When I gave birth to my first child, my Dabao was born prematurely at 30 weeks. I have been depressed since I was born in the hospital. When I was discharged from the hospital on the third day, I collapsed at the thought of her living alone in the incubator. During the 40-minute drive, my tears kept falling uncontrollably. My mother comforted me: I can't shed so many tears in confinement, otherwise my eyes will have problems in the future. Looking back now, it was really a little postpartum depression. I can't help thinking the worst, so I can't help crying. The doctor told me to go home and learn more about the nursing of premature babies. When I got home, I kept checking with my mobile phone. At that time, I thought the most important thing at the moment was that the baby came back from the hospital to take care of her. I didn't take my mother's words to heart at all. My husband must go to work before giving birth. In order to let my baby eat my breast milk, I get up at six every morning and take the milk to the hospital in the cold wind. After about two weeks, the doctor finally informed the baby that he could leave the hospital. After the baby comes home, I feed and change diapers alone, and often bend over or sit for a long time.
I have always been reluctant to believe the old man's statement about confinement, and all kinds of disobedient actions during confinement have not made me feel uncomfortable, so I told my friends my "glorious deeds" in a proud tone not long after confinement. It was not until Dabao was almost one year old that my moon disease began to appear. Eyes always hurt inexplicably, and sometimes they cry outdoors. The wind on a hot day blows all the way to your head, which hurts more. What bothers me is a sour backache. Tired to stand up and cook, I feel my waist is broken, not my own. This sore state lasted until Dabao was almost three years old. Knowing that she was pregnant with Bao Xiao, she made up her mind to have a good confinement.
After giving birth to Bao Xiao, I started to be a shopkeeper and insisted that my wife come and help me. My husband also took a month's maternity leave.
It's been two years since I sat for the second month, and I haven't suffered from the moon disease before I gave birth. People around me say that I am better than before, and I feel really much better than before. All along, women must pay attention to confinement, which will really affect their health. Finally, the practice of improving physical problems through confinement with a second child is only my own personal experience, and it does not mean that it is suitable for every mother. Please be rational.
If the parturient does not get a good rest and recovery in the second month, then the body will leave the root cause of the disease, and the probability of recurrence in the future is very high, which is often referred to as moon disease.
The attack of wind and cold is the main cause of lunar disease. Whether it is a natural delivery or a caesarean section, it consumes physical strength and damages the body. Postpartum weakness, skin pores and bones open. At this time, cold can easily invade the body. Moon disease is a variety of diseases caused by wind-cold attacking human body.
If the head catches cold, it will easily lead to headache in the future, and contact with cold water will lead to finger joint pain. Thin clothes and trousers can easily cause pain in knees, elbows and limbs, and shoes and socks can easily cause heel pain.
There are also different degrees of pain in various parts of the body, fear of cold, fatigue, night sweats, joint pain and numbness, and so on.
So be sure to keep warm and not cold. The key is to avoid catching cold.
Don't overwork yourself. Besides keeping warm and cold, don't overwork. Many treasure moms reported that their wrists hurt after giving birth and they were afraid to lift heavy objects. These are the manifestations of wrist arthritis and tenosynovitis of the thumb, and they are also a kind of lunar disease, which may be the result of excessive use of wrists, holding children for a long time and improper feeding posture.
In order to prevent this, it is necessary to avoid the attack of cold and not be too tired.
Often backache and backache. You may be in good health before giving birth, and you don't feel tired when you do more housework. But after giving birth to a child, you will feel weak and weak when you do some work, and this symptom will be more serious in rainy days, indicating that you are ill. It is likely that Ma Bao didn't have a good rest during confinement, got out of bed early and did some heavy housework, which led to waist strain, and this pain may accompany her all her life.
It is not advisable to hold the baby for too long during the month, and pay attention to the warmth of the back.
Therefore, we should pay attention to keep warm during confinement, and new mothers should pay attention to keep their heads and hands warm during confinement to avoid cold stimulation. Pay attention to the combination of work and rest, avoid overwork, keep enough sleep and exercise properly, which is conducive to the repair of the body.
Personally, I think the word "moon disease" is a false proposition. Postpartum rest and maintenance is really important, but don't say it easily, which will make novice mothers relish it and make some people who are already delicate more and more hypocritical.
Often said moon disease: backache, headache, cracked heel ... Puerperal period is a recovery process, maternal hormones are changing suddenly, and the body is also adjusting itself.
Low back pain is related to improper posture of holding the baby and breastfeeding. When you are old, the causes of low back pain and back pain are physical degradation and muscle strain accumulated over the years ... as long as there is something, blame the moon for not sitting well. Then ask, where does the old man's low back pain come from?
Confinement is a tradition in China. Don't make moon sickness so mysterious. It is necessary to love yourself. Too much emphasis on the disease of the moon will not make it incomprehensible ... It is sad that those cases that led to collapse and died in confinement can still appear in today's information-developed society!
Regarding confinement, let's look at this issue rationally.
Hello, I'm Xiao Dan. Now I'd like to discuss with you my views on moon disease.
Speaking of confinement, I really have a deep understanding.
When I had Dabao, I had been with cervical spondylosis for more than ten years because I didn't do well. My Dabao vomited milk very badly when he was a child. As long as you drink milk, you have to hold it back, otherwise your face will turn red in a moment, and your nose, mouth and ears will be full of milk, just like a volcanic eruption. In order to make the child suffer less, I held him for more than ten minutes before putting it down. Because I often hold my baby in the second month, I have neck pain, wrist pain, leg pain, back pain and various joint pains. Later, after the full moon, I went to your mother's house and sat with my mother to help with the baby. I have time to lie down and rest. Another month of confinement, only the problem of cervical pain was not cured. Because the baby wants to eat milk and the mother can't take medicine, it becomes chronic to treat cervical spondylosis after the baby stops breastfeeding. Up to now, more than ten years have passed, and my cervical vertebra hurts every day.
