"Why do you get up early and work overtime until the early hours of the morning? You are still confused and have no way out?"

"Why do you sign up for class and spend money like water, but you still can't learn anything, mediocre and incompetent?"

It seems that you know astronomy above and geography below, and you want to get involved in everything. You can talk about any topic in Kan Kan, but you are actually just a little worm.

At the same time, there are always some people around, doing ideal jobs and living a beautiful life, which can be called winners in life.

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It seems that I know everything, but I have done nothing well.

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In that era when people rejected chicken soup, more and more such articles became popular on the Internet. The title of each article is very attractive and the content is wonderful. You read it carefully, but after reading it, you still seem to be the ordinary figure.

The secret of financial management and stock trading, you are like a few treasures, but the balance of bank cards shows 500 yuan;

You talk about luxury brands and clothes, but what you can recite is the high imitation goods in 300 yuan;

Efficient learning methods, you hit the nail on the head, but you can't change your scum status.

A friend of mine is a crazy student. He worked hard in the workplace for several years, feeling that he was not competent enough and worried that he would be fired one day. As the saying goes, one skill is better than none, so in this tide of "knowledge anxiety", he began to devote himself to micro-class learning.

As long as she sees any cloud class or online open class, she actively participates. Friends often see her and forward information about signing up for a micro-course.

She felt that every course was good and could solve one of her problems, so she quickly signed up. When she really starts studying, she will find that her time and energy are really limited, so many courses have been lying in the APP or WeChat after paying. Every time I open a course that I haven't studied for a long time, I feel more anxious for no reason.

I asked her, "why don't you settle down and learn a subject?" Have special skills in this field. Everyone's energy is limited, so we should focus on the direction we are interested in or good at. "

She said, "I want to learn everything. I have learned everything and can reuse it. " .

Bruce Lee said: I'm not afraid of people who know 10,000 leg moves, but I'm afraid of people who practice one leg move 10,000 times.

Therefore, the point is not how many books you read and how much truth you know, but that you should master valuable knowledge and skills. Life is like climbing a mountain. Some people went straight to the top of the mountain and tried their best to finally see the unique scenery. Some people look around here and then stop halfway up the mountain.

Many people use "I've heard a lot of truth, but I still can't get along." This sentence is self-deprecating, often with a vicissitudes of life, he who sees through the world of mortals.

But it's not that reason is useless, it's that you are useless.

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I seem to work hard, but I always accomplish nothing.

I take books to the library to read books every weekend, and I also take my mobile phone.

I work overtime late every night, but I actually chat with my colleagues during the day.

Go to the gym for 4 hours and shoot the breeze for 3 hours.

Some people say: "I work hard, but I am still looked down upon;" I stay up late and work overtime every day, but still only enough to fill my stomach; I want the whole world to prove me, but nobody cares about me. "

In fact, most people's efforts just look hard.

In Luo Zhenyu's words, "They just left a background of hard work, but on the front, they are actually playing mobile phones instead of reading books".

More sadly, many people are moved by their hard work and really think they are working hard.

Chen in the TV series "Beishangguang Don't Believe in Tears" is the old backbone of the company.

In an election campaign for manager in East China, Chen lost in the competition, so he went to the leader and cried, "I work overtime day and night, and I have to visit customers on weekends." There is no credit for the hard work. Don't you see how hard I work? Or just give me a small supervisor? "

The leader said to him coldly: "Your salary is not calculated by' hard work'. Your' hard work' is not the reason for the company to give you a promotion. "

Don't think that "hard work" can be the reason for your promotion and salary increase. No company will pay for your "hard work".

Because most people's efforts are of low quality, they strive for "hard work", create an illusion, shape themselves into a struggling young man, and then move themselves in a mess. In the eyes of others, they still accomplish nothing, nothing.

There is a particularly classic line in the Japanese drama "Legal High": "The more useless people who can't do their jobs well, the more they will preach how hard they work."

Efforts may not be appreciated by others, but the results can be.

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Successful people are always actively exploring, and we are only passively pretending.

Before the age of 30, many people fantasize about only one thing: to spend the least energy and get the greatest return.

When I was in middle school, my composition won an award. In fact, this is a patchwork. Everyone praises you: Wow, you are really talented. You can be a writer in the future!

In college, the design won an award, but it was actually imitation. Everyone praises you: you are so talented that you will be a designer after graduation!

After work, the scheme was adopted. In fact, it is the light of team colleagues. Everyone praises you: young, the future is limitless!

You only spend 50% of your energy on one thing, but you get 80% in return. You are proud of your cleverness. I think I am a genius, a once-in-a-century wizard. Laugh at those who spend 120% of their energy on one thing and only get 80% in return.

But after a long time, I found that those who spend 120% of their energy on everything have become great men in all fields, with excellent academic performance, enviable salary and recognized ability.

And you, however, have become a person who knows everything in others' mouths, but actually has accomplished nothing.

It's good to pretend to play, and you can fool others, but can the inner blank fool yourself?

The breadth and depth of life are equally important. However, depth is more difficult than breadth.

A marketing service company in new york was selected as "the fastest growing private enterprise in the United States". The founder of the company will choose a Friday every month and call all employees to open for a whole day. No meeting topics, no cell phones, no emails. The purpose is to let employees get out of the complicated and hectic work every day, empty themselves and concentrate on thinking. How can employees grow and innovate when they are too busy to think?

If you are too busy to think, you should empty yourself, get rid of the daily clutter, take some time to recognize the trade-offs and think about the meaning of being busy. Come out at the right time to see the situation clearly.

Stop blindly listening to the outside world, calm down and find your own inner definition and ideas.

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Successful people are still learning, but we always believe in fate.

Many people like to say "cross the bridge when you come to it" and "let nature take its course", leaving their future to the unknown and fate.

On the surface, the years are quiet, as if you are not competing with the world. In fact, you are afraid of competition.

For example, there are always people around us who complain that they are 30 years old. That's the way life is. Life is so hard that there is no hope. But after giving him advice, their answer is: if you are so strong, you will be safe. Then I saw my peers staying up late to work overtime, and even sighed when watching TV: It's really hard.

If you accept your fate, why do you complain when you see others living better than yourself?

Born to be human, we always want to live better than others.

I have come into contact with the management of many companies, all of which are big cows in the industry. Therefore, they are particularly eager to learn. How many fields do you want to know and how many books do you want to read at a time?

Obviously, English is already very good, and I have taught myself German in my spare time, so I can chat with Germans normally in a few months. As a person who can only sign language when asked by foreigners, I feel sorry for the English textbook of 10 several times.

People nowadays are too utilitarian. They learn a thing and only do it when they need it. However, "successful" people already have these skills. When they meet the big boss, they can play tricks directly. By then, it will be too late for us to practice again.

As the saying goes, "if you get it from paper, you will feel shallow and never know it." Get it from practice and you will know. Only practice will know whether you really understand.

Bend a knife.