This? June 1st? It's not far from your junior high school, is it?

How time flies! In my memory, you always seem to be five or six years old, the little guy who is good at smiling in front of the camera and talking with his eyes! But in a blink of an eye, you have experienced the joys and sorrows of the world, and you have tasted some difficulties and confusion for the first time!

To tell the truth, how much dad doesn't want you to grow up! I want you to live a carefree life forever, and I want you to stay away from the troubles and nagging that you don't understand! But you are growing, and so is your father. My father is afraid that one day, if I get too old, I haven't had time to say anything to you. In that case, dad will blame himself and be sad! So, for some time, my father seems to have got some kind of disease, and he has a lot to hold back in his heart. It's really hard, and he especially wants to tell you.

I know that you may have heard these words more or less at ordinary times, and even some of them, you are already a little upset! Hehe? You're not making fun of me again, are you? But my girl, accept your fate. Who let you be my daughter and I am your father?

I don't know what you think. This is what you often call it. Dad? Dear people, but in my father's eyes and heart, you have always been my pride, the proudest pride that can make my father proud all his life! I say this not only because you are my daughter, but because no matter what frame of reference I put you in, you are enough to make me proud! Because you are really excellent, excellent! Because you are excellent, dad will say so!

Besides, dad's opinion of you will never change! If there will be any changes in the future, it must be because what you do is better than what dad can imagine! Just wait and see if you don't believe me. Dad is so discerning!

Dear, you are a very talented and savvy child. You have been learning piano since you were four and a half years old. After half a year, I found that your perception of intonation is excellent. Even if you play a semitone casually with your back to the piano, you can tell it at once. Later, your unique musical sensibility and rich and delicate inner expression also poured out again and again. This not only makes me curious and shocked, but what flows through your fingertips may not really be a wonderful change for you. It does give me a lot of philosophical thinking and artistic inspiration!

Looking at you since I was a child, I believe my view of you is objective, and I believe you can feel it. Therefore, when I am with you, I always feel that each other is beyond my father, not just my father. This is why there is always a natural and pleasant communication beyond the age limit, and why I always nag you tirelessly and ask for a little stricter. Although talent is not a decisive factor in what a person will become in the future, because many cases of successful people later tell us that they are more? The story of a stupid child? But I still appreciate your extraordinary! The key is that you must not be fascinated by this, which will affect and delay!

There seems to be such a rule: Smart children are not diligent, and diligent children are often not smart enough? In fact, even if there is such a so-called rule, I believe that my girl will definitely break this taboo, and you must also break it, otherwise there will be no Excellence and Excellence in the next and future! You know, a genius who doesn't work hard is not much better than a fool who doesn't work hard If a genius and a fool end up in the same situation because they don't work hard, then the genius is actually more stupid than the fool!

Dear, you are a very kind, studious and understanding child. Do you know about family ties, your sincere memories of your deceased grandparents, your sincere thoughts about them, your sincere understanding and kindness to all the people and things around you? You have a wide range of hobbies. You like to occupy the toilet for a long time and ignore the smelly toilet books I screamed in it. You like to neglect your homework and indulge in the affairs of the lecture hall. You like to keep a pet and never forget to worry if you can't see it. It seems that you still love watching food programs on TV. Every time I see you drooling and sucking your fingers, dad seems to want to give up the weight loss plan that has been suppressed for a long time, haha?

To tell the truth, in the eyes of a father, there is nothing more gratifying than his daughter's love for life. Even his father thinks that you can understand and own these things, which is more important than how much academic and career growth you can achieve in the future! However, dad still has something to say to you. Generally speaking, the second half is affirmation and hope, and the second half is negation and suggestion. Is this right or wrong? Come back, my father can't sell tea, you can listen to it.

For kindness, this is almost the basic requirement of anyone who can be called a good person. Girls should be kind first, and then beautiful. But only good girls are top grades. A kind and intelligent girl is a fine product. Only girls who are kind, intelligent and elegant can be described as the best. Your advantage is that you already have all the talents and super potential of the best girl. I hope you realize what you already have!

For studious, I think of a point: when students are young, they refer to the primary school stage. If she can form the habit of keeping books as companions, then the child will be half successful; When she is older, she refers to the stage before going to college. If she can find her real interest and direction, the child will succeed in the other half. It probably means that she can be self-aware, self-discovered, and then have self-realized growth goals and motivation, so she won't be too confused in her thoughts and actions afterwards.

Of course, you don't have to worry about the second stage, you still have time to fully understand. What I want to say is that you have completed the first stage, and you have done very, very well. Dad just wants to remind you of two things at the first important turning point in your life: First, the knowledge in the world is infinite, but a person's energy is always limited. It is the key to master and change one's destiny to study hard and acquire more knowledge. Pay attention to everything and learn? The more knowledge you need to learn, the more you have to solve the problems of how to draw inferences from others, how to be proficient in learning, and how to be good at learning.