Therefore, I advise your precious mother not to hold her baby often, especially not to keep looking down at her cute little appearance. Be sure to have a good rest and keep warm. Don't catch a cold, or it will affect your health all your life.
Hello, I'm Ma Bao Nian, and I'm glad to answer your questions. When it comes to moon sickness, I still have a say, so I want to tell you with my experience that if you don't listen to the old man, you will really suffer! Let me share my experience with you:
It's getting hotter every day after confinement, and the natural delivery has recovered well. I am still secretly pleased: isn't this a problem? That means my health is fine! But when it comes to autumn and winter, problems arise. My heels always feel cold. I don't remember feeling this way before.
Conclusion Although the family conditions are good now, and doctors also suggest scientific confinement and pay attention to your personal hygiene, I still want to talk about the importance of keeping warm. No matter whether you take a bath and wash your hair or ventilate every day, these will not affect your warmth. Once you catch a cold, it's really hard to feel, so my advice to you is: keep warm!
I'm Ma Bao in 2008. Welcome to pay attention to "Nianbao" and exchange parenting experience together. Just gave birth to a second child for one month, with joint pain, heel pain, back pain and headache. Because my child was hospitalized 20 days ago with pneumonia caused by severe choking, and the child was breast-fed, so I had to accompany him. The doctor only allows two people to accompany me at special times now. The beds in the children's ward are designed according to the children. I can only sleep on the folding chair. My mother or my mother-in-law takes care of us when she is too busy. I have to do something by myself. I stayed in the hospital for a week and didn't have a good sleep. I didn't lie down at all When I came back from the hospital, the weather was terrible and there was a strong wind. Although I wore a hat and long sleeves, it still gave me a headache and hurt all over. This month is ineffective again [tears]. My mother said to make it up again, but I guess it's enough.
Hello, I'm Xiao Mo. Let me talk about moon disease. ...
As a second-born mother, I just gave birth to my second month, and I'm complaining here! First of all, I want to emphasize that the second-born mother must have a good rest. Don't be brave. My personal experience tells me that the second child is not as fast as the first child! And very weak! Of course, only-child mothers should also take care of themselves. Maternal character is cruel, weak, often sweating and catching a cold is the root of moon disease!
In the second month, the child will eat and sleep, don't think about anything, just sleep with him. It's really annoying that you are being coaxed by the baby's father. Just this month, tell him to take good care of the baby after a good rest this month, or he can't stop it if he doesn't have a good rest ... Anyway, mother will have a good rest, and her mood is cruel and important. Tell Bao's parents that Bao's mother in the second month is easy to lose control of her emotions, so Bao's parents are more tolerant, not melodramatic, and really won't. Remember one sentence.
Hello, I am a good mother who studies parenting, and I share interesting parenting knowledge with you with my own experience in caring for my baby.
There is some truth in the confinement handed down from China. Although many people don't pay attention to this now, as a second-born mother, I want to say that confinement is still very important.
Postpartum itself is weak, whether it is caesarean section or natural delivery, we should pay attention to rest and let the body recover in time. A little carelessness will lead to moon disease.
I have to say that many women take care of their babies after giving birth. In this case, it is necessary to take advantage of the debris time and take good care of yourself.
It is very important to sit on the moon. There are several points to pay attention to: First, don't use your eyes too much.
Did anyone get bored with playing mobile phones for the second month, which led to worsening myopia and dry eyes? I am. The frequency of watching mobile phones during the second child is relatively high, which leads to double myopia.
Therefore, during confinement, it is necessary to strictly control the time of playing mobile phones. This kind of lunar disease is irreversible.
Second, try not to push hard and not to catch cold.
Don't wash your hands and face with cold water during confinement, even in summer. I have a mother who is imprisoned by herself. She washes diapers with cold water, and her fingers are sore and swollen in winter. In addition, you must not blow the air conditioner directly in summer.
Don't push too hard, it is easy to make your weak body worse.
Third, you can take a bath and wash your hair, but be careful not to take a bath for too long.
You can take a bath and wash your hair during the month. But pay attention to dry your hair in time after washing it first; Secondly, you should choose a shower for bathing, and you can't take a bath or take a bath; Finally, the bath time should not be too long, postpartum itself is weak, and taking a bath for too long is easy to cause dizziness.
Fourth, use the fragmentation time to adjust your state.
The newborn's sleep is irregular, which requires us to take a quick rest when the baby sleeps, otherwise the baby will watch the mobile phone and do housework when sleeping. The baby woke up before he had a rest. Therefore, postpartum mothers must make full use of the debris time to adjust their status according to their own situation.
Conclusion: The older generation said that the disease of confinement can only be treated by confinement, which shows that it is very painful to get sick. Therefore, after giving birth, pregnant women should make full use of their families around them, pay attention to themselves as much as possible and do a good job. So as not to leave irreparable harm.
Hello! Let me talk about my moon disease! My moon disease is my tooth. The day after Dabao was born, I was anxious to brush my teeth with cold water twice. I just wanted to be hygienic, and then I ate cold apples. I didn't feel anything at the time! When the child is older, it will be cold, sour and hard to eat. I feel my teeth are crisp, and it is hard to bite anything. In fact, you can brush your teeth when you are confined, just use warm water and mouthwash. After all, hygiene is still very important! I hope it helps you.