Indeed, everything about me is so happy and beautiful. However, all this was ruined by me, because I went to the gym.
I usually have a lot of time, but I am lazy and don't like sports. Once, my best friend encouraged me to go to the gym to exercise, which not only kept me in shape, but also delayed my aging and made me happy.
So I went with him. Unexpectedly, every time I sweat, I feel refreshed and feel great. So, I basically go to the gym every day.
Second, I met Xiao Tao, a private tutor, and found the feeling of first love. After two weeks' visit, I found that people are taking private lessons, and I also found a personal trainer.
The coach is a young man, surnamed Tao, only 28 years old. He is tall, strong and in excellent shape. I feel my heart beat faster when I read it. I have a soft spot for muscular men since I was a child.
With such a coach, I have a passion for training and a desire to show my figure in front of him as soon as possible.
In the process of fitness, the two of us gradually became familiar with each other. Xiao Tao is lively and humorous, young and energetic, but he is very disciplined and won't have any bad behavior. However, his eyes made me feel like my first love.
Third, I twisted my foot, which helped Xiao Tao a lot. Once on the way to the gym, I accidentally stepped on the uneven road because I was thinking about something, sprained my foot and swollen my ankle. I called my husband, but he never answered. This place is less than 300 meters away from the gym. I called Xiao Tao and he will come soon.
Without saying anything, Xiao Tao carried me to a nearby place and bought ice cubes to help me apply it. Then, I called a car and helped me get on. After getting off the bus, I was carried to the hospital clinic.
I don't know why, but in those two short hours, I was right.
Fortunately, it is not a big problem to deal with it in time. After I got home, my husband didn't call me to say hello until I got home. I said it was nothing, and my husband didn't care deeply. Instead, he continued to go into his room and said that he was in a hurry to hand in the plan at night. Looking at her husband's indifferent back is in sharp contrast with Xiao Tao.
Fourth, I invite Xiao Tao to dinner. I didn't think I would cross the line like this, and the rest of my life would be ruined. I rested at home for two weeks. During this time, Xiao Tao was also caring and attentive, taking care of me for three days. So, when I recovered almost, I took the initiative to invite Xiao Tao to dinner to show my gratitude. This meal, the two of us had a good chat, so we had a few more drinks, and then I got drunk. Then I gave up in a daze, and then, the two had a relationship. Later, our ambiguous behavior became more natural.
Two months later, my husband accidentally found a clue in my hand, and then went to the gym to find out Xiao Tao and their manager. I was at the gym that day. My husband took me home on the spot and then asked for a divorce directly.
At that time, I had a rude awakening and regretted that I had gone too far. I am sorry for my husband and my family. Think about those years when they worked together. My husband also works hard day and night for his family, but he doesn't cherish the good life.
At this time, I was ashamed of my husband, but I still asked his forgiveness. I told him that I was not a volunteer and I didn't know what happened that day.
Although, my husband calmed down and didn't mention the divorce with me again. Since then, he has had a cold war with me and never approached me again.
I didn't blame him, but I regret what I did. Is the rest of my life just ruined?
Concluding remarks
How dare you say you have to do this?
How can you voluntarily have sex with a man you don't want to have sex with?
In this case, will you do it again against your will in the future?
Men are strong on the surface, but they are very fragile inside. The death point of a man is self-esteem and dignity.
If you still want to have a good life with him, then the first step is to deal with your husband's negative emotions.
Since he didn't file for divorce according to your request, it's because he still has you and this family in mind, or there are other reasons. For example, he may not accept being a loser and being dumped by a cuckold. For another example, he just wants to retaliate and torture you with indifference to calm his deep frustration.
Therefore, as an unfaithful woman, you should deal with her great frustration, distrust, strong anger and hurt.
However, the later development may also move in the original direction: you are still divorced.
Because you can't get back together. In your cold days, men are actually suffering and torturing themselves.
Gao once said:
What is a good feeling? Let us all become better ourselves, this is the most important thing, and that is a good relationship, whether it is a period or a lifetime.
If it is not a good relationship, there is no way to spend your life with you. How long can it last? No matter you or your husband, it is the same.
We can only find a way to save it. Bless you.