When all people wear masks and live in fear and hypocrisy, these real people will become a clean stream, which will have a different light on people's hearts, and Dr. Zhao likes such a truly frank Qu Xiaoyu. In fact, truth is more eye-catching than hypocrisy, especially after watching others cover up, and after watching these intrigues, it will not really produce unique charm. We should not care too much about other people's eyes, nor should we look for our own value from other people's mouths. But to follow your own heart, pay attention to your own requirements, express yourself objectively, and let go.
Stay awake and alone, and never collude with each other. I wrote an article called "Only then did I know that these well-married women are unsociable women". In fact, this kind of question is a true proposition, because it is not gregarious, so it will not collude.
Because I don't fit in, I don't have to cater to the rhythm of others. Because I don't fit in, I can listen to my heart and talk to my soul. Because I don't fit in, I can clearly know what I want, and then make unremitting efforts to become a better self. People are divided into groups. If a person becomes outstanding, it will definitely attract outstanding people. Then they will think from the same angle and make continuous progress in their thoughts.
Once a person is in a crowd, his intelligence will be reduced, because we will suppress our demands in order to cater to the hobbies of the crowd, and they will rely on the crowd to make decisions for themselves. But this frog effect will slowly distract a person's consciousness and make a person more ordinary. Secondly, a person who has been subconsciously dependent on others will certainly not be respected by others.
But those who are unsociable are different. They don't know who they are from others. They will get along with themselves, enjoy solitude, and let inspiration take root from their hearts in an undisturbed environment. Every bright moment in life should be repaid according to loneliness.
Persevere and create a better self according to self-discipline. Some people envy others' slim figure when they know they are fat. They are also clamoring to lose weight, but they don't exercise and control their diet scientifically. Looking at Tik Tok lying in bed, they said he had no time to exercise. Some people have made a detailed study plan long ago, and made up their minds to finish all their qualifications at once, draw a conclusion again, and then lie on their mobile phones all day in the dormitory the next day, and come back and forth on the third day and the fourth day.
Even if such a person wants to have a sweet love with a high-quality boy, even if he confirms a relationship, he is doomed to be unable to make a man deeply addicted to himself, because he does not have the value of making others love him deeply. How can he accomplish it? And some people, they will give up these comforts, and then carve, exercise, sweat, control their diet, and create a better figure curve; Study, read books, control the time of playing mobile phones, and constantly contribute their own practical value.