Recently, Song Joong Ki attended a friend's wedding. In the photo of him and the couple, it was found that Song Joong Ki had gained weight. Netizens laughed and said that Song Joong Ki's wedding and honeymoon were so happy that she was "happy and fat"!
Just as Song Joong Ki's Happy Fat can reveal the marriage situation in Song Dynasty, a woman's figure can also reveal the truth of marriage.
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The Indian film Stars on Earth tells a story like this:
The aborigines of Solomon Islands don't need to pick up an axe to cut down trees. As long as a group of people start cursing the tree viciously every day, a month later, the tree will wither and fall to the ground.
The moral of this story is: language and attitude are enough to exhaust life, and it is sharper than an axe.
In marriage, men's attitude towards women will be reflected in women's figure without deviation, which is thousands of times more cruel than years.
Some time ago, a woman came to greet me in the supermarket. I can't remember who is in front of me at the moment.
As a result, she said to me, "Old deskmate, don't you remember me?" I'm little a! "
Hearing this name, I suddenly remembered this old classmate, but this skinny, middle-aged woman with a serious hunchback is completely different from the tall, round little A I remember.
At that time, she was 165, and now she is not as tall as a roadside teenager.
I smiled awkwardly and said, "Of course I remember you, my old deskmate, but I haven't seen you for several years, and I can't recognize some changes for a while."
"getting old! Thin! Get the camel! " Little a is lonely and dark. I don't know how to answer a woman scarred by years.
Later, I learned that these changes are all from the meat cleaver of unfortunate marriage.
A few years after marriage, the husband who preferred sons to daughters was rude to her from the birth.
During confinement, she didn't get careful care, and later her body fell into many roots. Xiao often goes to the hospital to see a doctor, but her husband never cares.
In order to please their husbands, they decided to have a second child, but they are still daughters. Her husband's attitude towards her has intensified, not only scolding her, but also domestic violence against her.
The husband never looks at her and her two daughters, let alone takes care of the children. Little ones often hold one in their arms and one on their backs. Gradually aging, but also become emaciated, hunchbacked. ...
Later, her husband also disliked her figure and called her "old camel".
The writer Avocado said: A woman's face reveals the truth of marriage. In fact, a woman's figure reveals the truth of marriage and her husband's personality.
The burden of life bends a woman's waist, and it is the man who only creates the burden and never shares it that drags down her body and mind.
In a good marriage, a man will not dislike a woman's figure, nor will he let a woman carry a heavy burden alone.
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Lin Yutang once said: "Women are water, wine mixed with wine, and vinegar mixed with vinegar."
A woman is like water, and her shape is the embodiment of her living condition. For a married woman, her appearance shaping is closely related to her life partner.
When a man adds meanness and suspicion to his life, her form will lose its luster and agility. When a man puts love and tolerance into his life, her form will become rich, full and moist.
Just like Alyssa Chia, who has experienced two marriages, the first unfortunate marriage made her sallow and emaciated, making her too busy to take care of her figure and making her no longer like the lively and intelligent Zhao Min;
The second happy marriage made her love life more, actively exercise, always keep her best figure and show her best living condition.
You can often see Alyssa Chia who is active in variety shows. Now she is as tall and straight as an upward sunflower, and she is full of sunshine.
Similar to her, there is an actress Mei Ting.
Mei Ting's first husband, Yan Po, was mixed with hypocrisy and infidelity in his marriage. He took advantage of Mei Ting's chance to gain popularity, but he was unfaithful to Mei Ting in his marriage, and all kinds of scandals frequently derailed.
Such a marriage made Mei Ting look haggard, and her figure lost its former elegance. After the divorce, she was also disheartened about marriage. Speaking of divorce, she has been holding back for a long time.
In the second marriage, she met a comprehensive good man, Zeng Jian.
After the marriage, Mei Ting rarely filmed, totally immersed in this warm family. Her husband, Zeng Jian, doted on Mei Ting. He wouldn't let Mei Ting do any housework, and even let Mei Ting do the dishes.
In this way, the "pampered" little princess Mei Ting quickly gained weight in the honey pot of love. The simple word "Happy Fat" is the best interpretation of Mei Ting's marital status!
Later, Mei Ting, who was "happy and fat", took part in variety shows and couldn't do any housework or take care of the children. She proudly told everyone that her husband's favorite finger should not touch the spring water, and she would happily say to the director, "Is my life very good?"
At the reminder of a director, Mei Ting wanted to continue filming, and she decided to lose weight. So at home, she began to exercise. At this time, her husband acted as his weight loss supervisor and coach to help her lose weight.
Two months later, Mei Ting successfully lost 30 pounds, and at this time, 42-year-old Mei Ting once again became a charming "goddess".
In a high-level marriage, a man's attitude is also a barometer of a woman's figure.
In this marriage, Zeng Jian provided Mei Ting with a clear sky in Wan Li. When Mei Ting wants to enjoy life, he gives her the best enjoyment and makes her "happy and fat".
When Mei Ting wants to return to her career, she will accompany her to lose weight and help her shape.
In a good marriage, a woman has enough choices and confidence in her body.
Fat loves your fullness, and thin loves your bones.
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Dai Lianhua once wrote "Thank you for not making me a fat woman!" ! In a good marriage, men provide good weather, and women just need to enjoy the sunshine and rain. Such a woman is cool-headed and will never get fat.
A man who doesn't know how to take care of women will turn his wife into a middle-aged greasy woman if he treats her as a nanny. Over time, even your mind will become greasy when you have no time to take care of yourself.
A man who knows how to love will not let a woman work alone, thus becoming a fat middle-aged woman.
A woman's body is free in a high-quality marriage and will not be bound by the world.
Irene Wan, who plays the stunning beauty da ji in The List of Gods, is still charming over half a year old.
She has been married for more than ten years and has no choice to have children in order to keep fit.
Irene Wan once said to the media, "I love beauty, I don't want to be deformed, I'm afraid of blood. In addition, I have seen my sister give birth to a child, so I decided not to give birth. "
Because Amy didn't want children, many men found it hard to accept, but Irene Wan got her husband's support. They also adopted children together and lived a happy family life.
In a high-quality marriage, women will not become the whole world and sacrifice themselves.
Yang li Ping, the Peacock Princess, is a woman who got rid of the worldly bondage.
Marriage is a contract for her, her soul is free, and no contract can stop her from pursuing half an acre of flowers in the spiritual world.
In her marriage with Liu Chunqing, they met and fell in love. They once wanted to have a child, but this required Yang li Ping to gain weight, but changing her figure would destroy her dream of dancing.
So they parted peacefully, and Yang li Ping continued to be the daughter of nature and danced with her life.
In the face of secular doubts, Yang li Ping said: "This is just a different object of sustenance. My object of repose may be dance. Maybe a flower is my daughter and a tree is my son. This is a kind of family happiness, and it is also very good. "
Later, she went to Yunnan and built an amazing moon palace in Erhai Lake. She became the most beautiful fairy in the world.
As Yang li Ping said:
"Some people live to carry on the family line, some people enjoy it, some people experience it, and some people watch it. I am a bystander of life. I came to this world to see how a tree grows, how rivers flow, how white clouds float and how dew condenses. "
Get out of marriage, stick to yourself and keep in shape. Dancing is her unique value. Yang li Ping's attitude towards figure shows a woman's greatest sexiness.
The highest state of marriage is never the bondage of independent life, and a woman is never anyone's wife.
A woman is herself and the master of her own life.
As the poet said, "Life is precious, but love is more expensive. If you are free, you can throw both. "