Chapter 1: Plastic surgery is addictive. Physical disgust is at work.

Chapter 2: Inventory two or three psychological misunderstandings of cosmetic surgery.

Chapter 3: Plastic psychology you don't know.

Nowadays, women pursue perfection and always go for plastic surgery, which is a typical psychological "physiological aversion" to plastic surgery. The following small series will give you a detailed explanation of what is physical disgust, how to treat plastic surgery correctly, and how to get rid of this strange psychology.

Going to work will be addicted to plastic surgery "body aversion"

Typical case: inexplicable cosmetic knot

Do you know that?/You know what? Do you know that?/You know what? Do you know that?/You know what? Do you know that?/You know what? Many people go for plastic surgery because of some inexplicable knots. What's so strange about it?

Let's look at two real cases together.

He Ming, 24, is a young man who has just entered the workplace. He said he was short and unmanly. That day, he suddenly found himself ugly in the mirror, especially his small flat nose, which was not good-looking. He wants to have a nose job. His mother says his nose is fine. But today, he still thinks his nose is ugly, so he thinks of plastic surgery. He went to the beauty hospital, and the doctor told him that there was nothing wrong with his nose, so he should consider it carefully. He asked: Do I need surgery or not?

What kind of psychology is this? Why does a good young man fight with his nose?

Cao Hui is a 26-year-old medical graduate student, tall and handsome. Strangely, it is such a girl who says she is ugly or not. She thinks her mouth is crooked and ugly. However, as a counselor, I didn't see anything strange about this girl's mouth at all. What the hell is going on here? She said: probably in junior high school, I felt my mouth was crooked, but my family and doctors said it was okay. In order to treat her, the doctors adopted acupuncture therapy. Later, she treated herself with acupuncture. One day, seeing the information of plastic surgery, she seemed to find hope and decided to have plastic surgery. But my family objected. She asked: Do I want plastic surgery or not?

What kind of psychology is this? Why do good girls keep their mouths shut

Psychoanalysis: It's all caused by physiological aversion.

The knot between He Ming and Cao Hui who want plastic surgery is called "body aversion" in psychology. The so-called body aversion is mainly manifested in being very concerned about one's appearance and having psychological aversion to a certain part of one's body. Generally speaking, men often think that their noses are not straight, their sexual desire is not big enough, their bodies are not tall enough and so on. Women often feel that their mouths are ugly, their breasts are too small to be sexy, their bodies are fat and thin, and so on. Therefore, cosmetic surgery and plastic surgery for men and women are often related to these parts. Among them, it is obvious that men like the whole nose and women like the whole mouth.

Why is this? From the perspective of psychoanalysis, graphic aversion often has its symbolic significance. The nose is a "protruding" part of the body, so it has the symbolic meaning of male genitalia, which makes people subconsciously think of male genitalia. The mouth is a hole in the body, so it has the symbolic meaning of female genitalia, which makes people subconsciously think of female genitalia. The same is true in life. A man's nose can make a woman feel sexy, and a woman's mouth can make a man feel sexy. Therefore, the nose is often worried about some men who lack male gender confidence, and the mouth is often worried about those women who lack female gender confidence. Of course, hating white people who are too short and thin is also a manifestation of worrying about their sexual charm. Worrying about breasts or penises directly reflects sexual psychological problems.

So, why do people feel physically disgusted?

When He Ming was in the sixth grade, one day he urinated in the toilet with his classmates during recess and was laughed at loudly by a classmate. Come and see, how small his urine is! Since then, He Ming has been ashamed and painful for his genitals and dare not go to the school toilet. It was not until the second year of high school that he began to associate with girls. Unexpectedly, the first time he wrote a note, he was rejected. After that, he found something wrong with his nose.

When Cao Hui was a child, her parents often quarreled and were very strict with her. No matter what she does, her parents are always dissatisfied and critical. This has done great harm to Cao Hui's psychology and made her feel insecure and inferior since she was a child. In middle school, she experienced a hazy first love.