Simply put, you should not only read more books, but also learn to read! What do you mean you can read? I think you can read only when you can think. People who can think can see ahead, find problems before others and find solutions better than others. This is far more difficult and important than just describing and answering questions at the knowledge level and technical level! Only people who can think can learn and use knowledge, not just passively accept what others say and superficial notices, otherwise it will be dead reading, dead reading and dead reading. Only those who can think can continuously and consciously improve her quality, courage and consciousness.

I have always thought that the quality, courage and consciousness cultivated the day after tomorrow are simply too important for a person! Don't underestimate these six-character proverbs, which is dad's most proud sentence so far? The secret of martial arts? ! Do you know that?/You know what? Do you know that?/You know what? In the relationship between knowledge, ability and quality, quality is the core! Quality determines the starting point and orientation of a person's thinking; In the relationship between knowledge, knowledge and courage, courage is the most rare! Courage determines how much personality and ambition a person will eventually have; In the relationship between sensibility, intellectuality and savvy, savvy is the most wonderful! Understanding, as well as awareness based on understanding, determines a person's ultimate spiritual realm and how fast, how high and how far she can walk! Playing the piano is like this, so is the essence of all kinds of art, and the essence of all knowledge and things related to people lies here. Don't believe it? It won't be long before you tell me this experience in turn!

I also want to say a few words about life. Dad didn't mean to say these trivial things about food and clothing. You may think these things are very disdainful. But children, the most trivial things often contain the most real, vivid and easily overlooked details, and the most ordinary details often indicate the deepest, noblest and most valuable truth. I'm not worried about your pleasure and pursuit of life, and I'm not worried about your self-esteem and self-confidence formed in the happiness of life. This kind of self-esteem and self-confidence is not only your internal strength to realize your academic ideals in the next few years, or even more than ten years, but also a valuable asset that will benefit you for life!

Dad just wants to say a few more words to you, hoping to help you more:

First, always maintain a high degree of self-confidence and acceptance of yourself, no matter whether other people's eyes are fat or thin or small (haha, your eyes are naturally big, beautiful and electrified)? You should know that kindness can make people beautiful, and self-confidence is the foundation of a person's life and the source of charm! Perhaps it is for this reason that you look more mature and atmospheric than children of the same age. Do you feel it yourself?

Second, eating and dressing is related to food and clothing, appearance and health. You like food, and so does dad. In the future, we are destined to be a pair of food confidants! However, some health concepts need to be changed. Real food should always be moderately hungry. Real food pays the most attention to the balanced arrangement of nutrition and calories. The coarse dishes are carefully cooked and have a delicate taste. Is it close to the realm of joy without lewdness and sadness without injury? Fat but not greasy, thin but not firewood? Only the taste theory can be realized? Thirdly, if you really want to experience the wonderful feeling of slimming (that feeling is really special), I suggest you persevere like playing the piano or doing other things. Where there is perseverance, there is perseverance, and where there is perseverance, there is continuous production!

Son, life is a long marathon. Although it sometimes needs a short and brave explosive force, it is more often a test of a person's will and endurance. So some people say that the competition at the starting line is only important to Liu Xiang. Dad basically agrees with this view, but dad wants to tell you that even if this starting line doesn't completely belong to you (others have studied Olympic Mathematics for three or five years, and you have only studied it for less than one year), your starting performance is quite excellent! Through my own efforts, I have achieved satisfactory academic results without affecting my multi-interest, multi-hobby and multi-faceted development. Is it a well-deserved grand slam? Miyoshi students? .

I don't know if you have thought about it. The starting line and the starting point are not the same concept, and the starting point has richer connotations! On the starting point, your starting point is actually much higher than other children, which is unimaginable and incomparable for people who only see the horizontal starting line! Because, you have a broader interest starting point, a more realistic artistic starting point, a more outstanding thinking starting point, a deeper thinking starting point and a more conscious wisdom starting point. You may not be fully aware of this, but these five? Starting point? The driving force and stamina are amazing, and your future life will continue to fully confirm your father's judgment! Even if you are just an ordinary good person in your future studies and career, my father believes that you must be an ordinary good person with abundant self-restraint, internal and external training, firm will and noble temperament! However, a marathon is a marathon, and you won't win or lose your life because of the different starting points.

In other words, you will face many tests and hardships in the future. For this, whether you can clearly understand and treat it, and whether you can properly handle and arrange it is the most crucial! I don't know. Do you realize that? It doesn't matter if you don't realize it, because you will soon have an epiphany. Let's make a bet. In less than three years, the Buddha will pick flowers, Ye Jia will smile, and you will tell your father what you have experienced. At that time, my father must put everything around him and enjoy the chicken soup for my soul that my daughter gave me, okay?

