The scope of human ethics is very wide. The first article is about the love between teachers and students.

Why can't teachers and students love each other? I haven't verified this reason, but it seems that all countries in the world list it as one of the "immoral" behaviors. Just like Guo Jing said bitterly to Yang Guo, "Son, Miss Long is your master, how can you be together?" But why not be together? Who can tell me?

Broadly speaking, the love between teachers and students is very broad. Anyone who has coached you can be regarded as your "teacher", such as the master, tutor and so on in the factory. But these are not strictly immoral. Therefore, the "teacher-student relationship" I am discussing here has two criteria:

First, what happened at school;

Second, both sides have this intention and it did happen. All unsuccessful ones, unrequited ones and unrequited ones are not counted.

I searched my stomach and finally got 10, which is enough to send one.

Notes on a scandal

The theme of this movie is really going against the sky, involving at least three taboos: 1, teacher-student love; 2. Homosexuality; 3. Sexual behavior related to minors.

Everything is fair.

It also involves sexual behavior of minors. However, the film does not limit the perspective to the love between teachers and students. The little boy finally got rid of his infatuation with the female teacher's body, went through the most difficult step in his growth and completed his personality growth.

More than forty years old

Two periods of love between teachers and students: 20 years ago, my beloved female classmate and teacher gave birth to a child; Twenty years have passed, and I have not yet withstood the temptation of female students.

This movie is not as good as forty women. Personally, it's not that Xueyou's acting skills are not good, but that Xu Anhua's grasp of men's psychology is not as profound as that of women. In the film, the shaping of the role of Anita Mui is remarkable.

In addition, Lin Jiaxin became an instant hit with this film.

Piano teacher

The students are finally adults, but the teachers are abnormal enough. Jelinek's novels are obscure, even more so than marguerite duras's. I wonder if the Nobel Prize awarded to her three years later has anything to do with the promotion of movies.

Like bungee jumping

The male teacher fell in love with the male student because he believed that he was the reincarnation of his dead lover. Lee Byunghun went on with his poisoning journey ―― staged an uncle and sister-in-law love.

disappointed

The two protagonists in the film, a white man and a yellow man; An Englishman and an China; One is a teacher and the other is a student; One is nearly middle-aged, and the other is a teenager, but of the same sex. In a word, the film is a great attraction, which is a collection of transnational love, homosexuality, teacher-student love, unforgettable love and cross-racial love.

This film was shortlisted for the Asia-Pacific Film Festival that year, and I saw it for this title. But seriously, it's just so-so, except for the different themes.

These films are too heavy. Let's change something else.

Pure love edition outside the window

Aunt Qiong Yao's personal experience! Brigitte Lin's first screen work is simply amazing, and it is the first time to cooperate with Qin and Han Dynasties.

professoriat

It is also a classic of pure love.

Shall we dance?

I know this is probably a little reluctant ~ ~ ~ But does the dance training class count as a school? Is the dance teacher an old teacher? At least, the training course is also a model of adult education.

Minors have seen too many affairs. What happened between two middle-aged people was a pure spiritual love. ...

Finally, let's watch a funny movie ―― Skipping School and Veyron by Master Xing.

Although Master Xing is a fake student, this love affair at least happened on campus, and it really succeeded!

In ancient times, the love affair between collateral relatives was very common, and the marriage between cousins was legal. Because people in the patriarchal society think that as long as they have different surnames, there is no problem, and some places especially like "kin". It was not until modern medicine confirmed that this kind of marriage was genetically harmful that it was officially banned by all countries in the world.

However, the ethics of human society can never accept the love between immediate family members, whether they are related by blood or not. Surnames and families are the basic units of clan society, and strict moral norms even exceed the law. When a woman gets married, she has to change her husband's surname. After marriage, you are no longer Miss A, but Mrs. B), which shows that she has become a member of a certain surname, so it is absolutely impossible for people who are not related by blood, such as brother-in-law and father-in-law, to find love. So, not to mention those relationships that happen between immediate family members ―― brother-sister love, brother-sister love, father-daughter love …

It needs to be explained here:

1, "Thunderstorm", "Coagulation" and "Tianlong Babu" can't be counted as the love between brother and sister that I didn't know beforehand; The "fake brother and sister" love in "Blue Life and Death Love" does not count. Only those who know they are brothers and sisters but still love each other are discussed here.

2. Stepmother and son in The Banquet, stepfather and daughter in Lolita are not counted. Just talk about yourself.

Old boys-Sister-in-law Love+Father-daughter Love

Because the love between brother and sister broke down, which led to my sister's suicide, I locked up my enemy for 15 years, and even spared no effort to arrange every opportunity for my enemy's father and daughter to have incest. This kind of revenge is not only physical, but also psychological: we must let the other side taste the pain of incest. Human morality and shame have become the most powerful weapon of revenge.