But the boy left her and got along with another girl. From then on, she felt ugly and her mouth was crooked.

In this way, people who don't like body shape are often frustrated in sexual psychology, thus affecting gender and the confidence of the whole person.

Psychological countermeasures: centering before plastic surgery.

No matter from the case of psychological counseling or from the data of beauty hospital, the above two examples are not cases. So, what should you do if you are one of them? The best way is to "center" before plastic surgery.

One of psychological strategies: cognitive adjustment

First of all, know yourself correctly and learn to accept yourself. This requires learning to look at problems from different angles. Look at yourself, look at life. Of course, it also includes re-understanding and discovering your own gender charm. In this way, we will gradually get out of the cognitive misunderstanding, re-recognize ourselves and learn to accept ourselves. Once people accept themselves from another angle, then being fat means being plump, being thin means being slim, being short means being stocky, and being tall means being upright. Everything about you has a unique charm, so there will be nothing wrong with your nose or mouth.

Secondly, pay attention to the inner charm and bring it into play. A person's real charm comes from the heart, and it is fundamental to play the inner charm. For example, although you are not proud, you are brilliant and brilliant, and you cherish and appreciate your talents. When you feel the admiration and envy of others for your talent, you may be able to accept yourself; If your ability is average, you can focus on your personality, fully realize your kindness and generosity, and feel the sincere praise and closeness of people around you, which can also help you accept yourself.

The second strategy of psychological adjustment: behavior adjustment

First of all, change your life behavior pattern: however, people who are disgusted with their body shape will notice the lack of self-acceptance; People who lack self-acceptance tend to be self-enclosed. Therefore, we should strive to get out of the closed self and improve interpersonal communication (including heterosexual communication). In interpersonal communication, others' acceptance of themselves helps strengthen self-acceptance.

Secondly, take special measures to curb the impulse of cosmetic surgery. A time delay can be used. When you have the impulse of plastic surgery, don't make a decision immediately, but postpone and wait. In a month, reason may prevail over impulse. You can also enrich your life by shifting your attention to other things, thus diluting the idea of plastic surgery. When necessary, you can also scientifically resolve the knot under the guidance of psychological professionals.

Take stock of two or three psychological misunderstandings of cosmetic surgery.

With the continuous development of science and technology, people can modify their appearance according to their own wishes: cutting double eyelids, rhinoplasty and sharpening their chin. However, some people are not satisfied with themselves in the mirror because of psychological deviation, and they are addicted to plastic surgery, hoping to have a perfect face through plastic surgery and meet their own identification needs. There are many people who have this psychological misunderstanding about cosmetic surgery.

Everyone loves beauty, but those who can choose plastic surgery have different moods and needs. Next, let's look at several cases.

Event 1

Xiao Jing, 25, is a professional model. She is 1.72 meters tall, with fair skin and delicate facial features. In the year of graduation, Xiao Jing made double eyelids for the first time. In the following three years, she had four rhinoplasty, chin padding, pouch removal, temple padding, face-lifting and liposuction. As soon as she heard which hospital had a good plastic surgery effect, she rushed there. Not long ago, she made an appointment for chin liposuction and face-lifting surgery. Her requirements for doctors are that she can't see her cheeks after plastic surgery, and there are no wrinkles around her eyes when she smiles.

Two events

Wang Fen, 2 1 year-old, accidentally bumped his nose before the college entrance examination. From then on, she always felt that her nose was crooked. Every time she looks in the mirror, she feels uncomfortable and can't even breathe smoothly. She went to more than a dozen hospitals for plastic surgery. The doctors found that her nose was normal, but they didn't.

24-year-old Yu Jing is not satisfied with her wide face, but has a soft spot for Fan Bingbing's thin face. In order to make herself exactly like Fan Bingbing, she went to many plastic surgery hospitals, but all the doctors said "it is impossible to turn her into Fan Bingbing". An expert from a plastic surgery hospital said that every year, more than 200 people in the hospital alone asked to be "Fan Bingbing".

