For a long time, influenced by traditional ideas, people think that men on both sides of marriage are always a little older than women, so that they can take care of and love their wives. But in today's society, age is no longer an obstacle for two people to be together. Even if a woman is older than a man, she can still live a happy life …
In 2007, a TV series "Struggle", which tells the story of the post-80s generation, caused a lot of repercussions in the society. Some people ridiculed that this is a post-80 s story interpreted by a post-50 s director, a post-60 s screenwriter and a group of post-70 s actors. Most of the actors in the play, except articles, are from the 1970s. As soon as the series became a hit, there was an affair between Ma Yili and David in the media, but suddenly it was reported that the article was married to Ma Yili, which shocked everyone. In the play, Xiang Nan and Charlene Marilynn Dangelo are just good friends, but they have the brightest spark in real life. Of course, the most interesting thing is that there is a big difference in age between the two. The female is 9 years old and the male is 9 years old. It really takes a lot of courage.
The popularity of the movie "33 days of lovelorn love" once again made the little man's article a fire, and his happy marriage with his beloved wife Ma Yili made many people envy him. Their daughter loves the birth of a horse, which adds a lot of color to their love. While enjoying this happiness, the two also show their love in front of others from time to time and announce their happiness to everyone. Sister-in-law love, which was difficult to be accepted by people in the past, is now being verified by more and more people. Age is no longer a stumbling block to marriage, and marriage can be free from the bondage of age.
For a long time, influenced by traditional ideas, people think that men on both sides of marriage are always a little older than women, so that they can take care of and love their wives. But in today's society, age is no longer an obstacle for two people to be together. Even if a woman is older than a man, she can still live a happy life. In the complicated entertainment circle, the phenomenon of brother-sister love is very common. Not to mention the articles and Ma Yili, Jason and Nana, Faye Wong and Lee, Big S and so on. They all broke through the shackles of age and finally achieved a happy marriage. There are so many enviable relationships between brothers and sisters. What's the magic weapon to win? Through a general understanding of several siblings, from my personal analysis, the reasons include the following two points:
Reason 1: "Sister-type" girlfriends don't put pressure on men.
Many times, girls love to lose their temper. When something goes wrong, they are easy to cry, throw things and go back to their parents' home. "Sister" girls have experienced many ups and downs in boundless love, and they already know how to make their position most comfortable and what kind of distance is most suitable for two people. They will never embarrass men with narrow-minded behavior. They know more about life and have rich experience in all aspects. In this way, men will not be under great pressure, they will focus more on their careers, and they don't need to spend their time teaching a little girl to grow up, not to mention worrying that "sister-type" women are prone to make a mountain out of a molehill and lose their temper. This is a great blessing for men who are struggling for their careers and eager to join them.
Reason 2: Brother and sister have the same living habits and complementary personalities.
A woman in a sister-in-law's love doesn't have the qualities of being young and beautiful, and a man doesn't have the advantages of being old and earning high. At this time, the two people get along more purely, reducing to the needs of communication and emotion. Getting along must be the first condition for two people to be together. Only when the thoughts are at the same level can we communicate, and only when the personalities complement each other can we communicate more easily. Some people say that "personality determines marriage", which is not unreasonable, but it is not good to have the same personality. In the formula of choosing a good man, living habits are higher than personality, that is to say, he must first choose people with consistent living habits, and then consider personality factors. Therefore, the important point of the success of brother-sister love is that the two people have the same living habits and complementary personalities.
However, in reality, not all brother-sister relationships can be happy. Some sister-in-law relationships that are combined together have not blossomed, but they have harvested the happiness that should belong to them. Sometimes, sibling love can also bring a lot of trouble. The most common thing is that girls complain that boys are not mature enough, and men complain that their girlfriends are too nagging. Over time, their feelings will fade. In this case, from the perspective of a plastic surgeon, I would like to make two suggestions, hoping to help those who are trying to find a happy sister-in-law relationship.
1, "sister-type" women should learn to let go of motherhood and return themselves to youth.
Women should not be too maternal and like you too much, because your habitual efforts will make men feel that they don't need to bear the corresponding family obligations. And women will feel too tired one day, and then ask for a change, but both of them are accustomed to the family responsibility model is difficult to change, so it is better to divide the work early. At the same time, with the success of men's career and the increase of income, women need to rely on their young and beautiful appearance to maintain their feelings in marriage or love, so they should also learn to make themselves young again.
How do women make themselves young again? In addition to using cosmetics, skin care products and other necessary maintenance, we should also pay attention to a healthy and reasonable diet and proper physical exercise. Of course, there is another way, which is the most popular plastic surgery for female friends at present. Nowadays, many female friends choose plastic surgery to make themselves younger and more beautiful. For example, autologous fat breast enhancement can make drooping breasts tall and plump; Green fat and plump buttocks can make you have a smooth and sexy buttocks; Fine liposuction can not only help you remove excess fat from obesity, but also help you shape and lose weight; Balanced facial fat can effectively improve your facial defects and so on. These can be well selected and utilized.
2. "Little brother" men should know how to pay and shoulder their responsibilities.
A sense of responsibility is the foundation of a lasting and happy marriage. A person who has no sense of responsibility will not reap happiness. Once men and women who admire each other become husband and wife, they should be responsible for each other, their children, the society, do their best and take their own responsibilities. Especially the "brother" man in the brother-sister relationship, he should know how to pay and bear the responsibility that men should bear.
In the love of brother and sister, "elder sister" likes "younger brother", some are vain, and they like each other's youth and handsomeness; Some hope to find a man younger than themselves and relive the romantic feeling of girlhood. Young men, on the other hand, tend to value each other's maturity, stability and understanding; Some have been hurt by feelings and want to find a gentle and kind wife; Others have Oedipus complex. No matter what kind of thoughts they have and what kind of love purpose they have, I think it is worthy of our blessing to be able to boldly choose brother-sister love, break through the shackles of age and embark on this road!
Sister-in-law loves, and age is no longer a stumbling block to marriage; Brother-sister love has been accepted and recognized by more and more people. This not only stems from the pursuit of happiness, but also from the truest and deepest love in my heart!