Poisoning-uncle and sister-in-law love

In fact, this kind of relationship has only ethical significance and no legal value. Because it is not illegal for a sister-in-law to remarry her brother, there are many examples in real life. A woman who likes her brother is the same as a woman who likes her friends, but it makes people feel uncomfortable.

Fire-aunt's love

Deepa Mehta always likes shocking themes, so does her "trilogy of women". Water is about Indian widows. I haven't seen "The Earth" yet, but this is the love of an aunt: two women who are married to a pair of brothers are equally disappointed with their families and husbands and have feelings.

If such a theme is put in France or the United States, it is estimated that the concept will be controversial when it is liberated to death, not to mention India's. Therefore, it is not surprising that the studios in Deepa Mehta must be protected by soldiers to avoid the influence of extremists.

Father-son love-father-son love

The story of loving dad is not unusual, because daughters are always closer to their fathers. Father-son homosexuality is rare. At least, I haven't seen the mother-daughter relationship.

The lion in March-the love of brother and sister

This theme is very common in Japanese dramas, and there are many movies. The film is boring, but it's very good.

Isabella-Father-Daughter Love

In fact, when I watched it, I didn't think it was a film about incest, because the feeling was more subtle. Although everyone later focused on Liang Luoshi, it was clear that Du Wenze was more capable.

She is lonelier than fireworks ―― her aunt loves her brother-in-law.

Since my brother-in-law can love my sister-in-law, so can my aunt. Many people also express this theme, such as a dream, hehe.

But in She's Lonelier than Fireworks, I don't quite understand why Jackie has to sleep with her brother-in-law. This kind of psychology is really a bit difficult to understand.

Mother-child love

It's incredible that mom used sex to "save" a gay+drug addict's son. However, given the great influence of Freud's theory of Oedipus complex, Oedipus is no longer a substitute.

Love is badly hurt ―― the love between daughter-in-law and sister-in-law.

People who haven't read A Dream of Red Mansions also know Jiao Da's sentence: "Climb the ashes ..." This "climb the ashes" refers to the father-in-law stealing his daughter-in-law.

I admire louis malle's ability to make the story of "Climbing Up" so beautiful and rank among the top ten classic love movies in the world.

In addition: the movie girl and her younger brother had a brother-sister relationship, and later the younger brother committed suicide.

Mother and daughter take it all ―― son-in-law loves mother-in-law.

This kind of relationship always sounds a little strange, because since it is a "mother-in-law (including the future)", it is estimated that it is always a little old. Will it be more attractive than a young daughter? Well, I've seen this kind of movie too many times.

key

There are five versions of this film, and this poster is the Toshiharu Ikeda version. Personally, I think the "mother-in-law" here is the most beautiful, and Chuan Dao Naomi is really amazing! Kimura's actors are also very handsome.

graduate

This is so classic that it should be regarded as dustin hoffman's masterpiece. But in the end, he chose his daughter instead of his mother.

Ken park

One of the many incoherent stories in the film: Asan (the stupid teenager in the poster who buried his head between a woman's legs) slept with his girlfriend and his mother. The most striking thing is that his girlfriend, that is, her mother, casually invited A San to dinner in front of her daughter and husband and flirted with him at the dinner table.

Adults are so unscrupulous that people have nothing to say.

PS: Finally, add a "deceased mother".

I don't want to put this up. Because there are countless incests in it, but in the end there is no blood relationship between the characters. However, I have just carefully checked some information and found that most people, like me, think that my sister's child should be my grandfather (that is, her biological father) from the plot, although this is not clearly pointed out in the film.

In this way, it is also a father-daughter relationship.

But this movie is so powerful that it goes far beyond the simple love between father and daughter-the love between mother and son (stepmother and stepson), the love between brother and sister (though not biological), and the homosexuality between mother and daughter (stepmother and stepdaughter), which really epitomizes the incest relationship.

Today, I remembered two more movies, both made in China. Continue to supplement! !

Judou-nephew and aunt

There was a time when movies and novels with dark themes were particularly popular in the mainland, which was called new historicism. Literary and art circles and film circles are full of all kinds of sexual descriptions, including Jia Pingwa, Chen and Su Tong ... all of them are full of * *. The phrase "delete the word * * * here" in "The Wasted Capital" simply pushed the sexual description to the peak, comparable to the "Jin Ping Mei" of that year, and even appeared openly in formal publications. I don't know how they all passed the examination and approval.