Information from Bian Xiao: The above examples are all caused by psychological factors, and they all belong to the psychological misunderstanding of plastic surgery. For this kind of people, experts suggest that we should correct our attitude towards plastic surgery and consult a psychologist before plastic surgery.

What you don't know about cosmetic psychology

With the development of plastic surgery industry, we have more possibilities than our predecessors. The seemingly unchangeable appearance can be magically changed by today's subjective initiative. More and more people begin to accept and try plastic surgery, but some people are addicted to it.

Indulge in cosmetic surgery and be alert to "cosmetic addiction"

It is not wrong for a person to choose artificial transformation to improve himself, because plastic surgery itself is a process of pursuing beauty, which is only related to personal lifestyle and aesthetic orientation. And we don't need to wear colored glasses to see a person's cosmetic psychology. But when more and more repeated plastic surgery news flooded our eyes, psychologists were worried about it. Frequent plastic surgery, they are likely to be addicted to plastic surgery, suffering from "plastic addiction."

Of course, it must be pointed out that not all people who go to plastic surgery have psychological problems, and they are not opposed to some appropriate plastic surgery. "Plastic addiction", or "excessive plastic surgery", refers to people who have only repeatedly modified the same part several times (more than two digits) or almost "repaired" the whole body.

"Plastic surgery addiction" stems from paranoid mentality.

Experts believe that "cosmetic addiction" mainly stems from paranoid mentality:

First, I don't agree with myself. The recipient hates the original me, doesn't want to see her, and even wants to lose her. Blaming the unhappiness of life on the appearance of self is simply to disagree with one's self-identity and reject one's birth, growth and self-existence, but this feeling of rejection is not enough as a way to end one's life, so the subject chooses to try to change.

The second is "heart addiction". After the operation, patients are satisfied and appreciated, and the psychological energy such as tension accumulated before will be released, resulting in pleasure and satisfaction. If a person's pleasure and satisfaction after plastic surgery is far greater than the pain and fear of plastic surgery failure, this satisfaction in turn strengthens the plastic surgery behavior, so the whole process is repeated.

Third, it is unrealistic. Excessive demands and unrealistic fantasies about the perfection of plastic surgery. In fact, these patients are suffering from "fantasy ugliness" mental illness. They always feel ugly, keep plastic surgery, keep pursuing perfection, and are always dissatisfied with the results of plastic surgery. I always try to achieve my ideal appearance through plastic surgery.

Psychological key to solving problems

In fact, cosmetic addiction is similar to shopping addiction, which belongs to the category of obsessive-compulsive disorder and has compulsive behavior. Faced with this mental illness, if it is not corrected in time, it may lead to more adverse consequences such as paranoia, anxiety and mental illness.

In order to alleviate the troubles caused by "cosmetic addiction", experts have the following suggestions:

First, mild patients take self-relaxation. For example, do deep breathing exercises, participate in group activities and cultural and sports activities, engage in ideal and interesting work, and cultivate hobbies in life, so as to establish new excitement and curb pathological excitement.

Second, critically ill patients can seek help from psychological professionals, such as supportive treatment. In the form of group therapy, people with the same troubles get together, find out the causes of symptoms under the guidance of professionals, support each other, inspire each other, and solve their own problems in a targeted manner.

Pursuing beauty is human instinct and nature, but beauty is multi-layered. It is not only the absolute beauty of eyebrows, eyes, nose and mouth, but also a feeling of three-dimensional harmony. Therefore, beauty seekers must adjust their mentality according to their actual situation before plastic surgery.

Summary: Although cosmetic surgery can make you beautiful, its harm to the body should not be underestimated. Don't go for plastic surgery easily. We should all treat plastic surgery correctly. Before plastic surgery, everyone should have an overall mentality. (The article was originally published in Health for All, ISSN:20 12/02, by Lin Yong, and the copyright belongs to the author; The purpose of reprinting is to convey more information, which does not mean that 360 Common Sense Network agrees with its views and is responsible for its authenticity. Please contact us as soon as possible if it involves content, copyright and other issues, and we will delete the content as soon as possible)