With the changes brought by minimalist life, I seem to have changed a lot unconsciously. The more I grow up, the more I find that some ideas have undergone earth-shaking changes in subtle ways.

Especially after entering the age of 30, it means a deeper understanding of yourself, life and life. In these understandings and changes, I decided to do the following 1 1 and never do it again.

Under the disruption of the epidemic, almost all businesses are engaged in more and more price reduction promotions, whether in shopping malls, physical stores or online shopping. All kinds of goods make you buy more and more, but how many can you really use? To put it bluntly, it is a bunch of "decorations" bought cheaply.

After I turned 30 and lived a minimalist life, the first thing I changed was that I would rather spend a little more money on goods with better quality than buy a bunch of goods with no quality and no use, not to mention the bad experience after using them, which became shelved and piled up at home.

Buying less and buying more is my most basic requirement for daily necessities.

After the age of 30, the first sign of loving yourself is to cherish your body more. In the past, I always went to bed very late in order to play mobile phones or brush dramas, and the final result was that I got up the next morning and felt uncomfortable.

Now, I brush my teeth and wash my face with my children every day, take good care of my skin, lie in bed with my children and read picture books, then turn off the lights and sleep.

Nothing is more important than health. It is foolish to sacrifice precious sleep time for unimportant entertainment. If you understand this, you won't do it again.

I'm 30 years old, and I don't look very fat, but that's because I lie down every day. After lying on the sofa in bed, you become an elephant leg and a big belly as soon as you lie down.

Looking at my horrible figure, I decided not to lie down any more. I want to take action. At the very least, I have to stand up first. Arrange stretching for 10 minutes every morning, sweat rabbit dance twice at noon and exercise once at night. In short, now I can stand, never sit or lie down.

After the age of 30, although we must take good care of skin care, we will not blindly follow the recommendation of the anchor to buy a set of skin care products.

I haven't bought any skin care products since I lived in minimalism. It's been over a year. Next, I think I can insist on not buying them for another year.

I don't mean to touch my face after buying skin care products. Take good care of your skin and pay attention to "external use and internal repair". Every skin care product should play the biggest role to show the most basic respect for the skin.

From now on, I no longer worry about my previous mistakes; I won't worry about bothering others to blame myself for being sick.

We're just ordinary people. People make mistakes or get sick. We should accept ourselves frankly, make peace with ourselves, let go of what we can, bury what we can't, and don't hold back.

Why do you go against your heart in order to make others happy, and why do you wronged yourself in order to see others' faces? From now on, all the things that you have wronged yourself in order to please others and cater to others, stop here and see your heart clearly.

If something has brought me anything since I was 30, I can say loudly that it is an open life, and it is impossible for everyone to like my courage.

In our life, our ears are always full of endless complaints. From small things to big things, from life to work, we always seem to complain.

Many times, what makes us grow up is often just a small thing in some complaints.

Now, I won't complain any more, because there are some things that some people can't say clearly. When they see it clearly and figure it out, they will stop complaining.

Don't satisfy the desire to buy indiscriminately because of impulse, but know how to use money on the cutting edge.

At present, I have closed the flower garden, quit the group purchase, stopped spending in advance, and saved the money. Because anyone who has suffered from lack of money will know that money is a person's self-confidence and the most basic sense of security.

After 30, don't spend in advance. It's all routine. Learn to save, learn to manage money, and learn to save money.

I used to feel confused and anxious about life. I always feel I don't know what to do. In the end, confusion has become the normal state of life, because there are too many ideas and too few actions.

Now 30 years old, I can't be confused, but I have no time to be confused at all. There are too many things to do at this age to be confused.

If you are still confused, read a book, because you can always find the answer in the book.

In fact, inferiority complex is a mental illness, which I fully understand, but it is difficult to get out. I believe many people feel a little inferior.

This kind of psychology is very bad, so bad that people can't see the dawn and the future they yearn for. This is a negative emotion, and many people have had inferiority complex. Therefore, we must learn to mediate this mentality, strive to change ourselves and make ourselves confident.

Because of the pressure of life, I have very high demands on my children. Sometimes it will be very annoying to fail to meet the requirements, and the relationship with children will be very tense for a while.

After introspection, I found that I imposed my expectations on my children, hoping to make up for my regrets and even satisfy them, but it caused them a serious burden invisibly.

Now, I begin to relax the strict requirements for children and make friends with them as long as they are healthy and happy, because children are never our accessories.

End ...

After thirty, I will never do these 10 things again.

In fact, I know more about life and how to love myself.

The author introduces a little speech.

A brave woman, who loves writing and keeps pace with the times, is changing herself with writing. Her wish is to spend her life in the way she likes.