The habit of savoring life carefully, the habit of being quiet and focused on things, the habit of keeping a good mood, and the habit of relaxing and exercising make people look sexy and charming. Well, don't miss it! Girls want to be sexy and charming in the eyes of the opposite sex! But have you seriously thought about how sexy you are? Have you ever had a particularly sexy and charming moment? Does your partner still think you are sexy after dating for many years? Today, let's seriously think about this problem together. The reason why it is given to women aged 25 and later is that they are easily discouraged at this age, but they are also experienced, intelligent and customary but not old. It's not sexy at this time. What time? Let's get started. 1. What is really sexy and charming? The real sexy charm is to let a normal orientation and good taste of the opposite sex attract you for the first time. I once read this sentence in Gu Long's novel, saying that when the legendary first beauty came in, "when she came in, it was like a faint moonlight shining in, which made people feel unspeakable pleasure." He will pay attention to your eyes, your smile, your words, and immerse himself in this attention and enjoy the pleasure of paying attention to you. It's like watching moonlight and smelling flowers. This kind of sexiness refers to pity, curiosity and admiration, not just the physiological reaction of spraying blood. This sexy standard is clean clothes, clear smile, slim figure and smart eyes. It is smart, dedicated, natural, comfortable, careful, naive, strong and considerate. 2. Re-examine yourself. Sexiness is a completely comfortable state. How much is the underwear you are wearing now? Is it comfortable and fashionable? Is it the next set? Or just grab it and make a mess? Is it old, with holes, or with indelible stains? How often do you wash your underwear? When was the last time you washed your pajamas? When was the last time you washed pillowcases, sheets and sheets? Is your room clean, tidy, comfortable and refreshing? When was the last time you exfoliated? Is your skin dry and flaky? Is the finger seam clean and transparent? Is the nail edge cracked? When was the last time you went to a hair salon? What kind of smell does your hair give off? Is your mouth clean and your breath fresh? Is the lip chapped and peeled? Now sitting in front of the computer, if I hold you close to you, what kind of breath will you smell? The reason why I ask these questions is to say that true sexiness is a clean and comfortable state. It's hard to imagine how sexy a girl who wears beautiful clothes outside, but has stains or holes in her underwear, or hasn't washed it for days, and occasionally rolls up her sleeves to reveal her shriveled arms. Conversely, if you wake up in a comfortable room, get out of a neat bed, put on sexy underwear that has just been washed, moisturize your body and skin because of careful maintenance, spray your favorite eau de toilette, and finally put on beautiful clothes to go out, what kind of state will it be? I will like myself better! And this is the first premise of sexy! We often pay attention to the most external things (clothes, handbags, glasses, bags) in order to win the appreciation of the world, but we don't know that the real sexiness comes from the comfort of the whole person. Why do we always feel sexier after taking a shower? Because at that time, everyone was clean and fragrant, right? So if you want to be sexy, don't be lazy. Don't think that only you know if you don't take a shower or wash your underwear for a few days. Don't think that a messy room won't affect your beauty. Don't think about exfoliating and making a mask before dating. Because, you never know when and where you will meet the person you need to attract! 3, to be sexy, a few details that lazy girls must pay attention to: The most beautiful state of lips and lips is ruddy, the most attractive and the most attractive. How to do this? It goes without saying that it is necessary to replenish blood, replenish water and have a good sleep. There is a little secret recipe that is very useful, that is, put honey on your lips before going to bed, and it will be especially moist the next day. There is a saying in Hair that "hair style is the soul of a handsome guy", but I don't know that hair style is also an important part of the soul of a beautiful woman. Whenever I see girls with dry hair, glossy hair, soft hair or casually tied up with cheap rubber bands in the shopping mall, I feel particularly sorry. A good hairstyle is not necessarily a beautiful woman, but a beautiful woman must have a good hairstyle that suits her. Therefore, you should often go to hair salons (especially high-quality hair salons) and often do hair care! You will find that once you make a good hairstyle that suits you, even if you put on ordinary clothes, it will be much more beautiful than before. In winter, many mm skin is prone to dandruff due to dry skin, such as calves, elbows and elbows. Be sure to add more water and care. I once saw a little beauty fall down and was escorted to the hospital by a man she secretly loved. As a result, when the doctor asked her to pull up her trouser legs for examination, a little white dander was revealed, which was very tragic! Your breath may not talk for a long time when you are busy with work, or you may work in a tense and stressful atmosphere, which will easily make your breath not fresh. At this time, it is not enough to just chew gum, because it seems too suspected of deliberately shattered glass. To keep your breath fresh, you should first pay attention to your diet. If you are not alone on weekends, you'd better not eat garlic, which has a strong taste. Then, rinse your mouth with a cup of green tea (or fresh lemon slices soaked in water) after dinner. In order to prevent tea from staining teeth, it is best to rinse your mouth with warm water (not as exaggerated as Japanese girls bring toothpaste and toothbrushes). Also, take an apple with you and eat one when your breath is not fresh, and it will soon have a natural fruit fragrance. Girls whose socks and hands are not easy to sweat can be ignored. It is easy for a sweaty girl to read on. Wear shoes with good quality insoles and buy good quality socks. Three or four pairs of socks with ten dollars are brightly colored and cheap, but the material will make you miserable after taking off your shoes. Because sweat itself doesn't stink, but socks that are airtight and sweat-absorbing will make it stink ... mm whose hands and feet are prone to sweat, it is recommended to go to the mall counter to buy more expensive but good quality socks, so that whenever you need to take off your shoes and socks, you won't bring yourself embarrassment. 