In 2008, I ended my first love for eight years and quit my job in a well-paid foreign company. I seem to have fallen into the darkest and most melancholy abyss. Ryan has always been by my side to encourage me, support me and accompany me through the lowest tide of my life. I think we have passed the most difficult period, and nothing should knock us down again. Unexpectedly, just when we decided to "promise" each other for life, Ryan's parents opposed our association. Originally, I was going to 100% let go of love, but their opposition really made us feel quite lost …
Should I be accused of being a "bad woman" for "love"? Does Ryan have to bear the charge of "disobedience" for "love"?
Ryan remembered a song he liked very much-"Rose" to encourage himself.
"A heartbroken Africa will never learn to dance. If you are afraid of breaking your heart, you will never learn to dance.
Awake dreams never seize opportunities. Afraid of waking up, you will never seize the opportunity.
This is a person who will not be taken away, a person who seems unable to give, and a heart that does not want to be occupied seems unable to give.
The soul of death Africa will never learn to live. A soul that fears death will never learn how to survive. "
If you don't struggle and work hard because of "fear", you will never bloom bright roses, and of course you will never be happy! We struggled for a long time, and finally decided to face it hand in hand. Although after many efforts and communication, the result still failed. Finally, they opposed our marriage and didn't come to our wedding. However, I really appreciate Ryan's encouragement and gave me a brave courage for love!
At our wedding, when I first entered the venue, the song "Rose" was played. When I took the rose from Ryan's hand, it was like taking the promise of happiness in his life!
We promised each other that we would go together in the future. Life will inevitably have ups and downs in the future. We "choose" not to be afraid, and we "decide" to face it together!
At the beginning of 20 12, when we were ready to welcome the little rose, Ryan and I both hoped that it could be "natural childbirth" and "breastfeeding", but unexpectedly, it was really time to give birth. I don't know if it's because of the long-term oppression below, or if it was made with the wrong force. A few days after giving birth, I actually got hemorrhoids, and then my chest began to swell. However, I actually caused kidney disease because of urethritis.
God ~ what a bolt from the blue. At that time, I really planned to give up breastfeeding, because the stone milk above was busy dredging, and the hemorrhoids below had to be rubbed. It's really painful ~ and I have to be hospitalized for at least 3 days. Little Rose stays alone in the month center to take care of the baby. But Ryan never gave up, ran to borrow a small room from the nurse in the emergency room and insisted on milking me. Then I was able to kiss successfully and enjoy our intimate time with little Rose. All this is thanks to his "persistence" and my "not giving up"!
In June this year, Ryan wanted to lose weight and started swimming, cycling and running crazily. Every night, he can come home half an hour late to 1 hour and exercise himself. Unexpectedly, until now, he has lost 5 or 6 pounds. At the end of September, he completed the first 9K road race in his life. In the next 10 months, he will also challenge the 2 1K road race. It's really happy for him to watch him achieve the goal he set step by step.
On weekends, Ryan often takes us to the bicycle lane by the river. Usually, he rides a little rose in front and I follow. Watching them talking and laughing all the way, I really feel so happy ~ I found that … no matter where we go, "they" will always be the most beautiful scenery in my eyes!
This year 1020 is our fourth wedding anniversary. In the future, we will have the next 4th anniversary, 10 anniversary, or even 20th anniversary ... We still have to share each other's joys and sorrows, we still have to work together for each other's goals, and we still have many dreams to realize together in the future. For example, next year, we will move into our newly decorated house, go to France to watch the European Cup on 20 16, and take Little Rose to Disney to see Mickey and Minnie ... Next, we are still a family of three, holding hands in our dreams!
"Happiness" actually requires a little courage and a little adventure. If people all over the world are against it and don't like it, will you still be brave enough to do what you think is right?
This article is dedicated to us who are brave for love. Happy fourth wedding anniversary! Also dedicated to all friends who want to be happy, no matter what setbacks and difficulties they encounter, they should bravely pursue love! I believe … as long as two people work together and face it together, they will be happy in the end. Just like the last sentence in the lyrics, as long as you irrigate with your heart, winter will go and spring will come, and you will surely bloom bright roses! Bao Mei loves sharing, sharing love and authorizing reprinting.