After waking up, I saw that happiness was also broadcast live. I was angry to see her. It turned out to be blood again, openly slandering happiness. This kind of thing has happened many times, and it has happened many times in Awang's live broadcast room, and it has not been stopped by Awang and other management. We are good friends with Awang and even many people, so we should be familiar with them. Why do you want to indulge such a thing, which happens many times? I am not surprised that blood denigrates happiness. It has happened many times. But some people, so indifferent, indulge such things again and again, and stand by and do nothing. Although I understand some people's psychology, I am also quite disappointed. Some people just hope that Happy and I can fight for them, vent our anger and get rid of hatred. There is no room for others to have independent thoughts. This is all too narrow and confined to party struggles. When we do things, we must not forget our intentions. They are all kind people. Don't lose the original intention and heart of kindness, but also be vigilant. When doing things, things will become extreme, and when things are full, they will overflow. People, unconsciously, will also become. Once the party struggle is formed, it will be irrational, impulsive and fight for it. In this way, the initial good heart will deteriorate, and unconsciously, it will also lose itself. It doesn't matter what you do, but your heart can't change. Maybe some people, when they saw what Xiao Wei and his wife were doing, were disheartened and gave up. This is all because the mind is weak, does not rise to rationality, and is too emotional. People should stand the test. With a little exercise, you're lost again. What is maturity? Many people, even though they are old, are actually children's minds. Either this or that, too capricious, willful. The root of this is too self-centered. Those who follow me prosper, those who oppose me perish. People who are after their own heart are happy. If you don't like it, you will be rejected. This is a common problem for many of us, including me. Right?
Happy and I, like many of you, are good friends In private, I also had in-depth exchanges with Happy. Understand each other's thoughts, character and personality, and trust each other. Happy this person, very smart, very kind, very righteous, very chivalrous. Have a big picture and be reasonable. Among women, it can be said that I have rarely seen anyone like her for decades. Even many men are far behind her in pattern, knowledge and character. I criticized her at first. Later, in-depth contact with her, gradually understand, found himself wrong. Personally, to be honest, I have great respect and appreciation for her.
Admittedly, happiness has its shortcomings. For example, she is too outspoken and outspoken. Sometimes, she can't control her temper and hurt people easily. She also likes to join in the fun. You know, she is also an ordinary person. These are all human nature and habits that everyone has. In private communication, in fact, Happy understands these personal shortcomings. Many times, she is also trying to restrain and correct herself. However, no one is perfect, and everyone has habits. Happy is also an ordinary person. Compared with her many advantages, her shortcomings are nothing It is not easy for a person to keep a pure heart like her. Therefore, through my understanding of her, I also sincerely respect and appreciate her. Some people can't hide any shortcomings at home. When you see a little shortcoming, you annihilate all the advantages of others, and even maliciously speculate and distort your own advantages. Many of us, including myself, also have this habit. As ordinary people, mistakes are inevitable. We don't have to be too hard on everyone. You can't blame others more than yourself. Many of us are like this. We are too strict with others and too tolerant of ourselves. Even for yourself, it is also a complete indulgence. For others, finding fault is finding fault in an egg. There are serious problems with this mentality. We should seriously reflect on this mentality.
I've said it many times. I don't think things under the sun are that complicated. Many things, as long as we can put ourselves in others' shoes, in fact, many contradictions can be solved, at least, big contradictions will become small contradictions. Many things are not complicated, but artificially complicated. We are all human beings. We eat and shit, but we don't take a shower. Just as smelly. In this world of five desires, who is cleaner than who? Everyone is a habit, a sin, and comes to this world to do homework and hand in homework. If you can't do it well, you have to do it twice in your next life. Constantly suffering, honing, honing yourself, hurting yourself, beating yourself, honing yourself. It is better to fight against heaven and earth than against yourself. These online rights and wrongs, who fights who? Even if you knock the other side down, what can you do? Not good for others, not good for yourself. I increase my hatred, arrogance and selfish thoughts in vain. These ideas have grown, and then they will inspire many evils in our lives. Happiness or misfortune has no door, but people call themselves. Some of us also often say that birds of a feather flock together. Some people even say that karma goes hand in hand. Do you really understand? Do you really believe it? Three-year-old Meng Tong said that an 80-year-old man can't do it. If a person really knows and understands these truths, he will not be willing to let himself do such a thing. When the mentality changes, the behavior will also change. It is reported that with the positive report, the mind is also one. It is not easy to be a man, but it is difficult to be a man. We are all sentient beings, so be more sympathetic. Fight again, be cruel, be cold, not practice, be insincere, and practice solidly. Those are hypocrites. Life is only a few decades. The vast universe, life is short, in fact, people are very lonely, very lonely life to meet peers, to be more sympathetic and tolerant. Some people enjoy hurting others. He smiles when others are in pain. Others, lovers, lovers, relatives, turned against each other, without any mutual affection. How much, I want to make you dizzy, and the benefits make you dizzy and stupid. There is nothing to lose by loving a little more. Don't deliberately, always want to frame others and plan others. Three bowls of rice a day, life for decades, how much demand, you need such great efforts. These words, I hope someone will calm down and reflect. Whether you are good or bad, you don't need to prove to others, and you don't need to prove to others. You should be responsible for yourself all your life. I want to know whether I am good or bad, and why I don't know. Therefore, what you say and what your body does are not the most important. The most important thing is people's hearts. If the brain is broken, what is the point of doing it well? If you have a good attitude, you can tolerate and forgive even if you do something wrong. Therefore, it is not so difficult for a person to distinguish right from wrong, good from evil. How can you not know whether you are a good person or a bad person? If you see that you are a bad person, have done many bad things and have many bad ideas, I think you must be very sad. At this moment, we should also think that others are not easy, they also have habits, and others are suffering. Cultivate yourself, take care of others and think. It is much better to have a heart that is obsessed with others, can't bear to hurt others, and deliberately be good for others than to say more truth. The truth in the world is simple, just a heart. Think about it, right?
