I didn't go to the cinema to see a movie, but after watching the screen for a few days, I got a general understanding of the plot. In a word, it is the story of two young people who fell in love for many years and broke up, but they are still not together after ten years of reunion. To tell the truth, there have been quite a few movies about youth, love and chicks in recent years. Although these stories are cliches, they always get high box office and earn a lot of tears. Yes, who is not young yet? It is estimated that many people see themselves from this trite story, and most of our lives are just ordinary cliches.
What I want to talk about now is not my predecessor, blood relatives or memories of my first love. No matter how good the predecessor is, if it doesn't belong to him, it means it's not worth nostalgia. No matter how sweet the first love is, not being together proves inappropriate. I hope every girl will not live in the past, and strive to move forward, because you deserve better.
The premise of having better is to make yourself better and better. I know a lot of girls, some of whom feel that the whole world has collapsed as soon as they are lovelorn, so they start to forget about tea and rice, neglect their studies and delay their work, and are always immersed in grief; Some girls find "substitutes" soon after falling in love, which has paralyzed their sadness ... but I admire a girl who can let go decisively, eat, sleep, study and work, and even work harder to make herself better. This is what I call a lovelorn girl, a normal life after a relationship.
I once knew a girl who was cute, lively and cheerful, and a little chubby. I talked with my boyfriend for three years, the kind he didn't marry, and the man cheated on me. The girl was hit hard, very painful and became particularly insecure. For a time, she even went on a hunger strike. Her friends and relatives do ideological work every day, but they just sleep with her. One day, she suddenly sent me a message saying, Sister, I'm awake and I'm going to start a new life. I know it's hard to forget him for a while, but I'll try. I gave her a cheering expression. I really hope this girl can get out of the gloom of lovelorn and start a new life as soon as possible.
The next day, the girl listed things to do in her circle of friends. First, lose weight. Second, learn Japanese. I believe in girls, can you hold on? Girls say that when I am with my ex-boyfriend, he often thinks I am fat, but I think we are together anyway. How can I lose weight? But I didn't expect that the reason he gave for cheating turned out to be that I was obviously fat but didn't lose weight. Now I want to lose weight, but not for him, but for myself.
Learning Japanese, in fact, I have always liked Japanese. When I was with my ex-boyfriend, I hung around him every day. He likes playing games. In order to make him happy, I have to cooperate with him who doesn't like playing games. How do you have time to study in a day? Since I have a lot of time, I can do anything I want.
I gave the girl a big compliment and wished her to achieve her goal as soon as possible.
I began to pay attention to the girl's circle of friends. Every once in a while, you can see the slimming effect of her sunbathing. She has lost a little weight and her mental state is better. Work, study, fitness, holiday travel, basking in the beautiful scenery, Xiu Xiu cuisine, and seeing her circle of friends like spring breeze will make you feel better. Sure enough, positive energy can also make people around you feel happy.
For about two years, the girl sent me her photo. After slimming, she was healthy and symmetrical, and her temperament immediately stood out. Sweet smile, eyes full of confidence and certainty. Her Japanese certificate was sent with the photo, and I was deeply impressed by the bright results.
The girl said, sister, do you know? Over the past two years, I have lived a full and meaningful life. Although the process is a bit hard, it is very gratifying to see that I am a little closer to my goal. I found my own value and achieved the results I wanted, which I never dreamed of before. I will jump ship soon. I have talked about a Japanese company, which is my favorite company for a long time. Now I have enough chips in my hand to choose the life I want. This feeling is really wonderful.
I congratulate this girl. She has grown up and lived the life she wants. I believe that once a person has mastered the initiative, life is at the helm like sailing in the sea.
Many people are still obsessed with their predecessors after breaking up for many years. I think it's probably not that they are reluctant to part with that feeling, but that they are unwilling to pay for themselves, especially the one who was broken up. However, feelings can't be bought by paying so much. The only thing in this world that can't be rewarded after giving is feelings. So, why waste time on those feelings that have passed away? You can study, keep fit and work hard ... as long as you are willing, your efforts will always be rewarded accordingly. This is the best investment for yourself.
Weng Xibao, the owner of a novel in Yi Shu, said, I want a lot of love. If I don't have much love, I want a lot of money. What an incisive understanding of life! But isn't our life very realistic? We don't live in a Korean drama, and there is no brokenhearted love that Obama saves himself. If you are lovelorn and can't even live in the next life, how can you be qualified to start a new life? I'm not teaching you to exchange money for feelings, but telling girls that if feelings are gone, make good money, improve your ability and enrich yourself, and you will find that it's not so difficult to live the life you want!
Time is the best answer. Later, we were all changing, and everything was changing. What kind of effort you want to be. Believe me, love is more important than bread. With bread, you will have more confidence in love, at least you won't be a dish in the market to be picked and picked, and you won't even be able to fight back.
Let those lovelorn shadows go with the wind! You have the best age, don't let yourself down. You should sail the boat of life. When we meet again later, I hope you have become what you want, grown up and lived the life you want.