4, the details are not finished, about underwear and socks underwear! Underwear! Underwear! Needless to say, the importance of underwear quality. A friend of lz is especially good at buying underwear. Even if he wears a simple T-shirt, people can't help but take a look, because underwear shapes a beautiful chest shape. Casual sexiness is revealed. You must choose carefully when buying underwear and try it on again and again. After trying it on naked, put on your coat and try it on to see if you want the effect. More importantly, no matter what color, style and hue-black, white, red, purple, candy color, cute style, sexy lace ................................................................................................................................... Once you put on your favorite sexy underwear, the whole person will naturally have a sexy atmosphere. Although the clothes outside may be simple or relatively conservative, the contrast between inside and outside will make you excited. That little bit of unknown happiness is the source of sexy breath. Just say the quality of socks. What I want to say now is the color and style of socks. Because many times socks can only be seen by themselves, some girls don't care too much. From now on, get rid of those old socks that are discolored, have holes or have balls and wires! What color socks do you wear? The best choice is to dress according to the occasion and mood. For example, it is winter and the festival is coming. Of course, you can wear red socks to echo this mood. If there is any major work event today, you can also wear colorful and lovely socks to encourage yourself to boost morale. It is not suitable to wear pink or white socks at this time because they are not strong enough. ) If you are visiting a friend's house, solid color socks such as pink, pure white and light blue are very good, which look gentle and clean without usurping the role of the host. Socks, like underwear, are either not seen or seen by very important people (including yourself, of course), which is a detail that is easy to add or subtract points! Moreover, don't forget, it is also very comfortable to put on a pair of socks that you like and give yourself strength! This pleasant and comfortable state is the source of sex appeal. 5. Keeping your body light is a kind of self-feeling. When I feel light, I will especially like to laugh, especially willing to run around, and my eyes are full of small happiness. How to achieve this? It's actually quite simple. When you eat, you are not hungry or full. For example, if you go to work for a buffet in the morning (or at noon) or have a dinner with friends, will you be tempted to take this and that? Because of the pressure of work, because eating is a way of self-relaxation, appetite is the most direct and easy desire to satisfy. However, you must feel the same way. Many times you are not hungry, but out of inertia, too lazy to stop. When reading this month's fashion magazine and writing about Zhang Ziyi, I deeply agree with a sentence: "Success is only achieved by striving to be the best in the industry and keeping slim all the year round" (to the effect). Look, the effort required to keep slim is comparable to "being a leader in the industry through hard work". What you need to do is, when you are tired and need to borrow food to relax, tell yourself that this is enough, which can make me not hungry. Stop, clean your mouth and turn your attention to other things. When eating at work, you can even calculate the time it takes to finish a meal as soon as possible. Note that this is not for you to gobble, on the contrary, it is for you to chew slowly, taste food, slow down, but reduce the quantity. You know that, right? You should appreciate yourself stopping, putting down and walking out of the restaurant with a smile. Tips for reference only: drink some warm water before getting up in the morning, then drink some soy milk made by yourself, and it is enough to eat a big apple for breakfast after arriving at the workplace; Normal at noon; Eat a pomegranate before you want to relax and overeat at night. You are not mistaken. Really, eating a pomegranate will make you never want to eat greasy food again. Never eat while watching videos and reading books. When you eat, you must concentrate. If you don't concentrate, you will easily eat more. 6, sexy and charming premise-keep the habit of happy exercise, sit in front of the computer all day, go home after work, then have a rest, and then sit and start a new day ... This is a particularly bad state. Not only will it make your physique worse and your figure out of shape, but it will also make you feel unkempt and at a loss. In this way, where can it be sexy and charming? The solution is to keep the habit of exercise. Exercise can not only lose weight, but also produce a psychological hint that makes you feel better and better. As mentioned above, a good physical and mental feeling is a necessary prerequisite for sexiness. But when it comes to sports, many girls will be miserable. On the treadmill? Gym? It's boring. It's too hard to stick to it. Never struggle with your perseverance, guide according to the situation, and don't split yourself. So, my advice is: keep the habit of happy exercise!