Zhang Yimou's Ju Dou is adapted from Liu Heng's novel Fuxi Fuxi, starring Gong Li and Li Baotian. The story tells that the infertile uncle brought a beautiful woman back to continue to burn incense. As a result, his aunt and nephew fell in love and gave birth to a son. Unexpectedly, the grown-up son thought that his mother violated ethics and threw his father into the dye vat when he saw his biological father. Finally, Ju Dou (Gong Li) set fire to dye the room.

The film's theme, pictures and gloomy characters' psychology make people breathless, especially the son of Ju Dou, who is simply a cold-blooded animal popping out of a stone.

Happy Heroes-Father-in-law and Daughter-in-law

Gu Long has a novel called Happy Hero, but this film has nothing to do with Gu Long. This is a super dark story with a theme similar to Lu Xun's Medicine, but the revolutionary Cai Laoliu is more unfortunate than Yu Xia.

It is said that Cai Laoliu went out for revolution for many years. When he got home, he suddenly found his wife with a six-or seven-year-old daughter. Of course, he thinks his wife is unfaithful. But then the audience learned that the child was actually born to his father who raped his wife (strictly speaking, it should be his sister. Anxious ...), and his father is a chain smoker and sold his son for a little reward. Finally, Cai Laoliu was beheaded, and his wife took his head home and changed the table, then set fire to the house.

The director is Wu Ziniu. There is no poster in this film, only a stills, in which Cai Laoliu and his wife Yu Garlic are together. At that time, the scene of Cai Lao's six heads on the table made me sick.

In modern society, as long as it does not constitute bigamy, the law still cannot restrain extramarital affairs. In other words, extramarital love is still an "immoral behavior", which belongs to the ethical category and has nothing to do with the law.

In reality, the story of extramarital affairs is nothing more than this: the man is having an affair outside, his wife is crying at home, and then he dies and scolds the man for ingratitude. For details, please refer to each issue of bosom friend magazine. However, movies are different after all. Every movie about extramarital affairs should have something different to attract people, otherwise it is no different from social news.

There are too many movies about extramarital affairs. "Bridges of Madison County" and "Paradise Lost" have both become classics (I remember interviewing Mr. Junichi Watanabe in 2004, and someone in the reporter asked him: Is the story of "Paradise Lost" your personal experience? He replied: of course, otherwise how could I write that feeling? At that time, Mrs. Watanabe was sitting next to him ...), I'm afraid I can't provide a comprehensive arrangement here, so my collection is limited to China movies.

Because of my movie-watching experience, many of them may not be involved. I hope you can add something.

a sigh

Cui Yongyuan once said, "A Sigh" Why is it well shot? Because that's Feng's personal experience, and he knows it very well.

Perhaps the biggest highlight of this film is to talk about extramarital affairs from the perspective of a middle-aged man and tell his true feelings. Here, a man is not a simple heartbreaker, he also has pain and struggle, which is very different from people who always regard derailed men as playboys.

Classic lines:

"When I sleep at night, I touch your hand, just like touching my own. I don't feel anything, but sawing your hand hurts as much as sawing mine. Your girl is my relative, she is my lover, both sides are equally heavy, and no one can replace anyone. " (I really spoke the man's heart)

mobile phone

I wouldn't believe it if the "mobile phone" didn't allude to Cui Yongyuan. Although art allows fiction, and Xiaogang Feng and Wang Shuo especially like to talk about insiders, this joke is really a bit big.

After the release of mobile phones, legends have created many contradictions and estrangements between husband and wife. There is a story about a young couple coming out of the cinema, and his wife suddenly said, show me your mobile phone. Husband also said half jokingly: I won't show it to you! As a result, his wife became real, and she had to bow her head. The husband is also very angry and thinks she is unreasonable. As a result, the two had a big fight and didn't talk for several days. I don't know if this story is true or not, but the great influence of this film can be seen. Otherwise, China Mobile would not invite Ge You to be a contemporary speaker.

Classic lines:

1, be kind.

2, sleeping in a bed for more than 20 years, there is indeed some aesthetic fatigue.

3. mobile phone? That's a Grenade ...

MrZhao

"Mr. Zhao" and "A Sigh" were shot at the same time, but the same theme and fate were completely different. The former was banned for 8 years and was not released on DVD until 2006. I bought it from Joyo. It is said that the reason for the ban was that the husband finally returned to the family with a sigh, while Mr. Zhao went further.

The biggest breakthrough of this film is the unexpected ending: when Mr. Zhao has become a vegetable, his wife and lover finally get back together, but when sorting out his belongings, he accidentally heard the voice of a third woman on the telephone recording.