Dear girl, whether life is in the arena of fierce confrontation or in the Peach Blossom Garden with deep still water, self-awareness and self-realization are two sides of the same coin, which are indispensable. Self-awareness is achieved through conscious self-reflection and external comparison day after day, while self-realization is achieved through constant self-practice, self-overcoming and self-transcendence! Therefore, in a sense, if you grasp yourself, you will grasp everything. You should always remember that no one can beat you except yourself! No one can beat you except yourself! No one can surpass you except yourself!

Angels are in imagination, and demons are always in details. You have ambition, you have direction, you have goals! But these are not enough, far from enough. We must also have the courage and wisdom to constantly challenge the evil influence in our hearts!

Speaking of courage, you may sometimes feel timid, but I don't think so. Fear and avoidance of things actually come from the moment when you can't see things, and exist in your own imagination that scares you, haha? Just yesterday, before you boarded the frisbee, were you a little scared? Are you afraid to open your eyes when the world is spinning and your head is on your feet? But after running a few laps, didn't you find the feeling of relaxation? When I turned to surrender, didn't you enjoy it alone again? A journey of fear? Really? You are not timid, on the contrary, you are quite courageous, but it is always difficult for people to easily clear the obstacles in their minds for the first time.

Everyone will inevitably encounter such teasing and tempering in the process of growing up, which is normal. I once told you that it is not shameful for a person to make mistakes or even make a fool of himself, but it is the most shameful thing for a person not to have the courage to face it! If you don't have the courage to create what kind of opportunities and stages for yourself, then what kind of opportunities and stages you will definitely miss! Isn't it? Maybe you don't know, how many times I watched the video of Mr. Liu's piano concert, and looked at your confident and elegant appearance. With your fingertips freely fantasizing and flowing, I will relive it, and I will cry for your excellent psychological quality and excellent performance!

Speaking of wisdom, I think what you need most now is habits and methods. Dad knows that you are a child who knows how to learn and progress. In the six years of primary school study, you have also accumulated many good habits and methods, otherwise you will not achieve excellent results and performance. But from middle school, the learning environment, learning courses and learning requirements you have to face will be very different from those of primary schools, especially the requirements for self-study ability will be very high. Those who can learn, that is, those who have mastered self-study methods and strong self-study ability, will certainly be able to do it with ease; Those who can't learn, those who have poor self-study ability, are bound to be tired of coping, and finally leave helpless regrets. then what When I advise you to cherish taking care of teenagers, does bloom have to fold straight? All right! Of course, each subject has its own characteristics and corresponding learning methods, and it cannot be generalized. However, * * * does have some rules and methods that should attract your attention. I think the following points are particularly important!

First, we must not be afraid of difficulties, but face them. There will be all kinds of small difficulties and big setbacks in life, and so will learning. No one is an exception. God will not show partiality to anyone. On the contrary, the better people are, the more difficulties and setbacks they will experience. This is the dialectics of life. Difficult and easy are always relative, and the key depends on how you understand and grasp it. ? Easy, not for, easy and difficult; Difficult, difficult and easy for it? . An excellent person is excellent because she must see it this way: if there is difficulty, it is difficult to tell me that the method is wrong; The problem is that the problem tells me not to work hard enough; Difficulties are springs, and if you are weak, it will be strong; The problem is bones, who gnaws who is strong; I am frustrated not because I am persistent and strong, but because setbacks make me more persistent and strong! With such awareness, will you still be afraid of difficulties and avoid them?

Second, we should be kind to criticism and tolerant of dissidents. If a person wants to achieve something, he can't do without three people: personal efforts, the help of nobles and the supervision of villains. ? See the sage Si Qi, but think of yourself if you don't see the sage? This is a personal effort, and everyone already knows it, so I won't say more. I want to tell you who is your noble person. The gentleman is harmonious but different, and the villain is not harmonious? The person who can kindly point out that you are not good or right is actually your most precious person. No matter whether his words are reasonable or biased (of course, we must maintain our own independent judgments and opinions), we can't simply reject his words. Instead, you should pay special attention to them. Even if there are so-called saboteurs, no matter whether their motives are good or bad, you should regard them as a mirror as much as possible. This just shows your shortcomings and gains and losses, reminding and helping you to be more rigorous, perfect and perfect at all times! If you can do this, you will not only gain ability, but also have many valuable teachers and friends.

Son, it sounds simple, but it's really hard to do. How many brilliant people are deaf, blind, oversight, and inaccurate because they can't overcome human weaknesses such as saving face, praising praise, and fishing for fame, and finally they are wrong and failed? This has nothing to do with a person's age, beauty, ugliness, wealth, status, grades and education, but only depends on a person's consciousness!

