1. Transfer Dafa.

There are many reasons why children are disobedient. If they quarrel with you, they often make a mess of things. What should we do? Try to shift our children's attention to other things, such as novel and interesting things or other things. If he is studying with you, don't let him study yet, let him do some housework or something. Once the child's attention is diverted, he will soon forget the unhappiness just now.

Second, snubbing Dafa.

If the child loses his temper because his demands are not met, don't worry. Ignore him, bargain with him in a way that ignores him and create an environment where no one can help him. At this time, the children themselves will gradually get bored and gradually make concessions. After success, adults should not ignore it. They should re-educate their children and encourage them with words like "I believe you will be obedient in the future".

Third, punish Dafa.

Pay attention to the appropriate punishment. For example, a child just doesn't do his homework and deliberately throws the pencil box on the ground. You should criticize him immediately and urge him to pick it up. If the child is definitely disobedient, punish Dafa and tell him decisively that the submachine gun that you have promised to buy is no longer considered. If not, it will be "isolated" and useless. You can "fix" him, but you don't have to fix someone. If you have to use it, you must use it before the child makes a mistake, and you can't use it indiscriminately. This kind of punishment will definitely make children feel that your attitude is firm and there is no room for bargaining. In this way, the children's bad psychology and willful behavior of "I take the lead", "I monopolize" and "obey me" will be greatly improved.

Fourth, praise Dafa.

When to praise? Every progress of children should be positively affirmed and praised. However, we should pay more attention to children's disobedience and willfulness. We can't praise everything. Let children know what adults approve and allow, and what adults oppose and stop. If they know willfulness, they will be punished. If they don't lose their temper, they will be praised and rewarded.

In addition, not only children's psychological education pays attention to methods, but also early childhood literacy education pays attention to methods. People's memory of pictures is very profound. Compared with boring words, they need to practice line by line. For example, Cat, Xiao and Shuai learn Chinese characters is a software that evolves pictures into fonts, so that children can learn Chinese characters in curiosity and happiness. My daughter has been exposed to Chinese characters since she was three years old, and now she has used more than 300 words a year. This is a good software for free.

Cats, handsome guys and Chinese characters are good examples of picture evolution in Chinese characters. Let children perceive the world and learn knowledge at the same time. This learning method and thinking ability are of great help to the heavy learning tasks in the future.