Recently, I saw that Xiao S's three daughters have been in the media one after another. Someone left a message saying that she envied her. It's really good! How can the three have their own characteristics and aesthetic feelings?

Seeing these three girls grow up with my own eyes, I saw Xiao S's concern and support for the three children. She will carefully observe the characteristics of children and encourage them to explore their hobbies and talents, but she will not force them to do anything they have to do. Eldest brother likes dancing since he was a child, but he has also studied music, ball games and other sports. The second child also likes dancing, but seems to prefer cooking and painting, so he develops interest in this direction; The third child likes dancing and performing, so he learned all kinds of dancing and enjoyed it.

(Xiao S encourages children to develop their interests, and all three daughters won the first place in different dances. Excerpted from Little Facebook)

Small S doesn't stare at children's school classes or talent classes. She taught them to be responsible for themselves. Instead of staring at them and thinking about them and Bandu, she spends more time chatting with them, telling stories, making faces, getting to know their classmates and friends, and traveling with them in winter and summer vacations.

When the child is praised, affirmed and ranked first in the search list, she will also remind the children in the family group in time, "Mom is proud of you, but be a kind, independent and brave person! Never be proud, be confident! Love you. "

It is not difficult to have children, but it is difficult to raise them. How to love without doting, how to make children confident but not bursting or feel good about themselves, how to make children love themselves, and how to let go of their natural freedom instead of asking them to follow their own expectations are really difficult to deal with.

(Little S and his daughter have a Halloween masquerade like sisters. Excerpted from Little Facebook)

Little S didn't shape his children, but let them develop freely, support them to be themselves bravely, explore their own characteristics, and not change themselves because of other people's eyes. Besides, she has always set an example. Although she is joking on the screen to make jokes, in private, she is actually very polite to others, constantly learning and growing up, being herself seriously, not following the crowd in pursuit of famous brands and clothes, and being enthusiastic about helping others and public welfare, so the children have a good example.

It's really not easy to bring up children. It's even harder to get good grades without forcing them to do their homework. As parents, it is hard not to worry about their children, and it is even harder not to compare their children with other children, hoping to win at the starting point. How to know and treat their children with "heart" and help and support them to develop their own characteristics is a major homework and challenge for parents.

Every child's characteristics are different, and life can't always be smooth sailing. There will always be adversity and trials, but when parents can really see, support, bless and affirm their children, every child can become a unique, shining, brave and happy star.