If you want to find someone who really loves you, don't listen to what he says, but look at what he does, not what he does in front of everyone, but what he does unintentionally. Because life is alive, not spoken. Life is lived by two people behind closed doors, not for everyone to see. Tu Lei
Third, bad words are always said by lovers. This is called advice when most needed is least heeded! Good things only goblins say. This is called honey mouth sword! Those women who live with you, play with your temper, take care of your children and spend a lifetime together are the ones you cherish most! And those women who miss your ticket, sit in your car, miss your house and just want to hang out with you for a while are the ones you should guard against most! Tu Lei
Fourth, a feeling that can be easily lost means that you have never had it, and a lover that can be easily lost means that you have never loved it! Although the prodigal son is crying now, he came back to you because he was convinced of your kindness and cried, not for your guilt, but for his own sadness! Remember, when the spring breeze is prosperous, the prodigal son is the most precious, and the desperate temporary shelter is the most hypocritical! Tu Lei
Never talk about love with a poor boy. An ambitious poor boy will not want love, but will choose to struggle. When a good woman falls in love with a poor boy and helps him progress, she doesn't expect anything in return. Just because a poor boy is willing to be with you when he is frustrated doesn't mean that he will be with you after he succeeds. In other words, the first thing he betrayed was to help his lover sincerely. In real life, there are countless such examples. Tu Lei
6. A man who respects you will take the initiative to talk about money with you, because he knows that marrying you should give you a good life. This is a man's responsibility and obligation. He can't bear to let you eat bran and wild vegetables with him. Of course, the premise is that you are a self-respecting and self-loving woman! A man who doesn't respect you, as long as you talk to him about money, he will say that you are too poor, don't love rich people and think that you are not attractive to him. Or if you talk about money, make an offer, but you are just a number, not respect! Remember: stupid women often bargain and even raise prices, so it's cheap! Smart women never bid, let alone bargain, so it is priceless! Tu Lei
Seven, a sharp word, sent to the man * * * mian: "It is a kind of courage to marry you, and it takes a lot of courage to have children for you. A man can't even tolerate his wife, what else can he talk about? " Don't always try to tell your wife how difficult your mother is, and your mother is no longer easy. This is mainly caused by your father (or the environment), which is your father's responsibility; But where is your wife? Your daughter-in-law is not easy because of you. She is alone except you. "-Tu Lei
8. Never be a third party. When a man can betray his wife and stay with you, he will betray you because of other women, and your situation will be worse than his wife's. Tu Lei
Nine, a kind woman controls a man's stomach, a utilitarian woman controls a man's money, a stupid woman controls a man's body, and a smart woman controls her own dignity. Tu Lei
Ten, the spare tire should also meet the size and brand, otherwise the spare tire will become a scrap tire sooner or later, which is a bit cruel, but this is life. Garbage is sometimes a misplaced talent, and lovers are sometimes enemies in the wrong arms! Spare tire, also reasonable, is valuable! Pay, but also have dignity and bottom line, so as not to be looked down upon! Tu Lei
Eleven, if you love, please love deeply, if you dislike, please thoroughly, don't be ambiguous and hurt others. Besides, I want to tell you that every lover is not perfect. This man can give you loyalty, another man can give you romance, and another man can give you wealth, but a person's real happiness is not to get more, but to care less. Maybe your love life will be smoother in the future. Tu Lei
Twelve, it is not love that brings hope to women, but the responsibility of men; It is not love that brings men a sense of security, but women's contribution to the family. Tu Lei
Thirteen, a man who can only coax a woman is a liar, and one day he will show his true face! Men who only spoil women are slaves and will resist one day! Only a man who understands women wholeheartedly is sincere, because he regards understanding women as a lifelong pleasure and loving women as a lifelong career! Tu Lei
Fourteen, a man in the process of marriage, through his three different understandings of mistakes, can reflect what kind of feelings he has for this woman. First, the idea of cheating came to an abrupt end, indicating that this man loves this woman. Second, when this man has cheated, the fact is confirmed, and he wants to come back, it is called nostalgia for this woman. Third, I ran into a wall outside, and the fact happened. I was dumped by the other side, so I thought of you at this time. This is not love, nor nostalgia, but going home. Tu Lei
Fifteen, when women's motherhood is rampant, men's love is almost zero. Because he is only grateful to you and has no love. Tu Lei
Sixteen, only love without love, no fit! No one was born for you. The running-in process is painful, but the later harmony is more meaningful! People who give up halfway just don't love enough, just say they are not suitable. It is an excuse to say that fate and love are not separated! True love, just stick to it. Without purgatory-like running-in with each other, how can there be a romantic life with heart and soul? Tu Lei
17. Love mixed with money is like rotten rice. On the surface, it makes no difference, but it's actually hard to swallow. Tu Lei
When you fall to the bottom of your life, people around you tell you to be strong and happy. Being strong is absolutely necessary, but what about happiness? I'm afraid it's too difficult for you in this case. After all, who can feel happy when he falls badly? But at least you can calm down. Look at this matter calmly and deal with other things that should be handled calmly. Calm down, no joy or sorrow. Tu Lei
Nineteen, for those who hurt us, it is infatuation to forgive once, tolerance to forgive twice, and meanness to forgive three times. Tu Lei
If you manage this thing well, your investment will pay off. But if it's just an adventure, it's not an investment, it's stealing chickens and dogs. The consequence of stealing chickens is that you can't steal chickens, but you eat rice. Tu Lei
Twenty-one, you have bought a dress that you like very much but can't bear to wear, and solemnly enshrined it in the closet; It's been a long time, and when I look at it again, I find it is out of date. So, you missed it. You once bought a beautiful cake but couldn't bear to eat it, and solemnly enshrined it in the refrigerator; It's been a long time, and when I look at it again, I find it has expired. So, you also missed it. Unfortunately, I don't wear clothes when I like it best, and I don't taste cake when I want to eat it most, just like I don't do what I want to do most. Life also has a shelf life, so you should do what you want as soon as possible. If you just solemnly enshrine your wishes in your heart, but never carry them out, then the only result is to miss them, just like that outdated dress, just like that expired cake. Tu Lei