Some people just talk. One second they just set goals, and the next they are back to their original way of life. The goal is just a slogan. Some people, in order to achieve their goals, search all kinds of information about goals on the Internet, read a bunch of books, and finally feel that these methods are not suitable for them, and finally give up their goals. These are all good, at least I didn't waste too much time on unrealistic goals.
In this world, the most feared thing is that this person really worked hard and finally moved himself and the people around him to tears, and finally failed. Why? A big reason is that cognition and behavior don't match, that is, knowledge and action don't merge. No matter how the surrounding environment changes, he turns a blind eye and insists on following his own ideas. If his idea is correct at first, he is likely to succeed in the end. If his original idea was wrong, then he was performing alone, exhausted all his strength and finally walked into a dead end. The goal of most people is not to be a great celebrity, but to earn some money and live a good life. According to stupid bear's shallow experience, the integration of knowledge and practice can help most people realize wealth and freedom.
1.？ Aunt Ma started a business and made money with all her heart.
Aunt Ma read most of the books in the library and felt that she understood most of the life problems, so she decided to start a business. Like most entrepreneurs, Aunt Ma found the right industry to start her own business, found a company that did well in this industry, submitted her resume, and was finally hired by a good company.
Aunt Ma's purpose in finding a job is not to earn money, but to learn experience and skills, so she is very diligent and hardworking during her work. The leaders and colleagues in the company like Aunt Ma very much and admire her work spirit. After working like this for more than a month, Aunt Ma felt that she had learned almost everything and finally chose to resign and go it alone.
In the early days of starting a business, Aunt Ma will always encounter various unexpected situations. Even if we consult friends and family around us, we have never encountered a similar situation, and we can't give Aunt Ma accurate reference advice. In the end, Aunt Ma can only solve the problem by herself. When the problem was serious, Aunt Ma finally had a stroke, and she was in a wheelchair for more than a month because of too much pressure. Because of this incident, Aunt Ma's last business is not only getting better and better, but also has excellent pressure resistance.
Aunt Ma, who succeeded in starting a business, not only didn't stop learning, but she loved to try new things more than before. In order to ensure the normal operation of the company, Aunt Ma began to recruit employees and formulate company processes, hoping to make the company run automatically. After learning about Aunt Ma's idea, the family objected. They find it difficult for Aunt Ma to keep the company going. Recruiting employees not only increases the cost, but also is used by bad employees. But Aunt Ma didn't listen and insisted on recruiting excellent employees. Later, under the leadership of Aunt Ma, the company was fully automated, and Aunt Ma basically only went to the company on the day of pay.
With the normal operation of the company and the increase of profits, some people began to persuade Aunt Ma to open a branch. Aunt Ma also wants to open a branch, but Aunt Ma is very clear about her current company level and ability. Finally, Aunt Ma rejected the proposal. The reason is that Aunt Ma doesn't think that there are good managers in the company who can independently support the operation of a store. Aunt Ma often says in the company: "You all study hard, and when you are all excellent, we will open a branch." Aunt Ma once met excellent employees and thought it was too wasteful to stay in the company. She asked him to travel elsewhere, and if he had no money, he could come and work part-time.
After the normal operation of the company, Aunt Ma has a lot of free time. During this period, Aunt Ma began to contact online videos. She found it interesting to shoot videos and send them online, so she tried to shoot video clips herself. Aunt Ma first searched online for courses about shooting short videos and video clips. After studying for a week or so, she took photos of herself with her mobile phone. Once Aunt Ma started to do something, she devoted herself to this field. In the early days, Aunt Ma sent three videos a day and spent most of her time shooting or editing videos. This lasted for about a month, and Aunt Ma's video gradually became popular. Later, Aunt Ma's video became famous among online celebrities. Through advertising, video watching and online education, Aunt Ma's passive income is tens of thousands of RMB per month.
Aunt Ma keeps learning new things, and now she basically updates the video once a week. Later, she also learned to stock market, and she earned several hundred to several thousand RMB every day. She often laughs and says that she is not afraid of starvation in the future. If you have no money, you can play a circle of stocks, and the money for one day will come back. With children, she began to learn things about young people, such as skateboarding, pulleys and street signs, and began to spend more time with her family.
Aunt Ma's success is not accidental, but the unity of knowledge and action. When Aunt Ma decided to start a business, her mind was full of things about starting a business. What would she do in order to achieve this goal, and even for this goal, she went to work in a company in an industry she had never done before. When she encountered difficulties at the beginning of her business, she did not flinch, but tried her best to solve them. There is a saying: "When you work hard, the whole world will make concessions for you." Aunt Ma is such a person. Once she decides to do something, she will go all out, and nothing around her will affect her, because she only has her own goal in her eyes and what she will do to achieve it.
2.？ Ben Bixiong lost weight successfully.
Girls want to have a vest line and a proud figure, and so does Ben Bixiong. But Ben Bixiong is fat from birth to 19 years old. Since childhood, Stupid Bear has tried to lose weight countless times and finally failed. Looking back now, it would be a miracle if Ben Bixiong could lose weight.
In high school, Ben Bixiong saw all his friends start to lose weight, and he also had the determination to lose weight. Because of the tight study task in senior high school, Ben Bixiong decided not to eat rice, but only to eat a la carte every day. At first, Ben was still very excited, thinking that he would lose weight sooner or later. After a week, Ben Bixiong came to the weighing machine and found that he was not thin. He felt very angry and tired of losing weight, so he treated himself to a big meal that night. Later, Benben Bear ate less every time he wanted to lose weight, and felt that he was too tired to lose weight and treated himself well. If this is repeated, the stupid bear can lose weight.
