It is very important for both husband and wife to cooperate, especially for the wife to participate in the treatment. Psychotherapy of premature ejaculation needs the cooperation of the patient's wife. Because the woman's misunderstanding or complaint will make the man's tension and anxiety rise and increase his psychological burden. The woman should take a caring attitude, give verbal and behavioral comfort, ease the man's nervousness and help him build confidence in healing. Both husband and wife should be informed that premature ejaculation is a common problem, and both husband and wife should understand the necessity and possibility of rebuilding ejaculation conditioned reflex, eliminate patients' abnormal psychology such as anxiety, anxiety and self-blame, and establish confidence in curing the disease. As long as both sides cooperate with the treatment, it can still be cured.