What you should do now is to dress yourself up again, slim down, put on makeup, make yourself younger and change clothes. At least if you walk in the street, you won't make people feel like an aunt, will you? If you don't care about yourself, who will? What a woman should care about most is her appearance and figure, so that you can recover from your twenties at the age of 30, make your husband look at you with new eyes and make him infatuated again.
Moreover, many situations are like this now. After getting married and having children, women begin to relax and are willing to be yellow-faced women. They were fine a year or two ago when they were not too out of shape. After a long time, their husbands can't stand it, and there will be emotional problems. If there is a problem, the day of divorce is not far away. Don't let your appearance be a reason for divorce.
So, now you should cherish yourself more, spend some money to dress yourself up, and let you who are no longer young exude the breath of youth. So, will your husband be indifferent?