Sister Li insists on enriching her daughter. Sister Li runs her own beauty salon, and it is no problem to earn millions a year. Sister Li's husband is also in business, and both sides can achieve something and live a fairly rich life.
In addition to spending money on himself, Li Jie is also very likely to be satisfied with his daughter. Because of the industry she is engaged in, Sister Li encouraged her daughter to dress up since she was a child, and the clothes and accessories she bought were also famous brands.
After my daughter went to junior high school, once the school teacher called sister Li to school, saying that the child might be in puppy love and asked the parents to do a good job of guidance.
After returning home, Sister Li didn't directly ask her daughter if she was in love. Instead, I took my daughter to a luxury shopping mall and bought her a LV bag worth 30 thousand.
The reason why Li Jie did this is also very simple. The food for her daughter is the best. If she is used to this kind of life, it will be difficult for poor boys to enter her daughter's eyes.
In fact, Li Jie is not opposed to her daughter making friends, but the "circle" needs to be screened first. The poor boy wants to be a Phoenix man, and it is impossible for her to pass the test.
In fact, whether it is a son or a daughter, there is no doubt that most parents love their children, but the way of raising children is different from that of raising daughters.
Parents usually think that their sons should exercise more, because society has different requirements for men and women, and boys need to take on more responsibilities when they grow up.
Therefore, parents are more about educating boys about setbacks and cultivating their courage and perseverance. Parents have different expectations of girls.
Women are often in a weak position in society, and sometimes even some girls will do things against themselves under the temptation of money.
For parents, this is definitely not what they want to happen. So parents try their best to let their daughters enjoy a rich life. Under such education, girls will naturally be more resistant to external temptations.
1, training adversity quotient difference
First of all, parents should know that poverty has its advantages. Spoiled children are like flowers in a greenhouse and cannot stand the test of setbacks and difficulties.
After all, children should face life independently when they grow up. Parents should let their children experience courage and perseverance as soon as possible, and adversity quotient training can start from an early age.
2. enrich and broaden your horizons
On the one hand, rich support is to give children as much material satisfaction as possible, and by the way, children will have the opportunity to contact more aspects of social life, not just schools and families.
Families with the conditions to raise children can usually provide such resources and platforms for children to grow up in a diversified environment.
1, enrich children's spiritual life
In fact, whether rich or poor, there is no absolute good or bad, but for children, material satisfaction is not the most important.
2. Pay attention to the emotional communication between parents and children.
Parents should pay attention to emotional communication with their children in their daily lives and understand what their children really need. For most children, when they are twelve or thirteen, they don't really need LV bags.
A good parent-child relationship can help both parties get rid of the simple relationship of giving and giving, and realize a real two-way trip.