In private communication, I found that happiness has a great advantage, that is, it is very smart. She often has profound and independent opinions on some personnel. Doing things is also very principled, and the starting point is to let yourself uphold your conscience. Let me give you an example. For a time, she misunderstood that Xiao Wei was slandering her privately. She was very angry, angry. I have differences with her on this matter. She firmly believes that Xiao Wei is attacking her privately. However, when she saw others attack Xiao Wei and kill him in this way, she couldn't help but speak for Xiao Wei and criticize some people. Even if Xiao Wei is a bad guy, she shouldn't kill him, leaving him with no way out. Even, she examined her heart many times, analyzed Xiao Wei from Xiao Wei's perspective and objective environment, understood Xiao Wei's difficulties and tolerated him. This kind of mind and pattern, to be honest, many of us, as men, are probably rare.
A man is innocent, but he is guilty. Good clothes make people point, and high climbers go against God's will. Happy, because of her intelligence, her independent personality and thoughts, some people maliciously speculate and doubt her. Said she had no position on lollipops and was fickle and disloyal. In some people's eyes, happiness should be the same as theirs. They should make up their minds to kill Xiao Wei, or they should make up their minds to protect Xiao Wei anyway. If they are willing to do what they want, happiness is good. Some people even told me privately that Happy is smart, not simple and thoughtful. Happiness is an undercover and a spy. In fact, this is all too subjective speculation by some people. Even, it is malicious speculation. Happiness, cleverness is true. However, cleverness and scheming are not equal. The ancients also said that there is no fish in clear water, and it is ominous to see fish in deep water. Happy, with big bright eyes and a spacious and intelligent forehead. Some people speculate excessively that such a smart woman must be a complicated woman. Subconsciously, it is associated with the "Palace Plan". To put it bluntly, it is all too subjective. In my understanding of happiness. A happy heart is very good and simple. In fact, many people don't understand that the simplest is the deepest. When it is self-nature, it is self-sufficiency. Human wisdom is already there. When your heart is really pure and clean, wisdom will naturally appear. Man's wisdom does not depend on how many books he reads. A book is just a match. People who can read will simplify the complex and stimulate their inner wisdom. People who can't read will become bookworms and complicate themselves. Soft to rigid, minimalist and deep, in fact, it is one. The road is simple, and ordinary people don't feel it every day. Many people, who don't understand this truth, blindly pursue complexity, superstitious complexity, advocating complexity and pursuing strange things. They turn a blind eye to and even look down upon the extremely simple. This is the loss of humanity. Therefore, there are many people, smart, ignorant and even pretending. When you are self-sufficient, when you are self-sufficient, you are self-satisfied Many people, who don't understand this truth, just want to be smart for fear of others and don't know that they are smart. I'm looking for this today and that tomorrow, for fear that the patent will be taken away by others if it's too late. For this reason, vanity, clever thinking, language is not surprising, grandstanding, making a name for yourself, deceiving the world and stealing names, and deceiving others too much.
