He may just tell you that he is going to break up, but your attitude makes him feel that his determination is right. He is afraid that you will make trouble unreasonably and start over, so he wants to solve you quickly. Therefore, when the other party clearly proposes to break up, why not say yes quickly, and you don't have to try your best to save the other party, which will confuse the other party, but you can't help but take the initiative to find you.
Don't be stubborn The most incorrect way to keep each other awake after breaking up is stubbornness. Maybe you think it's a pity to be apart after being together for so long. Maybe you are still thinking: I accompanied him when he had nothing. We agreed to get married this year. Why are you breaking up with me now? The more I think about it, the more I can't help contacting him. You can't help harassing him with text messages and phone calls, let him give himself an opinion, let him get along well with himself, and make sure that the other person is not satisfied and will change in the future.
At this time, people are like a psychopath in his heart. Only the man who pesters you is more and more resistant. He can even quickly disconnect from you by hacking your phone and WeChat. So don't be opinionated at this time, learn to break up with men moderately, give each other a certain buffer period, and eliminate the negative impression of each other on you. At the same time, during the breakup, I really reflect on my shortcomings in this relationship and correct them.
Attract men with Excellence. After we realize our own shortcomings, we need to bravely improve ourselves through this sober time with each other, so as to appear in front of each other with a brand-new image in the future. As we said before, the way to make a man love you constantly is to keep his influence and attract the other person with his demeanor, so you can just use this time to make yourself better.
If you are ugly, learn yoga, exercise, lose weight bravely and keep in good shape; If you didn't like dressing yourself up before, take a training course in dressing and makeup to make your face look brand-new. If you have a bad temper, read more psychological books on marriage and communication skills and change the status quo in getting along. Just like a sentence that was widely circulated on the Internet before: I feel that my big country is not very good, so I will engage in infrastructure. Similarly, if there is a problem in the love between two people, you will try to deal with it. Love doesn't happen overnight. Of course you don't like it Feelings are endless. Learning to grasp men's three emotional weaknesses will hurt you deeply!