Third, the character should be tough, especially small. Excellence is character, and Excellence is also habit. I told you that Japanese children only learn three things in kindergarten: they will smile from the heart; Will say thank you from the heart; I will arrange my clothes from the heart, even if it is just a nap, I will fold them neatly. You have both the first two, but to be honest, you haven't learned the third one well.

Of course, it's not all your fault. What we did was wrong. This good thing that belongs to you was temporarily taken away by your parents in the name of private love. However, since you have to think about it, why do you want to do such a good deed yourself? Is it really just to solve the problem of whether it will? I don't think so. Because, meeting is not equal to meeting, meeting is not equal to meeting! The power of habit is wonderful and powerful, just as you said! Good habits can make you develop a rigorous and meticulous character through persistence and self-discipline (in fact, it is also a revision of a person's character), and bad habits will ruin the future of a good child. Dad said that, not alarmist. Look around you, you can easily find evidence from both sides! From living a good life to learning a good life, it is everywhere all the time.

Fourth, we should think independently and be good at summing up. This is very important for a middle school student. The process of classifying, inducing and summarizing knowledge is also the process of your independent thinking and intensive cultivation. It is suggested that you should have two special notes in and after class for each course and special training, which is convenient for reference and review (even a good memory is not as good as writing); On the other hand, many a mickle makes a mickle. You don't panic if you have food in your hand. When you are familiar with it at ordinary times, you can use it freely in wartime, and then you can make a small victory into a big victory, realizing the learning purpose of many a mickle makes a mickle. Isn't that what playing the piano is all about? Two days ago, dad told you to solve the technical problems of playing by combining fast playing with slow playing, and to solve the artistic conception of music by imagining the picture and constructing the plot. If this method is your own thinking, or you can write it down sporadically first, and then sort it out systematically, what an amazing habit and ability!

Fifth, we should learn to plan and attach importance to efficiency. Every subject, every learning stage, even daily and hourly learning should have advanced, efficient and reasonable long-term plans and short-term arrangements, and it is best to form something in writing, even if it is simple! Rationality is mainly reflected in not being partial to subjects and picky eaters, and efficiency is mainly reflected in time planning, combining arts and sciences, combining work and rest, and working speed per unit time. Learning is fun and hard work, but without planning, it is inefficient, and there is no fruit after the sweetness, and there is sweetness in the bitterness! ? If you have a constant, why go to bed at night and get up at five o'clock; The most useless, a day without freezing for ten days? (Mao Zedong). As long as you have perseverance, insist on making a good study plan and constantly improve your study efficiency, I believe you will find the infinite freedom and relaxed fun that learning brings you!

Sixth, we must guard against carelessness, and honesty is more important. It is impossible for a child with a rough personality and a rough habit to succeed in his studies. Middle school learning is different from primary school, and it has many key knowledge and abilities, including English reading, writing, listening, speaking and memory, accumulation of writing knowledge and experience, understanding of mathematical logic, training of calculation ability, understanding and memory of various axioms, principles and formulas, etc. Can't be expected to be realized in a short time. If you don't understand, master and learn well, you will form an irreparable gap and fault in your knowledge and ability, and finally you will be powerless! Therefore, we should pay special attention to the understanding of each knowledge point from the beginning and practice our homework in a big and fast way. Don't be unreasonable, specious (this is different from unreasonable in the art field, specious), superficial, self-righteous, and actually can't stand the test. This is the most common and harmful habit and problem of many children, and it must be avoided!

Seventh, enjoy fun and highlight your strengths. Son, dad has carefully observed your hobbies. You have great potential in almost all types of thinking, such as language sense, music sense, performance, composition, writing, literature and history, mathematics, space, logic, thinking and so on. What you have to do now is to stick to it and cultivate your hobbies. If what dad said can't arouse your conscious attention and pay accordingly, it will be a huge and regrettable loss for you!

In short, what is in a person's heart is what she really owns, and the wealth in a person's heart is her real wealth! Dear girl, dad said so many words of hope that there are two words of hope. The last thing dad wants is for you to be the kind of person who has ideals and no direction, personality and no opinion, education and no knowledge, knowledge and no culture, but is an adult. Dad doesn't want you to melt this cauldron overnight, either? Hard porridge? . After all, mixed taste, nutrition collocation, color sketch, weight balance and temperature control all need your own care and time to stir and taste! However, dad believes that what you will eventually understand is your own consciousness and thinking. That kind of understanding is definitely more valuable than dad's understanding!

By then, it must be the happiest time for dad!

By the way, girl, the white blade in your eyes is in front of you, Mount Tai collapses behind you, and you are still calm and calm, always reminding dad of a sentence: Not cold, not awake, not quiet, not far away? . Whenever I have time, I will recite Zhuge Liang's 86-word letter from home with tears in my eyes. Oh, no, you'd better recite it to dad! You talk like singing, and dad loves it!

It's up to you, girl

Sing, learn and grow!

Love your father forever.

XX，XX，XX，XX

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