To put it bluntly, true wisdom is the wisdom of the mind. Frankly speaking, true wisdom is the cultivation and correction of the mind. Many of us pursue wisdom, but we don't know where it is. Wisdom lies not in other places, but in self-nature and self-mind. It's too late to read in my life, but that doesn't mean reading is useless. We all went to school, and many people have children of their own. Why in a grade, everyone studies together, but the results are uneven? It is true that there are acquired environmental factors, in fact, among them, human innate talent and innate temperament play a decisive role. In other words, people's innate talents are also mixed. In fact, people's hearts are the same. Just used to being thick and thin. Heavy habits, heavy troubles and heavy karma. Because it is an old industry, it comes with fate, so the fruit is different. Above, in order to explain this truth to everyone, where is the real wisdom? Not by subjective speculation. True wisdom is simple, that is, the mind returns to nature. Lao Tzu also said that I have three treasures, one is kindness, the other is simplicity, and the third is that I dare not be the first in the world. In fact, these three are one, and they are combined into one. When the nature of the heart truly returns to its true nature, it will naturally produce wisdom, compassion and self-sufficiency, and will naturally be low-key and modest. Most of us can't do it because we haven't found this simple and easy self. Heart, are wandering, are floating, recognize the false as true. In life and death, people will become more and more self-centered, more and more closed, more and more inferior, more and more conceited, more and more suspicious, even more and more selfish and more vicious. To put it bluntly, some people, very hateful, are actually very pitiful. Some people, who are conceited, are actually naive and ridiculous. Some people, who look smart, are actually uneducated and just smart. True cleverness is self-reflection, self-reflection. The ancients said that being cautious and independent, three provinces a day, has far-reaching significance. The ancients fled from fame and the commandments were full of disasters. Now, we like to package ourselves more and more, for fear that we are not famous, and we wish all the women, treasures and reputations in the world were ours. Greed is insufficient. Slander others and raise yourself. This phenomenon can be seen everywhere. Because we are all lost. So, how can we be wise? How can you know others if you don't even know yourself? He who knows himself knows, and he who knows himself knows. How can you understand others without bright eyes? Is this a fact?
Above, I have said so much tirelessly, just hope that everyone can reflect on where the wisdom lies. I usually don't want to say these words. On the one hand, intimate friends are hard to meet and bosom friends are hard to find. The average person has no cultural influence in this respect. It's all self-reflection and correction, saying that others don't like it. After listening, they got bored. On the other hand, I have many habits and problems myself. Strictly speaking, I personally am not qualified to tell others these things. How can you guide others if you can't do it yourself? Therefore, a strong sense of shame often makes me afraid to talk about these things. I have to say these words here. As for the heart, I hope someone can understand some of this truth. Some people are old. I've probably never heard of this in my life. I hope someone can think calmly.
It's early in the morning, and I've written more than five thousand words. Up to now, I haven't even written half of what I expected. Many words, if not written down, will hurt some people. Happy and I have had many private conversations, and we all know each other. Neither she nor I can bear to hurt others. It's not that we don't have the ability and courage to hurt others, but that we don't want to and can't bear it. Many times, I would rather hurt myself than hurt others easily. Sometimes, we criticize some people, but they are really some people, which is very excessive. We start from a good heart, without any calculation and utilitarian heart. Even so, we are still very restrained, taking into account the feelings of others, caring for others and considering their situation. Happy and I have also talked privately many times. We should stick to our original intentions, proceed from good intentions and benefit others, instead of pulling gangs, engaging in the same party and cutting differences. I respect the person who is happy. Some people who don't know her can be forgiven. However, if some people still don't reflect on themselves, don't think calmly, and make malicious speculation and slander on her blindly and without foundation, the problem will be serious.
Above, I wrote so much. There seem to be many reasons. In many places, it is constantly changing, sometimes even repeated, spiraling up and seemingly wordy. Sometimes, verbosity is necessary. Because there are too many words, I won't organize them, just keep them as they are. Nevertheless, there is still a main thread running through it. It's actually quite simple. It is this heart that comes from the same source. Put your mind on it and you know it. Facing yourself is more useful than any truth. This is also very complicated and simple. The road is simple, and ordinary people don't feel it every day. I don't think reading is required by the university. Reading, if you lose your mind, what is the use of reading? Ancient and modern, Chinese and foreign, how many literati, do not do bad things, and have no good end. If there is learning in this world. In my opinion, the real learning is this heart. If there is wisdom in this world, then this wisdom is still the heart of this child. If there is justice in this world, then this justice is still this innocent conscience. Be careful and be kind to others. I don't want to do it. I always do it for myself. If we can do this, without affectation or disguise, I think this is the real knowledge, real wisdom and real justice. All evil should be done, and all good should be pursued. Don't do it with little evil, and don't do it with little good. Who does not know this truth? Can we do that? There is no complicated truth in the world, but people are unwilling to do it and face themselves squarely. It is easy to analyze others, but it is extremely difficult to analyze yourself. I deeply understand the pain. We suffer, others suffer, who doesn't suffer? Can't always think, bad things are done, and good things account for all. We should, calmly think about this truth.