Today, a male student in Class One of Senior High School was ridiculed by the group, because the student posted a screenshot of Baidu Encyclopedia "fear of marriage" in the circle of friends, which attracted satire and ridicule from all walks of life.
Many students say that I am afraid of being born in fear of marriage. Some students said that if you are afraid, you will not get married; What's more, it is also used to show off.
By the way, my classmate is 35 years old and one year old.
After all, happiness is happiness, but this problem is still worth thinking about. In today's society, fear of marriage men and women are not alone, or even a few. These groups include young people who have just graduated from college, people of trial marriage age of 27 or 28, and my classmates who entered middle age at the age of 30.
There are many reasons for fear of marriage, so what are the main performances of fear of marriage, my male compatriots? You can think from the following three aspects.
1, one of the classic manifestations of male fear of marriage patients: marriageable age without marriage.
Both men and women are afraid of getting married. Especially now, women are becoming more and more independent. Many girls say, look, I can buy a car and a bag myself. After marriage, I have parents-in-law to deal with and weak children to raise. If I had lost my mind and found an unreliable man, I would have had a divorce, which was both harmful and sad. Maybe I will have to take care of my children alone, so I will only get married when I am sick.
But there is a problem here. Many women will eventually choose to compromise at the age of 30+ due to the pressure from relatives, friends and even parents.
I have several girlfriends who barely got married at the age of 30, but after 30, I really can't stand the crying and tears of my parents every year. Girlfriends with strong ability and high psychological quality run away from home, go to the provincial capital or go to the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen to find a job, live alone, and some of them go abroad directly. Most people who stay in their hometown will compromise with their parents, meet men through various channels and get married.
But relatively speaking, the fear of marriage psychology of male patients is much stronger. They are not afraid of the comments of relatives and friends, nor the tears and cries of their parents. They go their own way, make ends meet, and just don't get married.
A considerable number of these male patients have girlfriends or have had more than one girlfriend. They began to fall in love around the age of 20, then broke up, fell in love again, broke up again and talked again, and so on until they were over 35 or even over 45.
Always in love, never married, no problem with sexual orientation, just never married. If your girlfriend is forced to get married, just break up and find another one.
Sometimes, as a friend, I ask them why they don't get married. Isn't the current girlfriend nice? They will tell you seriously that they are still in the acquaintance stage and are not married. Yes, I know it for at least two years, but I don't know enough. How should I know?
2. The classic performance of male fear of marriage patients: abandon all unmarried principles immediately when they meet true love.
Sometimes it's interesting to watch the news in the entertainment circle, and find that although they don't disclose it publicly in many aspects, some actions will still expose the essence of human nature.
Let's talk about the case of Chinese and foreign male stars getting married when they meet true love.
Case 1: King of Aaron Kwok.
As we all know, Guo Tianwang and his ex-girlfriend Xiong Dailin have been dating for seven years. A few years ago, it was an anecdote that people didn't admit at all. They didn't put it down until the eve of breaking up, followed by "shoes don't fit."
Originally, it was nothing to entertain the public, but soon after breaking up, they openly violated traffic rules and drove hand in hand. Just as the people who eat melons are waiting for the entertainment news that Moka Fang, the owner of Taobao, has been broken up, what they are waiting for is the thunderbolt that Guo Tianwang is going to marry Moka Fang.
Nani? As far as fame is concerned, Xiong Dailin has at least acted in movies and often appeared in entertainment news. Moka Fang is just an unknown 78-line network celebrity model; In terms of appearance, Xiong Dailin is also an ordinary model, with both height and figure. Moka Fang can only be a plane model, but she can't see how outstanding she is. In terms of age, Xiong Dailin is 80 years old, Moka Fang is 87 years old and Guo Tianwang is 65 years old. No matter who it is, it is enough to match Guo Tianwang.
What's more, Guo Tianwang once had an affair with sexy goddesses Christy Chung and Norika Fujiwara. How can he recognize Moka Fang, a celebrity model on the Internet, and say that "shoes don't fit"?
Don't tell me, since 52-year-old Guo Tianwang cured his fear of marriage and entered the marriage hall, he changed his previous indifferent state, not only knew how to show off his daughter, but also gave Moka Fang a bunch of pink roses on the occasion of their wedding anniversary. My wife Moka Fang didn't become a housewife. During pregnancy, she still stuck to her post and took hard photos to promote her products. After giving birth, she also lost weight quickly. According to the gossip, she may be pregnant again.