Suddenly, I came to my sophomore year. At this time, Ben Bixiong had the determination to lose weight again, but unlike usual, Ben Bixiong didn't tell anyone about losing weight, but silently made a weight loss plan. I understand that the essence of losing weight is "keep your mouth shut and open your legs." Stupid bear's plan for himself is to eat only breakfast and lunch and not eat at night. Whenever he is free, Ben Bixiong goes running, skipping rope or dancing. Basically, I am either losing weight or studying every day.
Because the early stage is novel, it can be carried out as planned, but the later it is, the more difficult it is. Seeing that all my friends are eating delicious food, I can only drink water; I feel depressed every day, and I always feel unable to walk before running. Because I eat too little, I sometimes feel very hungry and want to eat. Many people fail to lose weight because they can't overcome these difficulties, and because they can't persist, they finally fail. But I don't want to keep getting fat, so I keep losing weight, losing weight, losing weight again, and so on.
Stupid bears have also encountered these situations in the process of losing weight. Stupid than bear's practice is that when you feel very hungry, if there is no class, you will sleep directly in the dormitory and feel much better after waking up. When you don't want to run, jog in the early stage. It doesn't matter how slow you run. The important thing is to spread your legs and run to the back more and more easily. When you feel depressed, just empty your mind and think nothing, and your mood will gradually calm down. Bumpy Bear once tried to eat only apples for a while, and with crazy exercise, he lost 20 pounds in three months.
Stupid than bear wants to remind girls who lose weight not to care too much about their weight. If you weigh yourself frequently every day, especially if you see that your weight is increasing instead of falling, it is easy to make people feel frustrated, and the harder it is to stick to it. The way to overcome this inner contradiction is to ignore the weight and let yourself develop good living habits. For example, don't eat rice for a long time, eat vegetables and fruits, quit snacks, and go for a walk in the park with your family when you are free.
It is difficult to cultivate a good habit, but as long as you form this habit, losing weight is not a painful thing, because every move you make unintentionally is to lose weight, and losing weight has become a natural thing, just like eating and drinking water every day. This is also the core of the unity of knowledge and action. I know how to lose weight and control myself according to the requirements of losing weight. Finally, I became a weight loss expert.
3.？ The supplier of Dumbo Elephant Bear wants to give up Dumbo Elephant Bear and contact the customer directly.
"Shopping malls are like battlefields." Silly Bixiong has been hanging out in the shopping mall, seeing and experiencing many things, and has a deep understanding of this sentence. There is also an old saying: "You can't hurt others, but you can't stop others." For many foreign trade companies, the most common struggle is how to avoid direct contact between customers and suppliers, because most foreign trade companies add some profits on the basis of ex-factory price and then sell them to foreign customers. They all make a living by selling services to earn the difference. Once the customer directly contacts the factory, the foreign trade company has no meaning of existence. In the long run, foreign trade companies will have to close down.
Ben Bixiong once worked in Sino-Japanese trade for some time. Besides dealing with all kinds of mails and some paperwork every day, he spends the rest of his time visiting the factory with his customers. According to Japanese requirements, Ben Bixiong needs to develop new products and find new suppliers. Because I don't know whether the new products will sell well in the early stage, most of the factories willing to cooperate are small and medium-sized enterprises. Ben Bixiong's boss is responsible for negotiating with the new factory, and Ben Bixiong is responsible for sorting out meeting minutes and learning experience.
After the dust of the preliminary negotiation work is settled, it is the factory inspection link. After the factory inspection is qualified, it will formally enter the sample confirmation link and finally confirm the official order. In the early days, because the order volume was not large and the customer's requirements were not understood, the factory still cooperated. Later, with the increase of orders, the proficiency of workers also improved. The factory thought it would make more profits to cooperate directly with customers, so it thought of kicking us out and began to find ways to approach customers actively.
One day, when Ben Bixiong was working in the company, he found that the supervisor was very angry and ran over and said, "Another factory took the initiative to contact customers and wanted to cooperate directly with customers, expressing its willingness to reduce profits." Then the supervisor showed Ben Bixiong the email sent by the Japanese customer. The Japanese refused to cooperate directly with the factory and asked us to rectify the supply chain management. Later, the company began to look for new suppliers with samples. The factory was kicked out when the quality of the products produced by the new supplier was stable.
In fact, in the early days, Ben Bixiong's company had already explained the rules of the game. As long as we abide by the rules of the game, the factory can continue to cooperate. However, suppliers are not satisfied, and feel that any businessman does not live for profit. As long as the benefits are large enough, any customer can win. But his customers are not from China, but traditional Japanese. For most Japanese companies, it is very important to be polite. Once the rules are set, everyone should abide by them.
Finally, I heard that the factory closed down, because domestic trade became more and more difficult, and foreign trade failed. This factory has failed to integrate knowledge with practice. He clearly knew the rules of the game, but ignored them, insisted on following his own ideas, and finally sent himself into a dead end. If you are not afraid of being smart, you are afraid of being smart, which will not only harm yourself, but also bring trouble to your family.
Many people obviously work hard, but their final exam results are not ideal at all, so they wonder if there is something wrong with their IQ. Many people have done their best in their work, but they can't deal with unexpected situations and various problems in their work. In the end, I can only stay in my original post and complain that the boss won't give me a promotion and a raise. Some people keep trying and making mistakes, and finally get into debt and complain that they were born in the wrong time.
No matter which dynasty or period we were born in, there will always be some rich people and some poor people. There is never a shortage of hard-working people in this world, but not everyone who works hard can succeed in the end. Judging from Ben Bixiong's shallow knowledge and experience, the reason why many people fail after their efforts is that they have not achieved "unity of knowledge and action". This sentence comes from Wang Yangming in Ming Dynasty, which is the core of Yangming culture and the code of conduct of Ben Bixiong all his life.
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