When your kindness is criticized, remember to tell yourself that your kindness is only responsible for your own conscience, and you don't have to care what others say.
People will encounter unpleasant things and people in life. If you don't learn to forgive, you will have a very painful and tired life. Forgiveness is a kind of grace, a kind of feeling, it is like an umbrella to help you walk in the rainy season. Learn to forgive and learn to be happy.
There are always so many disappointments in life, but we should stick to it with an optimistic attitude. Don't always tell your sadness, others will only listen to it as a joke, and learn to bear it yourself.
5. Everything in life is not calculated, but good; I didn't ask for it, I fixed it. The breadth of mind determines the pattern of fate. You can have as much as you can tolerate.
6. The reason why people worry lies in memory; The reason why people are tired lies in wandering; People are happy because they are open-minded; The reason why people are mature lies in seeing through; The reason why people give up lies in choice; The reason why people are tolerant lies in understanding; The reason why people are human lies in their feelings; The reason why people are rich is the process; The reason why people succeed lies in diligence; People are happy because they are content.
7. Remember to be patient when life is in adversity. When life is good, remember to converge. When you are proud of your life, remember to watch and talk. When life is frustrated, remember to follow the fate. When you are in a bad mood, you need to cultivate yourself. When you are in a good mood, you need to dive.
8. It is better to light a candle than to complain about the darkness; It is better to solve the lake water than to complain about its turbidity. Don't be impatient. If you complain, you must calm your heart. Only when you calm down can you hear the sound of the clock swinging.
9. No matter how lucky or unfortunate life is, it's all in the past, just like the rain outside the window, it's soaked, wet, gone and far away. Once beautiful, stay in my heart, once sad, put behind me, do not love, do not hate. Learn to forget, know how to give up, and life always moves from farewell to tomorrow. Tell yourself quietly, it's okay, everything is like this.
10. Slow, you can think twice; Retreat, you can stay away from disaster; Giving up can raise happiness; Silence can prolong life.
1 1. Life is conservative: laziness when you are young will turn into tears of regret when you grow up; The first half of life saves land, and the second half will become a painful scar; If you don't know how to work hard in the first half of your life, you will become weak in the second half. Life never starts too late, and there is never a lack of painful understanding. What I am afraid of is that some people are already trying to seek change, while others are still stuck in it.
12. Someone once said: Appearance is a portrayal of a person's mind, and face is the solidification of a person's emotions. Indeed, when a person is kind, kind, educated and tasteful; Joy fills her heart, and when it is reflected on her face, she will certainly become more beautiful and tasteful, otherwise, she will become uglier and more atrophied. Be responsible for your appearance and be compassionate inside.
13. On the road of life, the best, perhaps not necessarily the most suitable for us, the most suitable, is the real best. Understand with your heart, love with your feelings, get together by destiny, and have dreams.
14. The wisdom of the wise often lies in treating the environment with gratitude, having no regrets, and creating their own brilliance with gratitude!
15. We don't have to envy what others have. As long as we work hard, we will have it. When we have it, don't show off. Others are working hard, and sooner or later there will be. Laugh happily every day, sleep when you are tired, laugh when you wake up, and life should be so easy.
16. When people are upset, they only see who provoked them. They always complain about others, this and that, never complain that they can't see through, can't figure it out, and never look for reasons from themselves. They only know that they have troubles every day, but forget that this is a normal thing and they don't pick nature.
17. Put up with everything for three minutes. Being angry for three minutes will calm you down a lot. If you wait three days, you will at least stop doing impulsive things. If it is an unhappy mood, it may disappear after three minutes; If it is the hardship of life, wait three days, and maybe you can see new hope. Maybe waiting can't change the reality, but it can change your mentality enough to deal with all difficult problems.
18. Over the years, many things have become lighter, and there is nothing you can't afford to lose. Those who are willing to stay will get along well; If you want to go far away, just wave and say you're sorry. Do things well, work hard to make money, learn to take responsibility, and learn to abandon unnecessary burdens. Life is too short to care too much. It is better to spend the rest of your life in comfort than to spend a year in chaos.
19. It can be said that being broad-minded is another gain in life. Tolerance is a kind of beauty of human nature, and meanness is a kind of harm to oneself.
20. Sometimes we are unhappy because we care too much about other people's feelings. A criticism and a trivial matter are all in our hearts, which makes the outside world control our mood. We may forget what others said and did, but we are still torturing ourselves. It's not easy to live, so you don't have to jump out of the trap set by others unintentionally. Live more for yourself, many people have nothing to do with you.
2 1. Don't bring trouble to yourself or others. Be careful if you are good to yourself; If you are kind to others, you should care. Looking at others is annoying; Look at yourself, smart student. Be considerate of others, you are a man; Know yourself before you do things. People can't stand the test, so don't test people easily. It's hard to get into people's hearts, and it's even harder to get into your own. The heart is uncertain, so everything is uncertain; If it is confirmed, decide now. Peace of mind leads to wisdom, confusion leads to stupidity.
22. In the form of studying Buddhism, it is actually seeking fame and profit. Don't just look at the immediate interests, take a long-term view, less vulgar complaints, and do more things that benefit all beings.
23. Still water can distinguish things, and people can observe the heart. Meditation does not float, meditation can understand. Only when you are calm as water can you think objectively and rationally and make a correct judgment. Take water as a mirror and shine on people facing the water. "Quiet" can be said to be one of the ways to keep a clear head in an impetuous society.
24. When we are thirsty, we know that fresh water can quench our thirst, which is the stage of understanding; On the basis of knowing that fresh water can quench thirst, try the taste of water a little, whether it is a drop or two. In short, you know the taste of water more deeply than before, but you haven't completely quenched your thirst. This is the perception stage; Finally, after drinking enough water, the thirst has disappeared, which is the stage of enlightenment.