(PS: A man who keeps cheating is a woman's nightmare ~)

Classic lines:

I will take care of it. I need time ... (classic excuse, I wonder how many men have used it ...)

we are young 2

This movie is so famous that I don't know what other words can be used to comment on it. It seems that everything is redundant. The confusing music of Zhou Mu Yun, Su Lizhen and Shigeru Umebayashi, the dreamy cheongsam of Maggie Cheung, the long lane on a rainy night and the mess of petty bourgeoisie ... In short, this movie can definitely be elected as the most beautiful extramarital affair movie.

Classic lines:

If I had an extra ticket, would you go with me?

Spring in a small town

When watching this movie, it was still the era of VCD, and it was a pirated VCD. What is shocking is that China movies in 1930s have reached that peak. Wong Kar-wai worked hard to create an atmosphere, while Fei Mu did nothing. The scene of Yuwen pacing back and forth outside Zhizhen's house is not lost to the figure in the dark alley. Suddenly I felt a little ashamed. I always thought Wong Kar-wai was very good, just because I didn't know Fei Mu yet.

It is also because I like this movie so much that I dare not watch Tian Zhuangzhuang, who will be remake later.

Classic lines:

I don't have the courage to die, nor does he have the courage to live.

Curiosity Kills the Cat

In the face of her cheating husband, she deliberately retaliated instead of crying. Such a wife is really rare. Suddenly turned an extramarital affair movie into a suspense movie. It makes people feel sorry for Hu Jun and Song Jialai, who should have been hated: it's better to behave yourself after marrying such a scheming wife.

In fact, this is a very good story with novel structure, but I always feel that the time is a little short and it ruins a good script. It is said that he also intends to hit the Oscar with this film. ...

Classic lines:

York and Lancaster rose appeared in wars of the roses, England, and its petals blended the white of York and the red of Lancaster. Unlike striped French roses, York and Lancaster roses are both red or white in a flower.

Who is the third party?

It's an old movie. I think I watched it on CCTV in middle school. This is the first time that the image of a "third party" appeared on the mainland screen, which caused great shock at that time.

The story is roughly like this: Hua Chao, a professor at the Academy of Fine Arts, has been separated from his wife for a long time, and their relationship is indifferent. Sang Chen Yu, a schoolgirl, adored him even more, and as a result, his wife was jealous and slandered them for having an affair. By mistake, two people really developed into a teacher-student relationship. For this reason, both sides were under great pressure, and Sang was also sent by the school to work in the cultural center of the small county. Eight years later, Sang's attitude towards love has always been faithful, while Hua has become more and more timid in the choice of social pressure and personal future. Janssen was very disappointed and finally broke up.

Li Kechun, the heroine, was nominated for the Golden Rooster Award for best actress for this film. Her other famous film is Beauty. Director Kena Dong has directed Ming Girl, Acacia Inn and the Second Handshake, all of which were very famous in the early 1980s.

Classic lines:

Sang: Who is the third party? We really love each other.

Hua's wife: You mean, I'm a third party? ! !

Yeshan

This is also an old movie. High school joined the school's film review club. Film criticism is one of the homework assigned by the teacher. A great movie won a series of awards: the first one won six Golden Rooster Awards, including Best Feature Film, Best Director, Best Actress, Best Supporting Actor, Best Recording, Best Costume, and also won the Excellent Feature Film Award of the Ministry of Radio and Television 1985 and the Feature Film Award of the 8th Tricontinents International Film Festival in Nantes, France (I don't know what this last one is, but there is such an award, Khan.

The story of the reunion of two couples. Two men, one only likes the fiery life of his wife and children, but the other always wants to make some tricks; Two women, one is a good wife and mother who is busy with housework and farm work, and the other dreams of seeing the world outside the mountain all day. So each other felt inappropriate, and the wife (husband) was the best, so they exchanged-

Treating the derailed wife, the film directly shows the simplicity and rudeness of traditional men: beating!

Classic lines: none

Marriage advertisement

A love story in which the hero never appeared. Although Rene Liu is a third party, strictly speaking, this is not a movie about extramarital affairs. I chose it because I think the role of Rene Liu is special enough (just like Carina Lau plays a special wife). As far as I can remember, no film was shot from this angle.

Classic lines:

"Born without regret, died without fear, no economic foundation, no setbacks in divorce, friends before marriage, no introduction, no sincerity." -The whole content of "personals" in Du's film.

one by one

The theme of 1 1 is not extramarital affairs, but NJ tells his wife after meeting his first girlfriend in Tokyo: "I think it might be different if I live it again. The result is ... the same, no difference. I just suddenly feel that if I live again, it seems ... really unnecessary, really unnecessary. "

The deepest understanding of extramarital affairs ...