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How to let the elderly take care of their children and teach you a few tricks!
Our parents-in-law, husband and my own parents are taking care of the baby. I'll tell you how I did it. First, you want others to do something. You shouldn't oppress others strongly. Say it's your turn, I shouldn't reason. I have taken several measures. The first is to ask directly. If I ask directly, I will tell my mother-in-law or my father-in-law, right? I said, mom, I want to go out for maternity leave now. Can you take care of this baby for me? Many people will be embarrassed. What should they feel? It doesn't matter what they thought when I told you, what matters is that they did it, and they thought what they wanted. Well, if you help me, help me, help me. Many people will fall into a vicious circle. When I first found that no one helped him, I was a little resentful when I was angry at first, and I had to make up a lot of brains, so I was very over-interpreted. I think he is obviously your business, not mine. First of all, we should give up this obsession and stop thinking like this. The key is to make him specific, what he thinks, and whether he thinks it is natural. And many people think that you didn't help me at first, and then you helped me, so I won't let you hug me, so I will.

Don't even think about it. I'll just ask. He said no, you said yes, just walk for a few days and then go to his mother. Are you free today? If you don't play mahjong, you can't do it once, twice, twice and three times. Think of your smiling face You hold the baby. You can say the last word and hold your head and play with grandma. You are like this. Can he really tell you directly that I won't bring it to you? Is this possible? Impossible, once twice, twice three times, three times three times, 56 78 times can give people a routine. Second, we should arouse their inner love for children. As long as anyone in our family interacts with children except me, I will definitely become an atmosphere group.

Hello, baby. Like grandma, mom and children didn't laugh much all day today, just ate and ate. You smiled when you saw grandma. He smiled, then I would say so, and I also developed later. As long as I am tired, I will go to them with my children in my arms. Then I said, does anyone want to hug us? Does anyone want to play with us, voice the children and worship them? If you want to search for wheat, don't go against it in the early stage. You must let go of those obsessions in your heart By the time the children babbled, I was more than a year older and began to send oil to the fuel tank. Grandma loves you the most, and grandpa loves you the most. They love you very much, so they bought you candy. Now Youyou is over two years old and over three years old. Basically, Youyou won't come to play with me, but he is still very kind to me. He must like his mother first. But once there is a job, ask dad to hug him, ask dad to go out to the supermarket, and tell grandparents that I don't need to arrange it, and the children will find it themselves. You want such a lovely person to run to your grandparents and say.

Grandpa hugs them, can you push the children away? Never. Today, I am not only relaxed, but everyone in my family thinks that I have taught my children well, and they have enjoyed their family. All people are satisfied in their hearts, because the children at home have a very close relationship with all the people at home. After removing it, the burden of carrying a baby that falls on everyone becomes much lighter. And really, when you want something from anyone, you have to think about what you can bring to him first. Once you have this kind of altruistic thought, many things will become very simple. I'll teach you this method. If you think it over, what you want will come naturally.