What "harmful" experiences have you encountered?
When I first started working, some old-timers or colleagues always told me that sometimes I had to put myself in others' shoes. In fact, now that I think about it, this experience is really inappropriate and a bit harmful. In today's society, we all live under big data and the Internet, and sometimes we really don't know what the specific situation of the opposite person is. How can we put ourselves in others' shoes? So I don't think this sentence is really wise?