Case 2: The sexiest Clooney.
George Clooney is definitely a bachelor and a serious case of fear of marriage. Clooney is handsome and famous. He has acted in many classic plays and movies, and he is also very talented. He also pays attention to the world pattern, especially his sincere concern for war refugee areas. He bought satellites at his own expense to monitor the war zone and saved many victims.
But Clooney, a moral model, is successful, handsome and rich, but his personal love life is a mess. 1993 after his first marriage failed, he declared that he was fear of marriage, had more than 20 girlfriends, and was determined not to get married or have children. The most lasting thing with him is the pet pig given by a girlfriend before marriage, which has been with him for more than ten years and has a higher status than previous girlfriends.
This is such a serious case of fear of marriage that at the age of 53, the patient knelt down and proposed to Dazu amal. The proposal declaration lasted for 28 minutes, and the proposal ring was a diamond ring worth $750,000 designed by Uncle Shuai himself.
The people who eat melons are not satisfied again, thinking that you are so serious in fear of marriage, how can you treat it? You also said that you had no children, and now you suddenly have twins and girls, which is so contradictory.
Let's see who amal is. The big guy is a top student. She is tall and beautiful. She walked the red carpet with her uncle, without losing any other female stars. Dazu's family is well-off, and his parents have status and talent. At first, he opposed Clooney, a playboy and a Hollywood star, as a son-in-law, thinking that there was no depth. Only when he understood Clooney's sincere help to Sudanese victims and his concern for human rights, did he put down his heart and agreed to their interaction. Dazu has a good career, and almost all lawsuits are transnational cases, mainly to safeguard human rights.
More importantly, when he met amal, Clooney's fear of marriage completely healed and he turned to show off his rich wife. He often stared at the charming Zhuo Zhuo wife with infinite admiration and spoil, and his face was intoxicated.
Perhaps we can see from the case of two elderly patients, fear of marriage, that it was not fear of marriage, but a man who didn't make him make up his mind to get married.
3. The classic performance of fear of marriage, a male patient: It's still her, who has been with her for many years, but just doesn't want that piece of paper.
The final performance is hard to explain with pure fear of marriage. I can give you money, love and even children, but I just don't want that marriage certificate.
Famous examples are Chen Kexin and Ji Xiaobo.
This is not easy for Chen Kexin and Wu Junru. They have been together for many years, supporting each other, developing each other and having children, but they just don't get married. Wu Junru herself said that everything about Chen Kexin belongs to her, and they are no different from real couples now. To put it bluntly, that piece of paper is missing.
Chen Kexin is not ashamed to care about his life partner and daughter. He can also actively express his love for Wu Junru and his daughter on many occasions. There has been almost no scandal for so many years, so he is a good man. Wu Junru is also a rare enlightened and thorough person. What she often says seems short and not long, but it is very reasonable and needs to be carefully remembered.
Ji Xiaobo is another example. Wu Peici has given birth to three children and is said to be staying in a hotel. Miss Wu is one of the seven fairies of Little S Sisters. It's been seven or eight years, and she's not young anymore. Since being with Ji Xiaobo, Miss Wu has hardly taken up her job and can't take care of one child after another. Maybe she doesn't have to worry about her career or run around.
Some people say that it is inappropriate for Ji Xiaobo not to give Wu Peici a legal title after all. Others say that Ji Xiaobo is protecting Wu Peici, and his wife will not be involved if his business fails. I disagree with the latter statement. What is the market value of FACEBOOK and the value of Ma Yun? I didn't say I divorced my wife early for fear of business failure.
There are many men who have been in love with a woman for many years, lived together for many years and had children, but they just don't get married. It can only be said that women are willing, otherwise they will break up after all.
Thinking of teacher Li Yinhe's point of view, she thinks that marriage will eventually die, but it has not completely died.
Maybe in the next 10 year, there will be more and more unmarried people, and the proportion will be larger and larger, and it will become more and more common.
Nowadays, many women are reluctant to get married because they have been squeezed too much in the marriage market and have to bear the workplace risks brought by childbirth after marriage; The men's team is very interesting. Those who don't get married are determined not to get married. Many people want to get married, but they have to passively not get married because they can't find a suitable marriage partner.
In fact, there are some people who can't get married in every era. If you don't believe me, ask your elders if there are any elderly people who have never been married in rural and urban areas. So it doesn't matter if you don't get married today, especially if you are afraid of getting married, as long as you don't hurt other innocent people.