I knew it before, but I didn't understand it until I got married. Before marriage, parents worry about everything and be a shopkeeper of cutting. I always feel that I am the center of the world and naturally enjoy the shelter given by my parents.
As parents, children always feel that parents must treat their children like this. If I am not satisfied with it, I will lose my temper; If I don't get into a better middle school, I will remember my parents' lifelong hatred. Although the school is too far from home and inconvenient, I don't care. Anyway, my parents delayed my future, and I blame them. If you have no job, you have to drive to and from work. Although the salary is not high, it is the same for greedy colleagues or neighbors to drive to and from work.
Later, I got married and had children of my own. I haven't slept well since I had my own child. Crying at night can kill people. In less than half a year, I lost 20 pounds, and I'm not fat at all. I finished all this with the help of my parents.
One night in the middle of the night, the child was crying, and I was walking in the community with my child in my arms. The community is very quiet, just the two of us, and the children are gradually quiet. At this time, I have a lot of thoughts, thinking about whether I will be like this before. Is this how my parents raised me? I really regret all the evil things I did to my parents before.
I suddenly feel how ungrateful, rebellious and unfilial I am to my parents. I didn't realize this until I got married. But it's not too late, my parents are still alive, and I still have a chance to turn over a new leaf.
The tree wants to keep quiet, but the wind will not stop; My son wants to serve his parents when they are old, but they are gone. This scene is so embarrassing! I will also take this as a warning. From now on, I will repay my parents, be filial to them, relieve their worries, let them live comfortably, fulfill their responsibilities and obligations as children, and make their old age happy!
No matter how happy the marriage is, quarreling is inevitable.
No relationship is perfect, almost every couple has quarreled. Differences and contradictions do not mean that your's feelings have faded. They are just a way to solve the problem, just extreme. Just get used to it.
Don't be stingy with your compliments to your partner.
When you are in love, you show the perfect side. After marriage, there is no need to disguise, and this perfection is slowly broken. When you feel normal, the other person has already started complaining. To solve this problem, we must be positive, find out more about each other's excellent side and praise them!