read articles, and cultivated my reading habits a little bit, which opened the way to learning.
Later, I joined a writing organization, and through continuous output, from writing hundreds of words at will to methodical and meticulous creation, my ability was constantly improved.
The accumulation of all quantities will bring about qualitative change. The books I have read and the articles I have written have enriched my brain and my heart, which will eventually be shown in my temperament and speech.
Fast-paced life makes people swell, and the desire to breed is easy to fascinate. If you don't know how to control yourself, people will become slaves of desire.
"Break up" is the most popular word in these years, because the times need it. And its connotation is not only our separation from things, but also our separation from the spiritual level.
Things that are not used in life should be sorted out regularly, and the environment should always be clean and tidy; Desire in life, daily reflection, should not have, cut off as soon as possible; Inner obsession, careful awareness and timely release.
In the process of community learning, I have heard many people share the topic of "breaking up". I am not only experienced, but also has practical experience. After being inspired, I began to practice seriously.
Every once in a while, I will sort out the clothes I don't wear and the sundries I don't use, treat them in different categories, give them away, recycle them or throw them away. Although I feel a little distressed, I don't need them. Putting them at home is a waste of resources.
Also, I used to like shopping, Taobao and shopping. I bought it back when I saw what I liked. In fact, many of them are not what I really need.
It's different now. I will restrain my desire to buy in buy buy. After a long time, you will naturally become more aware of your needs.
With your growth and maturity, you can better control your emotions and have less emotional troubles, which is actually a kind of spiritual "parting".
In addition to the above, some helpless things in life and people who have no fate are also necessary "parting". Sometimes, letting go is courage and wisdom.
Breaking up is an art, not only an arrangement of personal life, but also a philosophy of life.
It is also because I have practiced "separation" for more than a year. The simple concept of life has made me more authentic and free, and I can see myself and the world, and my soul is happy for it.
Everyone has expectations for himself in his heart. Whether external or internal, it is a subject worthy of our lifelong pursuit to change and become what we like.
May we grow up forever and live in our own hearts forever, not other people's mouths.