But before that, we need to be clear about two issues. 1. What effect does phenylethylamine have on human body? Second, does the secretion of phenylethylamine really help him fall in love with you?
1. What effect does phenylethylamine have on human body?
Phenylethylamine can be regarded as a stimulant secreted by human body and an endocrine, just like blood sugar, which can be measured by medical instruments. Under normal circumstances, phenylethylamine in human body is in a stable state. If the content of phenylethylamine in the body is low, it will lead to depression and depression. When the content of phenylethylamine in your body is high, it happens to be when your mood is high!
I found that many girls are easily troubled by depression, and the probability of young women suffering from depression is much higher than that of men. If you feel depressed, you can eat some foods with high phenylethylamine content, such as chocolate, lettuce, ginseng, walnut kernel, medlar, jujube and so on. It is said that in Germany, there is a popular food called lovelorn pill, which is actually a kind of food rich in phenylethylamine. Taking phenylethylamine can relieve depression after lovelorn.
Of course, what I want to emphasize here is that food can only help you relieve depression, but it can't help you treat depression. So if you have depression, you still have to go to the hospital!
Second, does the secretion of phenylethylamine really help the male god fall in love with you?
You may have heard that phenylethylamine is a substance secreted by people when they are in love. Yes, when a person falls in love, it is actually the "love substance" in the body that begins to secrete. Scientific research shows that "love substances" include dopamine, isoproterenol, phenylethylamine and endorphins. Among them, phenylethylamine is the most prominent.
When men feel "like" you, phenylethylamine will start to secrete, and once phenylethylamine starts to secrete, it will enhance that feeling of "like". But you may have noticed that there is a problem here. The secretion of phenylethylamine is the result of liking a person, not the cause. That is to say, first of all, his feeling of "liking", then the brain secretes phenylethylamine, and then phenylethylamine makes him "like" more.
Then the question is coming. On your first date with the male god, it was clear that he didn't feel "like", so how did you let him secrete phenylethylamine?
Studies have shown that when a person is in an environment that can cause strong emotions such as fear and stimulation, he can also stimulate the secretion of phenylethylamine.
However, this fear stimulates the phenylethylamine secreted by environmental stimuli, will it make the male god feel "like" for us? Researchers have long confirmed that emotional arousal has a great relationship with sexual attraction.
Someone did an experiment: they found a group of male subjects and took them to a scenic spot in the Grand Canyon for testing. Two suspension bridges were built over the Grand Canyon, one for tourists to use, strong and safe; The other one looks dangerous and scary. They arranged for male subjects to walk across one of the bridges at random. No matter which bridge they take, a female research assistant greets them across the bridge.
The female research assistant showed the male subjects who had just crossed the bridge a photo of a woman and then asked them to write a short story. Then the female research assistant thanked the subject and left her home phone number, and then casually told her that if he wanted to continue the discussion about the experiment, he could call her.
Through this experiment, the researchers want to find out under what circumstances men will write stories with more sexual fantasies, and which men will take the words of female research assistants as hints to invite him to call. You have guessed the result of the experiment. The man who crossed the dangerous bridge wrote more erotic stories and took the initiative to call the female assistant to discuss the traumatic experience of the day.
This shows that the stimulation brought by fear promotes the secretion of phenylethylamine, and our brains do not distinguish the differences of phenylethylamine secreted by different reasons, thus mistakenly thinking that we "like" that person. In other words, just let the brain of the male god secrete phenylethylamine, and then his brain will fall in love with you almost uncontrollably!
Third, what should I do on the first date?
The first impression effect refers to the first impression formed by both parties in communication, which often has the most vivid and firm influence on future communication. This tells us that the first date is very important! If you can make the male god infatuate with you on the first date, then your future development will be much easier. But if you don't get rid of the male god on the first date, it will take a lot of time and energy to get rid of him later, and there may not be any results.
We have discussed the role of phenylethylamine, and we know that stimulating the secretion of phenylethylamine in a boy's brain through an environment of fear and excitement will help him fall in love with you. This tells us that it is best to choose some exciting and scary scenes for the first date, and you need to experience some exciting and scary projects. For example, you can take a male god to go rafting, riding a horse, visiting a haunted house, or going to a horror movie or even bungee jumping. In short, it must be a project that can make him feel excited or nervous.
After that, you can go to a well-decorated restaurant to eat and share your nervousness:
Sharing anxiety and discussing the current tense situation can bring you closer. Therefore, after experiencing intense stimulation, you must find an environment that can make you feel safe, comfortable and warm, so that the emotions of male gods can be relaxed from the tense state and it is easier to share their true feelings.
Before this date, you can actually do something that makes the male god nervous in advance, which will help the date to be more complete and maximize the role of phenylethylamine.
Someone once did an experiment in which a group of male subjects were brought to a laboratory. The subjects were randomly divided into two groups. One group of subjects was told that they would undergo a strong and painful electric shock test. For another group of subjects, the next electric shock was mild and didn't hurt much.
While each subject is waiting for the test, the researcher will introduce him to a young woman and make him think that she is also a subject of the experiment. After a brief conversation, the researchers asked male subjects to fill out a questionnaire to evaluate the women they had just met.
As a result, those who thought they would get a strong electric shock rated the lady higher than those who were more relaxed. This proves that when a person has intense emotional fluctuations in his heart, he can easily show his love for life.
So, before dating, you can describe to the male god how scary and exciting your date will be tomorrow. Or simply, take him to experience exciting projects that he has never experienced before, so that he can prepare something he needs in advance, so that he can have more time to think about how to spend tomorrow's date, so that he can spend more time in excitement or anxiety, so that his brain can secrete more phenylethylamine and like you more easily.
Finally, sort out some good items to choose from when dating:
1, drift
Step 2 ride a horse
Step 3 bungee jump
Step 4 camp out
5. haunted house
6. Amusement park (roller coaster, pendulum, etc.). )
7. Escape from the Chamber of Secrets